Wednesday, December 14

Dinner with Friend

I mentioned previously in A New Friend how I met a woman at the gym and we had been getting friendly. She's in her mid-thirties, married, and a Mom of two young children. We see each other at fitness classes, and we've been out for a lunch and a dinner. Just had a second dinner with her in the neighbourhood, and things got a bit... spicy!

She doesn't work outside the home, and feels isolated, so she's happy that we're becoming friends (as am I). She went to University and worked before having kids, but then made her kids her priority. 

We "treated ourselves" to a fancy restaurant within walking distance of both of us. It's a nice place, so we both got a bit dressed up. David knows what's on my mind, and encourages me, the naughty boy. Her husband was away, but she has a nanny to help with the kids. We started with a cocktail each, then went on to a bottle of wine with dinner. We got pretty loose along the way!

She seemed eager to talk, so I let her. I learned a while ago that being a great conversationalist is to let the other person do most of the talking, and about themselves, if they're so inclined, nudging them along and expressing interest, steering things in interesting directions.

I got the whole update on her kids, whom she adores. It's nice to see a parent who so loves and is so proud of her children.

I asked after her husband and that got her started. She complains a lot about her husband who's some kind of big wig accountant type. He's constantly away, pretty distant, and she's sure he fucks around on her (!) but can't prove it. When I asked her "how's the bedroom stuff?", she said "practically nonexistent". "Oh, I'm sorry," I said, and let that hang there.

This was a bit of a fork in the road. I had upped the intimacy by taking it into the bedroom. She could either steer away, or stay on it. She stayed on it.

"How about you?" she asked, after a pause.

"No complaints in that department," I said. And there it was, the perfect opportunity, so I continued, without pause, "We're pretty kinky together, so it's fun."

Another fork in the road. She could let it drop, or...

"Do tell," she said, her eyes lighting up.

I felt a blush come up in my cheeks. The restaurant was dark, so she likely could not see. "Now I'm blushing," I said.

"You don't have to tell," she said.

"No, no. I'm not bashful." I leaned closer into her and said in a more subdued voice, "We're into a little of that dominance and submission type stuff."

"Mmmm. Who's the dominant one?"

Interesting question that she didn't just assume it was my husband dominating me. What to say? We, as you all know, switch both ways. I decided to let her guide which way to go.

"What's your guess?"

"You. Definitely you!"

I felt a tingle. Clearly that's how she saw me: as the naturally dominant type. I didn't want to disappoint, so I went with that.

"Does it show?" I asked, leaning in a bit more.

"It does," she said, a bit breathlessly. We were looking into each other's eyes, and I saw her tongue briefly flick at her lips. The subby vibes were pouring off her. I went for it!

"Are you a little subby girl? Do you want me to spank you like I do my husband?"

"Yes!" she said.

I stopped it there and laughed it off. I wanted her, in her bedroom later that night, jilling off to the thought of me spanking her. Yes, the tables had turned. I was playing hard to get. I excused myself to go to the bathroom. A little "cooling off" period for us both.

When I returned, we went back to more normal topics, as if what had been said had not even been said. She asked me more about David. How we met and all.  And we discussed our more extended families.  And we discussed some of the people at fitness class, making up stories about them.

Dinner came to an end. We got our coats and stepped outside. She was going one way and I was going the other.

"That was lovely," I said, and we hugged.

I thought I'd leave her with something... I reached around to her bum and gave it a few pats over her coat. "You just tell me when you want that spanking," I whispered in her ear. Before she could answer, I kissed her on the lips. She kissed back.  "Mmmmmm" I said as we separated. "Good night, sweetie, that was fun."

"Yeah..." she said a bit breathlessly. "Let's do that again. Soon."

"Absolutely."

So... have I still got it, or have I still got it?

What do you guys think? Did I play it well? Was she thinking about me at lights out? Did she... stroke herself? I hope so!

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  1. You played it wonderfully! I'm looking forward to reading in an upcoming post how you spank her bright red and she's dripping wet.

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  2. First time commenter...long time lurker...Love your blog-- To your question above--she DEFINITELY had you on her mind as she 'put' herself to sleep. Ha!

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  3. You rocked it Jules! Atta girl!

    Since she has kids, definitely make her stand in the corner before you spank her!

    She won’t be able to explain why she’s getting so wet from something so humiliating.

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    1. Not sure if she's into the DD or is just coming onto me? Either is good by me!

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  4. Spicy to be sure, but how naughty to mislead that young woman. Knowing very well that you're a spanked wife at the end of the day after play is done.

    Surely you would feel misled if someone were to play macho Dom/me but then be subject to being reduced to a kicking crying punished little girl with a bright red butt.

    Perhaps David should take action and remind you who at the end of the day wears the Dom pants. Then require you to post about it perhaps with pictures.

    I also eagerly await the yearly husband present post as well.

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    1. Switchy? I'll take the birch switch to your naked ass. Skirt up, panties down, girl! First a good birching,then I'll shoot a load of rich warm semen into your tight little bung-hole. I catch you with that little tramp again,I'll birch both of you while your husband watches. Then we'll take turns humping both of you, in all three holes!

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    2. Actually, sounds like fun!

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    3. Rogering here. Indeed it does but take it easy and see what runs,

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  5. She wants a spanking, has not had a spanking, so she took the first step and let it be known. Knowing first hand what she is now thinking, once it happens she will realize it is so much more. My concern is how hard and long will you go, in my case, my wife could care less about what I thought, I was over her lap and my bare bottom was going to learn what a spanking is. As far as her, the sexual part is going to surprise her and what she does after the spanking is going to be interesting. Jack

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    1. She may be conceiving it as more like a good girl sexy spanking as opposed to a punishment spanking.

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    2. But, good girl sexy spanking would mean how far is she wanting to go, and how far do you think she can go. Jack

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    3. Some people see it more as a sex act than a punishment.

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    4. My wife reminds me, the reason she allows me to read your blog is that you show what a female can do. She reminds me of the sisterhood, and female look out for females, and when it comes to sexual desires she admits that another woman can fill that void and the man will know nothing. She saids in our home, she is the boss and as I have learned when I think I know her she will remind me I do not. Women should rule, they raise the child and it should never be stopped. Your good. Jack

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    5. You are precisely what is wrong with the world.

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    6. Who? Me or jack? We humour jack here, he is my mascot. Hands off my mascot! 🐶

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    7. You are a cool sexy young hot piece of delectable ass! Jack is not. Jack is the problem. Jack,grow a pair.

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    8. It definitely feels more like she's begging for a good girl sexy spanking rather than a punishment style one. I think you're on the right track.

      She was probably dripping wet the instant you whispered in her ear, that was super hot. And since you left it hanging like that, she's at home with her hitachi gushing orgasms imagining what you're going to do to her.
      That's some next level mindfuckery, you're a kinky genius!
      -Cheeky Chad

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    9. Thank you. And alls well that ends with a big O!

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  6. May I watch? Please?

    Rosco

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  7. This totally reminds me of a story I recently wrote, with the Sims girl Summer and I.

    How I felt about as innocent as a spider casting a web!

    I think you’ve casted the web Miss Julie, with your new friend. Go get her!

    Mistress Andrea xoxo

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  8. What a delightful probablity. I am certain you will end up spanking her, but how you play this will be fun to read. It will also have you dreaming sweet dreams of just what you want to do with this woman, sexually, and eventually if you will invite David. So many possibilities. Fun to imagine you reaching out to someone else to partake in your kinky sex life. I heartily approve.
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. Does bring a bit of spice to life. Even David is enjoying it and wondering what's next. Me too!

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    2. So many possibilities and opportunities to bring spice into life, and not experimenting once might simply lead to regret when one is much older. This sounds like a very safe adventure, so do pursue it. bottoms up Red

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    3. It was very fun, with hopefully more to come. Writing it up now.

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  9. Hope the nanny doesn't catch her playing with herself in the morning! Although that would give you something to spank her for...

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  10. What if... now here me out...

    Your new friend was already a strictjuliespanks lurker, your previous posts have already interested her, peaked her interest in kinky/spanking times, yet she never got to enjoy in real life due to her nonexistant bedroom stuff, and she has now hit the jackpot of meeting the real strictjulie in person!

    To add to that, your New Friend now knows who you are and what you are thinking, thanks to the confirmation with this post, while having plausible deniability with you of her knowing...

    She is so thinking about you after the lights go out...

    Just as all of your StrictJulie fans are thinking of you after the lights go out... along with stroking...

    Can't wait to hear about your next visit with your new friend!

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  11. It's interesting to see a reaction to a spanking comment but often hard to judge if it's real interest or shock.
    As you have now broken the ice it will be interesting to see her reaction after she has had time to digest.
    Here's hoping you have a convert !

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    1. It's definitely sexual interest. But is it, "I want to try kink" or is it just that everybody now finds a little spanky-spanky to be fun and sexy? If the latter, and you do anything other than a few sensual taps, you'll find out real fast! WHAT THE FUCK?!?

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    2. Can’t wait to see how you navigate this… even if it’s the latter, I’m confident you’ll manage to bring her around to be an enthusiastic playmate. And to have both her and David under your imaginative discipline …. the possibilities! Even three-way switching (pun intended). Or you could assign her to be David’s trainer, with consequences for lack of progress.
      Raul…

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    3. If she does agree to a sexy trip over your knee you want to make it sensual yet stingy if you want her to come back for more.
      You can ramp it up gradually if she seems to be into it...with a bit of luck she will be begging you to spank her harder!

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  12. Somehow, this ends up being one of the hottest things you've ever written (and that's saying a LOT!).
    Must be the antici..............pation.

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    1. I'm realizing, in my old age, that anticipation is half the fun!

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    2. Yes it is, combined with pent-up hormones! Have you ever denied David from cumming for a few sessions? Like Yoga Girl? You would be amazed how much attention you would get.
      Raul…

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    3. Yes, I've had him "hold back" for a while to build anticipation.

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    4. Dang yoga girl is gone? Was hot.
      -dreaming of your instruction

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    5. Yes, yoga girl long gone. 😢

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    6. It would get me stiff reading of her haughty and spirtually upstanding manner of controlling her man.

      I wish you would lock me up and make me a servant puppy to you, any ladies, and even men though I'm "straight."

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    7. Such a strange sexual perversion, to lose all ability to climax, forever. But I don't judge. I'd happily lock you up and throw away the key if that's your kink.

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    8. Oh no. Just craving for years alongside your blog history for a strong lady to worship and beg to be allowed humilating releases like on my own face or while analy filled etc.

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    9. I'd let you cum, but very infrequently and in the most humiliating way imaginable. And I'd make a little party of your cummies, invite a half-dozen or so girlfriends over for the "big event" - of course you'd have to earn it with a giant butt beating and being passed around for the dildo, and any even minor complaints and you'd be denied, of course. Assuming you made it that far, you'd be up-ended and milked directly into your face. All of it would go into your mouth and you'd have to hold it there standing in the corner or serving. At the end, we'd make a circle and you'd be re-caged and then swallow it down as we watched and applauded. Fun times. See you again next year!

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  13. UPDATE UPDATE UPDATE
    Spanking is on! Saturday afternoon! Will blog the detes after!!!

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    1. Julie - well done, way to hook her and reel her in!!

      So, where will spanking take place - her place, your place, or elsewhere?

      Waiting for detes,
      -T.

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    2. Wow, that was fast! She must be really anxious to make this happen. I have such confidence in you making this the first of many progressive sessions. Can’t wait for your posting…..
      Raul…

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    3. My place. Tomorrow afternoon. Exciting!

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    4. i'll be looking forward to reading about that

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    5. Will start writing it up now!

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  14. Caught her in your web! Atta girl!

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  15. "What do you guys think? Did I play it well? Was she thinking about me at lights out? Did she... stroke herself? I hope so!"

    You played it like a Master, err, Mistress. Yes, she was absolutely thinking about it and you when the lights went out, and yes, she absolutely masturbated to the idea. Can't wait to hear more.

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    1. I thought I played it well, also. Tee hee!

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  16. How did that text convo go down?? Lol

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    1. Txt after we're generic "good times". Just saw her at morning fitness class. I'll download on the post!

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    2. I'm new to your blog, and just to change the subject,I noticed a comment on another entry ( I forget where that was) about Tolkien and Wagner. The comment was a hillbilly slang reference to Tolkien having taken his theme from Wagner. Actually he is right. E Michael Jones wrote an interesting essay on this topic some years ago. It might still be on the internet for all I know. Wagner was a genius,probably the greatest artist of all time,while Tolkien was a very minor popular writer. No offense to Tolkienites.

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    3. I dimly recall!

      Totally different genres. Wagner was a great composer and wrote the libretto himself, which is unique. Tolkien was an academic and a novelist with a massive talent for languages.

      According to Wikipedia "Wagner created the story of the Ring by fusing elements from many German and Scandinavian myths and folk-tales. The Old Norse Edda supplied much of the material for Das Rheingold, while Die Walküre was largely based on the Völsunga saga. Siegfried contains elements from the Eddur, the Völsunga saga and Thidrekssaga. The final Götterdämmerung draws from the 12th-century German poem, the Nibelungenlied, which appears to have been the original inspiration for the Ring."

      I'm sure Tolkien was inspired by Wagner's Ring, but no doubt also by the same mythical folk tales.

      Tolkien is a much-beloved novelist. I am a fangirl.

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    4. Thanks for your reply. I like Tolkien too,but you are right.Apples and oranges. Or paddles and whips. Or...

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    5. HELLLOOO BABY! Could you dress as a hot-rod girl ? I'ld love to see you bent over the hood of a "55 Chevy with a greaser spanking you! You'ld make an old grease-ball rocker very,very happy! Merry Christmas, you sweet thing!

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    6. Sounds like a nice Xmas card!

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    7. Girl,you are sweeet!! Too bad you're taken. I could show you a good time in my '64 Chevy with a blown 409 and four on the floor! She'll scoot like a bat out of hell. And so will you. Don't mean to sound rude,honey,but you've got ass and class. A very rare combo in a woman. Your husband is one lucky dude! I just don't understand your interest in girls when so many men want you. Maybe in another life someone will explain this to me.

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    8. I like 'em the same reason you do. But men, especially men like you, are irreplaceable!

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  17. Very well played Julie. Looking forward to the continuation of the story, now that you have whetted everyone appetite.... - Frank

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  18. Invite her to watch you spank David, since she already thinks you are the total Dom one.

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    1. Considering it. Will see where the wind blows!

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  19. I like the subby Julie BUT I LOCE THE DOMME JULIE. I look forward to see where this goes. I may have missed it ,have you released your book.
    JL

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    1. Not yet. On what I strongly feel is my final proof-reading pass!

      Yes, feeling Dommie this week.

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  20. Don't talk politics with her: you will drive her away!

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  21. Edge of my seat!! How’d it go ??

    Mistress Andrea
    xoxo

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    1. Very nicely. Not all my fantasies, but enough!

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  22. AHHHHHH!! I have to admit I was hoping against hope that today’s little tryst might actually be documented here already. Perhaps somewhere north of the border you are lying in an exhausted sweaty pile of satiated bliss. Too tired to write, too tired to think. I hope so. The part of me that wants to believe everything you write could be or is real wants that to be true. I think we all have a sneaking suspicion that yes, this is not “penthouse forum” that you are real and that all of these delicious things really do happen to you. Brilliant minx. Sexy muse. Political genius that you are. Be good or better yet, don’t. Xoxo -S

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    1. As a kinky fit woman, opportunities arise, but fewer as I'm getting older, I notice :-( But, every now and then...

      Will write it up today!

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  23. Damn, that's hot, you played it perfectly for sure. I was thinking it was definitely going in the direction of her being pissed at her husband and you finding some clever way to show her how you keep your man in line; some sexy lingerie, humiliating otk spanking and maybe a strapon fucking to show her who wears the panties.

    That would've been the obvious way to go, and I'd have loved it anyway, but this is even more exciting. I'm getting major vibes from your story about the first time you got spanked by your sister, and especially the sexy teasing texts that preceded it.

    Maybe you'll do something similar and gradually increase her punishment until she's totally naked, straddling your knee and sluttily grinding her pussy into you as your expert hands paint her back porch red.

    I'm still holding out hope it'll some day eventually lead to a session where she takes out her frustration with her husband on a sissified David while you cheer her on and hand her bigger paddles as he kicks his legs and the tears flow. But this new direction is delicious, I can't wait to find out where it leads, good luck with your new spanking buddy, Strict Friend Julie ;)
    -Cheeky Chad

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    1. I sent David away. Right out of the house. Ha ha!

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  24. Were you serious about wanting to spank her give her a spankings i am shock you didnt get text or message from her schedule date & time

    would you teach her how give her hubsand a spanking or spank her husband for her think should find out more about marriage between them for this part

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    1. We texted and met at fitness class and set it up. Went down yesterday. Was good!

      I don't think she has much interest in her husband.

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    2. Hey baby! You're too young and pretty for this.Split that scene and hang with the Killer! You're a hot-rod rockabilly chick if ever I saw one. Watch The Kingbees "Rockin' My Life Away" and you'll see it's YOU in every shot. Hot cars and hot chicks. swinging back to '56!!

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  25. Excited to see where this goes. -Alex Glass

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    1. Hurry hurry! I’m checking you like every 30 minutes. I set a timer!

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    2. Such a tease. Making all the naughty boys and girls wait for your new story. I hope you quizzed her about her past and found that you are not her first disciplinarian. Perhaps like you, she has long-held fantasies rooted in real events from her past.

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    3. Nope. Zero spanking or even kink. I'll bring her over to the dark side!

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  26. Tharwas hot. Wow..Have you thought of spanking both David and her together

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    1. Of course, and all the other combos. But we started out more 1-1.

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  27. You fuckin' sly dog!

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  28. hope she loves your rubber gloves too :)

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  29. Wow.. totally hot!! SaraE

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