Saturday, June 24

Staying and Watching Video

In my last post (Would You Stay and Watch?) I described a hypothetical situation where a wife and her friend walk in on a husband masturbating.

I have a short story in my upcoming book on that theme. It's a bit of a common theme. It plays off of several things.

It plays off of men's inherent shame of masturbation. My husband describes being deathly afraid he'd be walked in on by a parent when he was a teen choking the chicken (had a comment on my last blog from a guy this literally happened to).

It plays off of the wives inherent dislike of male masturbation. We want to feel like his only path to sexual pleasure is through us. We want him to be ardent in the bedroom, and masturbation kills that.

It would not be uncommon or unreasonable for a wife to extract a "no masturbation" promise from her mate. And so discovering him in the act would be that much worse with a broken promise on top of the act itself.

It plays off a more traditional and religious upbringing where children were scolded as tots for "playing with themselves". Religions consider it a sin. Children are told they can go blind from it.

Wives consider it a childish activity. Maybe younger teens sneakily engage in it, their hormones raging, not being able to control themselves. Not mature married men.

Wives consider it a form of infidelity. Especially when porn is involved as it invariably is. Hot young "barely legal" girls taking it in the most disgusting ways. Is that what he wants? Is that the kind of girl he wants?

It somehow comes naturally, even to a vanilla wife, that the most appropriate punishment for engaging in masturbation is a good spanking. The men know that too. Had their mother walked in on them doing that, even if she was not a spanking mom, he fears she would have spanked him regardless, and he knows he would have deserved it. He almost needs the spanking to expiate the extreme guilt and impossibly get back into his mother's good graces (where he desperately wants to be, consciously or not). And Dad? OMG! Dad would have belted the skin off his ass.

So it's a really good setup for a femdom story. Hits a lot of buttons.

Of course, having only the wife find him takes the edge off a bit. If the wife has a female friend or relation with her when she walks in on him, the wife's embarrassment becomes acute as well. Her husband with his penis out. Rubbing it like a schoolboy. Signalling she is not enough to satisfy him. Embarrassing her. Will the wife overreact in a situation like that? Damned right! Will the witness be invited to watch the correction? Double damned right.

I once saw a video that did exactly this scene very well. The characters were all perfect. The setting and situation were great. The acting was great. I had completely forgotten about this video, even when I penned my short story and the previous blog. But a comment jogged it back into my memory.

I went hunting on my hard drive... and I found it. I replayed it. Just great!

The studio was called "Lisa Spanks". I searched all over on the web and could not find it anywhere. If any of you guys know where this stuff can still be purchased or what befell the studio, please let us know in the comments. I would love to send business their way.

In light of the fact that I believe the studio is defunct, I'll be generous with screenshots and gifs.

Lisa is the lady's name. She's a strict wife who spanks. She forbade her husband from masturbating. Lisa is out for lunch and to get their nails done with a younger friend and colleague from work, Chelsea. Lisa rarely steps out when Greg is home. He thinks about masturbating, but is afraid to. It takes him a while, but he finally gets his nerve up to do it. Lisa said she was going to a movie after nails and she wouldn't be home for hours yet.

He gets naked, gets on his favourite living room couch, and gets out the KY lube. Little does he know there's a tiny camera hidden in a teddy bear right on the shelves above the couch that catches all the action!

He lubes his cock thoroughly.

And he begins rubbing it like a little monkey.

Such a symphony of embarrassing perfection! I mean, look at him torturing his poor thing. His legs wriggling. His breathing laboured. He's a bit older, and not well built or handsome. What right has he to stroke it against his wife's permission? I mean, what chance for any other pussy does he legitimately think he has? I know, none, right?

His wife keeps him completely shaved, like a little boy. He probably is made to do it himself under penalty of a spanking if he doesn't do it properly. Because his wife, Lisa, is a spanking wife.

I mean, a scrawny old guy, totally shaved, with a spanking wife, he thinks he can actually do this? Do this against her express will? He fucks around and he finds out.

As Mr. Skaer indicates, he fucked around a lot, so he'll find out a lot.

Greg might have gotten away with it, had his wife not come home early from her outing with her friend. And with the worst possible luck they walked in at the exact time Greg erupted.

Catch the looks on poor Chelsea's face.




It seems to be a combination of embarrassment and amusement. Lisa, though, looks a lot less amused and way more angry! Greg gets a massive scolding from Lisa as Chelsea looks on, fearing for poor Greg's well-being.

"You do not masturbate!" she tells him, confirming it's a house rule.

What are you going to do if you're Greg, lying naked and prone on the couch, caught red-handed in the very midst of your ejaculation? What can he do except lie there in abject embarrassment, enduring the scolding while the friend watches.

Lisa tells him he's going to get a spanking, and Chelsea is going to see it.

You can see from Chelsea's expression that she has a sort of vicarious embarrassment on behalf of Greg. I mean, there he is with his rapidly softening dick squeezed tightly in his hand, totally bare naked on the couch in front of Chelsea.

"What are you doing?" asks Lisa, incredulous at what she sees.

"I think we can see what he was doing," responds Chelsea.

I think the reactions from Chelsea are wonderful. Embarrassed amusement I would say.

He then gets an epic scolding from his wife and informs him he's being spanked and Chelsea will watch it.

Lisa sets up the spanking chair, grabs her spanking paddle, and sits. She invites Chelsea to sit on the couch opposite her. She tells Greg to get on his knees in front of her for his scolding.

Lisa scolds him mercilessly. Greg is completely humiliated. Not only by what he did, but because of how he's being treated in front of the much younger Chelsea.

She orders him across her lap. He begs to not be spanked in front of Chelsea. He tells Lisa it hurts more after he's cum. Chelsea chimes in, "maybe you shouldn't have cum then?"

Lisa tells Chelsea that the longer he makes her wait, the harder the eventual spanking will be. Chelsea comments that in that case, it's going to be pretty hard.

He gives in and goes over the knee as Chelsea smirks.


Just look at that smirk!


 

Like many women, I expect, Chelsea is happy to see a man put in his place by his wife. The nudity does not concern her in the least. It's not in a sexual context. Yuck, no! She just enjoys how embarrassed he is with his little bare willy dangling in the air for her to see, and his bare butt that's about to get the spanking of a lifetime, she's sure.

Lisa starts in as she means to go on. Look at Greg's embarrassment at being pulled across his wife's lap for his spanking as Chelsea watches. A childish punishment for his childish crime. Since Greg was already fully nude when discovered, he remains fully nude for his spanking. Is not a fully nude OTK spanking the worst, especially when witnessed?

His penis is on casual display. Chelsea notices how he keeps it completely shaved, little boy style. Somehow, she is not surprised. Chelsea is an attractive young woman. She has sexual partners. Zero chance she would ever remotely consider Greg to have any possibility of ever being one. She likes men. Real men. This "man" (ha!) is being completely humbled and emasculated by his strict wife. And he's about to receive a punishment which will truly put him in his place.

Lisa starts in with a very fierce spanking which Chelsea seems to enjoy greatly.

She really swings that paddle good! She gets those telltale "white centers" I am so fond of describing.


Lisa and Chelsea discuss his behaviour in some detail after "round one". Poor Greg has to just lie there, mewling, as they talk.

Chelsea describes what she saw when she walked in. A big GUSH!

Lisa then asks Chelsea, seeing as she was surprised and her sensibilities were offended by his outrageous behaviour, if she would like to take part in his spanking? Yes!

Greg is stood up and told to go arrange a second chair and then fetch the hairbrush for Chelsea.

I love the shots where his ridiculous penis is briefly on display. Chelsea barely looks at it, of course. It's only another sign of his complete humbling.

He sets out the chair then goes back to fetch the hairbrush. Here he is bringing it back, very sheepishly.

And handing it over.

Chelsea gleefully accepts.

Quite the sequence!

He gets scolded once more. A good bare penis scolding.

Then Chelsea indicates her lap with the hairbrush.

And Greg goes over.

Chelsea gleefully contemplates her mission with hairbrush in hand.

Then the double spanking begins!






They finish with an intense salvo to both cheeks simultaneously.

There! That's taught him a lesson he won;'t soon forget!

They put him back on his knees for his final scolding.

Awwww! No more masturbation for Gregy!

And the scene fades to black with Greg rubbing his rear end, his wife lowering his head in shame.

Do you think Chelsea enjoyed her experience? Most certainly! There's a young lady who had added a real experience under her belt. When and if she gets married to a reliable beta after she tires of fucking around with her Alphas, she'll now have a much better example of how to keep a beta male like Greg in line.

And what do you think is Greg's future? I would venture a nice, tight chastity cage, like the one I fit on my husband.

A cage that small acts as both a restraint to masturbation and a punishment in and of itself. It's terribly uncomfortable he says. I don't care. Like the man says, fuck around, and find out. In this picture, david fucked around and found out.

Lisa had also not gotten her strap-on out for a while, but that will soon change. Nightly ass-fuckings for Greg while in chastity. Perhaps a double-team "spit roasting" with Chelsea? Not out of the question.

Not a bad video, eh?

94 comments:

  1. That was a very severe consequence for him getting caught playing. Clearly, lisa realized then that he is a naughty perv who can't control his sexual drive. Inviting Chelsea to join the punishment was probably the most humiliating part. I'm sure that the initial spanking was so painful that he was able to turn this out for a while. When he had to fetch a hairbrush for her to use on his already beaten ass, there was no escaping it. Having to go over her knee, took that last bit of denial away from him. Soon she might have even been the stronger arm, after all, she was forced to be confronted with his disgusting behavior with no warning. There is no quicker way to convert a vanilla girl to a very strict disciplinarian than this. I am very sure that Chelsea will happily participate in Lisa's plans to keep her husband under control. No doubt she will enjoy finding out that he now has to be locked up and punished like the perv he is.
    I think there were a lot of girls like that. The harbor, a desire to be in charge, but it takes a defining moment for them to really realize it. Poor Greg is in real trouble. Chelsea may be the stricter of the two and give ideas that Lisa hadn't even considered.
    No doubt her visits to the house will be a lot more interesting. I'm sure she will expect Greg to treat her with the proper respect or she will feel empowered to give him a hair brushing without consulting Lisa.

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    1. "There is no quicker way to convert a vanilla girl to a very strict disciplinarian than this." I agree. That would do it.

      And yes, after you've seen him naked and spanked him once, easy for it to happen again. His wife will be glad for the help.

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  2. Julie the goddess your last recent reply to me suggesting youd have me sissified to such a degree id cum on my face upside down being held by the alpha male after a spanking affected me deeply. Im with a loving new girlfriend who i will always remain faithful with but my fantasie is after she eventuslly understands my submissive side which she may as shed make a divine dom, she rents me out to you by me paying you both highly, and for a week you sissify me with spankings and insertions from strapons and real men going from never gay to allowed only to cum while suckling or riding cock greedily for your amusement.

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    1. Happy to train your girl!

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    2. Literally my dream.. and maybe..
      She is down for a strapon, will get her a feeldoe and report back. Ideally you two control me for your amusement and service. I get cucked as a 35 yo straight male and you enjoy my 27 yo art ballet fit girlfriend. I’m made to call you and a stud daddy and am spit roasted and used for chores and humilation at parties turned gay cucked and servile..

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    3. Ooooh. Does she like girls?

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    4. Perhaps one day, Julie, my strict goddess, sigh, and Id share her with your perverted ass and a stud/david or whatever your wish. Then I can be held upside down by one stud of yours while I fluff a cock while you both ladies hold my hand and myself and her are spit roasted and used in turn and I pathetically cum in my mouth while watching her sucked and fucked by you and company.

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  3. Before we started male chastity, my wife was shocked when I told her that I masturbated. She had no idea I did that. She said that chastity or no chastity, I was forbidden to masturbate again. She made it clear that this was not part of any BDSM or chastity activity. It was a hard and fast rule.

    She had never made rules before. I had to masturbate while she watched one last time before she put the chastity device on me. I know that this sounds like a story you might write, but it is fact. I was locked 24/7 except for sex and cleaning for over three years. I was successfully trained not to masturbate. It's been ten years since that last time.

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    1. Yes, my younger sister never masturbated herself, and did not dream the urge existed in grown men, only teenagers. Very naive!

      Did you suggest the chastity or did she come up with that herself? I mean, if she didn't realize men masturbate, I presume she didn't know about chastity?

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    2. It was all me. She had no idea such things existed. However, to my surprise, she took to it like a duck to water. To this day, ten years later, she maintains total control over my sexual release.

      After I told her about masturbation, she privately tried masturbating. She reported that she didn't like it. As for controlling my orgasms, she says she is neutral. She thinks it's a good idea and has no intention to stop. It doesn't turn her on. It sure does the trick for me.

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    3. There's levels of being turned on. I mean, my pussy does not dampen when I dominate David the same way it does when I'm on the bottom, however there is a more cerebral level of being turned on by dominant acts...

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  4. Hello Strict Julie, with these last two post I see you have your Dom mood running. Is it not fun to be a switch. Ok, the video was very cute and fun to "watch" through your explanation. Chelsea , made it so with all the facial expressions. Her head back laugh at them gave hint to her future as a woman to run the show. Now Lisa, may like catching Greg in masterbation. Why else is there a bear cam. It may be so she can spank him more times. It reminds me of another Dom that did her best to catch her hubby, so she could have a reason to spank him.

    Now, it has been about 40 years since I was a horny teenager. I have to say, that if I did not masterbate every couple of days. I would have a wet dream. Waking up in the middle of the night with underwear full of cum. Not fun.

    Keep up your wonderful writing.

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    1. If I was your mother, I'd check your underpants every morning and give you a spanking whenever they're soiled.

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    2. This would have put me at quite a few days of hard to sit easy at school. Then there would be getting ready for football and wrestling practice. The idea of putting on a jock on a but that was spanked in the morning. Bruises may be showing up by practice time.

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    3. Yes, the communal showers must be hard for spanked boys.

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  5. I think this is all out of proportion. A man should be allowed to ...to...pleasure himself with a.. two...three or more femdom witches watching..... no?

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    1. Yes, I think boys can jerk themselves if the girl in their life allows it and supervises, possibly with friends (and popcorn!)

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  6. I, too, have wondered what became of Lisa and Greg. They put out a lot of F/M spanking content, and it was always real and intense. I mean the spankings were real; the situations were obviously contrived, but so what? I liked the fact that neither are raving beauties (though Lisa is quite fit), it makes it all seem more like "Hey, this could happen!"

    A number of prominent spankers have disappeared over the years:

    Audrey Knight, just cute as a pixie and could give as good as she got. I hope she's happy and safe and enjoying her life, whatever she's doing.

    Miss Anna, a firm, no-nonsense spanker, she was also a dedicated switch who often got her rather gorgeous backside lit up on film. Another woman I wish well and thank for for the many hours of video.

    Mrs. Burns, who worked with one of your faves, Dr. Daniels, aka Coach. She was the epitome of the attractive suburban mom who didn't hesitate to put a naughty boy over her knee. I spent way too much time looking at her videos and pictures, wishing she lived next door.

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    1. Don't know about the rest, but Mrs. Burns retired from the spanking video scene and is (or at least was, not so long ago) living a happy life off camera. She was "outed" by a douchebag and took everything down. I totally understand that.

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    2. I wonder what happened to the others? The original stars like Brandi and Jessica.

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    3. And Bailey, the most spankable ass and tearful face?

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    4. I've seen them all. Spanking famous!

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    5. Do you know this one, the best of Bailey ?
      "Daughter and her girlfriend get spanked"
      https://fr.spankbang.com/3hgwt-2w6pnu/playlist/bailey

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    6. OMG! I'm getting PTSD flashbacks from that! Men who are spanked by women have NO IDEA what a man's bare hand can do to a little girl's bottom.

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  7. Spanked after is the worse, hurts like hell. Having another person see you getting spanked and especially naked, adds to the punishment. My wife will have me stand not facing the wall, but facing her, all on display. A very limp penis, and a very red and sore bottom. This proves to a male that female will go further than one would expect. Jack

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    1. "Turned out" cornertime is the worst!

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    2. Totally the worse, the comments made, women know what is best for an adult male who acts like a child, and I know it first hand.

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  8. I'll add this, when your desire to be spanked, and you have spent time masturbating, for me looking at F/m magazines, getting caught, you will learn how far a woman will go. So best be aware, and in this case with another woman present, you will dread it. I was not done masturbating when caught, had to finish, was sitting on the toilet, naked, looking at F/m magazine. Was told to finish, hand her the magazine, she smiled, and told me I was going to get that spanking. It hurt like hell, I married this woman, spankings don't mean sexual play, but in this household, it means the wife wear the pants in this family. Having been spanked in front of others, having been seen facing the wall, and been seen not facing the wall, a limp penis on display. So best be aware, a woman will not tolerate this type of behavior and will address it no matter who might be present. Jack

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    1. Yes. We own you silly little boys, for sure.

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  9. My wife and I met with Lisa & Greg once. Nice people. It was fun. Greg and I each got our assed beat hard by Lisa & my wife, just like in the video. It must be their signature move. Ouch. It was a fun night. A long time ago now.

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    1. That's sweet.Were they pros or was it a play session? Do you know what became of them and their studio?

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    2. a play session with them. This was just his fetish, turned into her fetish, turned into their hobby. (sound familiar?)

      no idea what became of them; we don't live near them. We just happened to be visited their area, and so we reached out. I think they had a blog or website or something way back? long gone I guess.

      very nice people

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    3. Very familiar!

      Cool experience.

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  10. Nice scene and well worthy of preservation. Being spanked by my wife in front of another woman is a big fantasy for me (and seems to be very common among other subby hubbies from what I gather elsewhere).
    Is the story you mentioned the one where the masturbating hubby is uncaged in front of his sisters-in-law, while the ladies discuss their masturbation policies for their husbands... and in front of their daughters? I'm certainly looking forward to that scene :D

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  11. The smile, laughing of the friend seeing the spanking, how hard and rapid the spanks are. Must be the first time for her, and learning a adult male being spanked acts just like a little boy getting a spanking. In my case I must address my wife as Mommy, since Mommies are the one who do the spanking. This is those who have seen me being spank, calling my wife Mommy, besides the kicking, squirming and promising to be a good little boy. My Mommy will say she knows I will be a good little boy, but the spanking continues. Jack

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    1. Having to call her mommy adds an extra level.

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    2. When I heard her say the first time I will address as Mommy, I was getting a spanking. I said I would not, big mistake. I have learned the hard way that women are so complex, and can and do handle each situation as it is called for. Saying Mommy I feel like a naughty little boy, calling her Mommy with others present really makes me feel little. When I hear her say Mommy needs to address a problem, I say Yes Mommy, Sorry Mommy, and know the corner is going to be my destination. Jack

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  12. What my 'little boy' failed to bring out is that yes a spanking is very much needed, especially for this, but what males fail to realize is that wives enjoy the little boy that comes out when being spanked. Especially if another woman is present. I will say that all males when being spanked are little boys, very naughty little boys, and it is up to the wife, Mommy to properly spank them, no matter how much they promise to be good. So a spanking does hurt, but with others present it is worse, especially since I will be addressed as Mommy. Jack Wife

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    1. "What males fail to realize is that wives enjoy the little boy that comes out when being spanked.
      Especially if another woman is present.
      It is up to the wife, Mommy to properly spank them, no matter how much they promise to be good.
      So a spanking does hurt, but with others present it is worse."

      I love Little Jack's mother's logical argument.
      His severity is made to bring tears to any little boy's eyes. No plea will make her relent.
      And yes, she knows perfectly well that spanking hurts and that, no matter how much he is struggling, she's the one who's going to give it to her naughty little boy. And she likes to tell him that she's going to make him cry.

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  13. This very good video reminded me of this one that my sister told me a few years ago. We always got along very well and without taboos.

    https://fr.videosection.com/video/480780444

    The video is of very good quality and the actors are excellent.
    In particular the two women, both strong women and whose size dominates the guilty and punished employee.
    The man is small and weak and is really humiliated, especially when at the end the boss asks him to take off his pants and his underwear and go back to work with the red buttocks and his tiny penis, after the double spanking .

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    1. Good one! Thank you.
      Although I find his acting less convincing, somehow.

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  14. It probably says something interesting about male and female respective psyches that women do seem to want to eliminate male masturbation, while I think think most men would find watching their partners masturbate to be incredibly hot.

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    1. For me, masturbation intensifies my desire for sex. Maybe something to do with being multi-orgasmic? Different kettle of fish for you one and doners.

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  15. Interesting thread.

    My wife Irene and I share everything, but we’ve talked about masturbation only a little. She says she never does it, like the “real” thing” - why would she lie.

    I do it once in a while - typically the morning after we have a rendezvous and I’m still feeling it. But even if she caught me I don’t think it would fall into the naughty boy who must be punishing category.

    Rosco

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    1. David and I play it as a game. If we catch the other red-handed it's a spanking!

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  16. Good insights!
    I have a younger brother. If I'd walked in on him "doing it", he'd have gotten teased SO HARD!

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  17. Well, spanking in front of friend is one of my favorite fantasies (and not only fantasies). And both ways: F/M and M/F.
    A few weeks ago my young and beautiful wife got spanked on her bare ass by me in front of her best friend (girl) :)

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    1. Cool!
      Was it a joking spanking, a sexy spanking, or a punishment spanking? How did she get bare ass? Was it a pull on a towel or a more deliberate undressing?

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    2. This spanking was a punishment. Our friend something knew we were doing this. The atmosphere was playful and sexy, but it was a punishment. My wife bent over the chair and I bared her ass. She got 15 x string. Our friend was looking at it and she liked it very much :)

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  18. Two things:
    1. Is there a name for when two spankers intersect their legs so as to make a common, sharable lap? I've never heard of one (but there should be a name for it.)

    2. Chelsea is cute!!! I'd go otk with her, and take her otk in return!

    A.

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    1. 1. The spanking scissor?

      2. Yes! She's a bit non-traditional looking but cute as anything. I fell in love with her facial expressions though!

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  19. My bedroom, years ago, had a thick bolster running the width of the Queen bed.

    I used to have my spanking GF's (and non-spanking GF's for that matter) straddle it; their 'pink' in contact with the bolster*.
    Once in position they would grind their fun parts into the bolster, masturbating. I would watch, scold, and spank their bottoms as 'encouragement' to have her get a massive orgasm! Fun for all!!

    * A fun thing to do was to get a plastic water bottle filled with almost-hot water, cap on TIGHT!, wrap it in a kitchen towel, then place it on the bolster right where her labia would soon be and - the fun would begin.

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  20. My wife remarked that the oil he was using to masturbate, she would have applied to his bare bottom prior to the spanking. Talk about kicking, squirming, he would be doing that. My wife also reminded me a few times she has applied oil to my bare bottom and the little boy came out quick, and crying, pleading, promising to be good fell on deaf ears. Jack

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    1. Another phrase for a strapping is "a good application of strap oil to your backside."

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  21. My younger sister walked in on me once. I did anything and everything she wanted for a week to keep her from telling on me. she wasn't into spanking, but I would have definitely gotten it is she was. She took full advantage.

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  22. Oh wow! I'm sure horrific at the time. But fantasy fodder afterwards? Tells us the detes!

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  23. My wife told me recently of how her Mother addressed playing with yourself. She said sleep overs were a part of growing up, her best friend was raised by a single mom, like my wife. The mothers had a rule, who ever home the sleep over was the mother of the home was the Mother who addressed misbehavior. I asked if she and a friend would do such playing around. My wife said yes, a girl thing, would not understand she added. If caught, she said the Mother in charge would insure they would think twice about doing it again. A hairbrush was applied the hard and fast to their bare bottoms, the worse was the one going second had to watch the spanking, knowing they were next. Her Mother spankings hurt more than her friends's mother spanking, they lasted longer, and the brush landed in rapid motion. She then smiled and said this is why when I spank you, I know how to do it properly. Jack

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    1. I have to admit that I love the idea of your wife and her friend getting the hairbrush for playing around. Sometimes the old fashioned ways were the best approach.

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  24. I am a 58 year old divorced man. I have to confess to being an avid masturbator my entire life. In recent years, I have discovered my submissive side, and I have to admit that masturbation is a serious offense that should result in a spanking of a man or woman at any age (since it is directing sexual energy away from your partner). I recently went to a professional disciplinarian for the first time, and as part of my role play "funishment" I was spanked for masturbating. I would like to see society move back to frowning upon this naughty behavior. I agree that for repeat offenders time in chastity and pegging should be added to the spanking. It has taken a while for me to reach this conclusion, but I think it is the right one. Would love to hear from others.

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    1. Yes. Especially if you're watching young ladies sucking and getting their brains fucked out, your chastity should include frequent strap-on dildoing that emulates the porn you watch.

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    2. I actually do not watch sucking and fucking videos. I do look at a lot of pictures (and some videos) of women and men being spanked. Nevertheless, my masturbation habit is bad enough that I believe it warrants time in chastity and strap on dildoing in addition to spanking. I think there spanking (even for discipline) can provide a healthy sexual outlet for adults.

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    3. Careful what you wish for. A long hard fucking from a big thick strap-on dildo can bring a poor boy to tears.

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  25. Nice:)
    Reads smooth as warm butter:)
    WC:)

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  26. She made me do all of her chores. She generally used as a threat to embarrass. She wondered out loud is a friend of hers who I had a little crush out would be interested in what I do behind closed doors. It did make me feel generally submissive toward girls and women.

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  27. Did she see your hard dick?

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  28. She did. It was hard to miss. It was very embarrassing, but other than calling me out on getting caught she didn't insist on having me give her a show or anything. I don't think she realized the true power she had at that moment.

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  29. This is far and away you best blog, so many comments. My wife shocked me, she ran a copy off, has it by your chair in the front room. She is going to show it to some of your girlfriends and see what they think. Since I've have spent time reading the comments, looking at the pictures, she said that has gone far enough. I was told to undress, she had a towel on the front room floor, she handed me some lotion and start stroking. I did as told, she then brought the article for me to see the pictures. It took sometime, I finally cummed, she smiled and wished I would take that long and longer when we have sex. Face the wall she said, and I stood there a good fifteen or more minutes. She then gave me the over the knee spanking I was expecting, and told me enough looking at this, or should would invite her best friend to help in the spanking. I've been seen by her after and during a spanking, to get a dual spanking, I don't know. Jack

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    1. Yes, entirely enough of my blog for today!

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    2. You are going to have a hard time topping this post. It has to be the most popular that you have done. Can't wait to see what you have in store for us. Jack

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  30. I would have had so much fun with you!

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  31. I'm very lucky that you were not my sister. I am sure you would have taken full advantage of the situation. What you you have done?

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  32. Julie, Jack's wife, this blog he has lost it. Told him enough, but like most males, what is between his legs controls him. I had enough, and recall another video he showed me, a woman having her husband sit on her lap, she oiled up his play toy and stroked it until all was gone, then he got the spanking he earned. Well my little boy found out what that was like and he did not like it at all. He thought when he cummed I was done, I kept stroking the limp play toy until all was gone. The bath brush really hurt he said, and to insure he learned his lesson we went out to dinner. Oh he squirmed, I picked a place with hard seats. So please move on to another topic, I will not be as nice if I catch him looking at this again, and he knows it. Jack's Wife

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    1. Dear Jack's wife. I think he better behave. That is a pretty strict punishment. Thank you for sharing it.

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    2. 'Mommy' knows what is best for her naughty little boy. My Mother told me there was more than being just a wife and my husband; naughty little boy knows that. Jack's wife

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    3. Did you try the ice water panty trick yet?

      -Grace Marie

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    4. Not yet. Have found the stroking until dry is what works best, and the spanking that follows, well let's say his spanking dance prior to wall time is fun to watch. Jack's wife

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  33. For starters, made you finish what you started while I watch. Then a good spanking during which I'd make sure you're going to be my bitch for the rest of our lives.

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  34. It would have been hard to make me finish after the initial startle of being discovered. I would have to really work at that and I am sure that you would not be satisfied until I produced a good show for you.... Being your bitch for a lifetime sounds scary... I would probably have eventually caught you doing something and then we would be part of a mutual blackmail situation.

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  35. This also proves that a women learn from other women. Seeing the husband playing with himself, seeing the spanking he received and then given a hairbrush and to also give a spanking, was something deep down she wanted to do. Tapping her lap with the hairbrush, he getting over their laps, receiving a very sound spanking from both. The smile of the friends face, I don't know if she is married or seeing anyone, but I do know that person she does see or married will have a very well spanked bottom. Jack

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  36. My husband is forbidden to masturbate, but he does not receive immediate punishment for such an offense. We don't use a male chastity device and I'm not trying to catch him red-handed.
    When it comes time to punish him for something else, I ask him if he has masturbated since his last punishment and how many times.
    He must be convincing when he says no. When I have doubts, I look into his eyes and ask him, did you masturbate on Tuesday? Did you masturbate on Wednesday?
    He's learned a long time ago that it's best not to lie when he gives answers, or he's learned to do it very convincingly.
    If he confesses to acts of masturbation, and this happens more often than you might think, then he will receive corporal punishment not only for his other wrongdoings, but also for each of his masturbations.
    P.s. I practice real punishments, not play a game.

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    1. We are all playing games when it comes to spanking, else it's human slavery. I assume that he consents to his treatment and gets some gratification (likely fetishistic) from it, as do you (else would not be visiting a fetish blog!)

      I too practice "real spanking" in that I have consented to being spanked, for real, by my husband when he considers I've misbehaved (which does not happen all that often). The manner of my punishment is left to him. I have no say. I do not enjoy my punishments at the time, but I derive great sexual gratification thinking about them before and after.

      I like your approach. I would think it even okay if after one of his "no" answers you say you can't be sure of it and spank him for it "on spec" anyways, acknowledging he may be telling the truth, or may not be. If he feels hard done by, all the better.

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    2. Thanks for your reply. I don't want to punish my husband for things he didn't do. This can lead to the harmful idea that the punishment will be regardless of whether the offense is committed or not, and that nothing depends on his behavior. I like that my husband masturbates less due to my actions.

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    3. I'll bet he lies sometimes, so if you occasionally err on the other end it evens out.

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    4. There is another method that I use. First, a significant amount of time elapsed between the husband's confessions of his acts of masturbation. Secondly, his main crime, which caused the punishment, is significant, I am really angry with my husband. If the first and second coincide, then I order my husband to masturbate in front of me. Immediately after he cums, the spanking begins. Spanking immediately after orgasm is perceived by him more painfully. If a husband lied to me for a long time, denying masturbation, then sooner or later he will still receive punishment for this.

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    5. Yes. My husband really hates the post orgasm spanking. I don't mind so much as I seem to always have multiples stored up!

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    6. How often do you beat your husband after an orgasm?

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    7. Not very. We experimented once or twice.

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  37. Can Women tell if a boy needs spanking? I always get approached and spanked- big but firm behind and "You need this" attitude. Guys say Girls aren't into it but they are.

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