Personal Trainer: third time lucky

So far david has had two in-home personal trainers. The first left town, and the second did not work out. So this time, I took matters into my own hands. This time I wanted to start with somebody who was kinky first, and a professional personal trainer second, rather than take a chance on a vanilla lady getting into it.

Why you ask?

I want david to stay fit, and he has been getting out of shape lately. Don't get me wrong. I don't care at all what he looks like. But I do want him to live a nice long life and be full of energy when we are older, and if he starts slipping now I'm worried about what will happen when he's in his forties or fifties.

I believe you need to get into the habit of being fit when you're young, and then just keep it up as you get older.

I do it, and so should he.

The trick with david is motivation. He has all the knowledge he needs to eat well and exercise well, he just goes into long periods where he doesn't do what he knows he ought to. It's like the old joke: "She's real good at quitting smoking, she's done it five times." Same with david and getting in shape. He's really good at it because he's done it many times now (both before I knew him and after). Enough is enough!

So what motivates david? I think we all know the answer to that: the possibility of spankings from another woman in front of me is a HUGE turn on for him.

When we were working on his previous personal trainers, trying to get them to be a little more kinky, david was really excited and looking forward to each training session. When the second one turned out to be very vanilla, it got very boring for him, he lost patience and interest, and she had to go (she was doing no good, and it was just getting argumentative). She was a real beauty, but beauty without kink is ho-hum for my boy.

No chance of a spanking? Ho hum.

As I've mentioned several times on my blog, david is not submissive to me in real life. He is submissive when I scene him. But he can be stubborn and pig-headed at other times. When he gets like that, I don't want to even reward him with a scening. I believe more in the carrot approach to motivation, not the stick (in david's case, the stick is the carrot, so it's complicated!)

So what he needs to keep him motivated is for his personal training sessions to have the possibility of getting kinky and exciting for him, of fulfilling his fantasies. If the whole fitness thing can be turned into one big "scene", then he will obey and get himself into shape.

There were two approaches possible. Find a personal trainer who we can make kinky, or find a kinky lady who can also do personal training. I tried the former and it did not work out, so I decided I would need to go for the latter to ensure success, but where to start?

Remember the Pro Domme david and I visited? I reached out to her by email and asked  if she knew of anybody in her field who happened also to be a qualified personal trainer? I figure these girls need to stay fit for their jobs, so just maybe she would know of such a person. To my surprise I got an answer back, and a name and a number!

I phoned her up and left a message on her voice mail indicating the general idea of what I wanted her to do:

Hi, my name is Julie. I got your number from Mistress xxx. I am looking for an in-home personal trainer for my husband, but who is also willing to give him the occasional spanking to keep it interesting for him. He's a kinky boy, and this will really help keep him motivated to train hard. If you're interested at all, please give me a call back at xxx-xxx-xxxx. Thank you!

To my immense surprise, I got a call back the next day and I was able to speak with her in person. She said that her friend had asked her about it before she sent on her contact info to me, and she really liked the idea. We agreed to get together for lunch to discuss it at greater length. Naturally, I was keeping david utterly in the dark as this was going on.

She an I met at a discreet downtown lunch spot (my treat, of course). I asked for an out of the way table so we wouldn't be overheard!

I liked her a lot. She is younger than I and very well qualified and experienced on the personal training front. She was also very complimentary about me going out of my way to arrange this for my husband. Apparently I am "one in million". We agreed on a fee, which was a bit pricier than what I had been paying the other trainers, but I thought was still good value for money. It was not anywhere near what we paid for a real pro domme session. She stuck closer to personal training rates, but with a bit extra for the domination aspect.

We discussed my thinking on motivating david. She initially thought that I thought that the spankings would be something he wanted to avoid and so would do as he was told. I told her that was not my intention at all. That he was a kinky boy and anything kinky would be a reward for him, not a punishment. But for it to appeal to his fantasy, we needed to pretend that it was "punishment". A little of that would keep him coming back for more, and if she dommed him, he would do as he was told just because he was being told in a forceful way with the "threat" of a spanking held over him.

She understood all this, and was a bit relieved as this way she could keep it lighter and more fun, and concentrate on the training aspects throwing in just enough "punishment" to have him coming back for more. Perfect.

She wanted to discuss limits and boundaries with me, and basically we agreed that smacks to the ass and legs were fine, clothed or unclothed, implements or not. I also told her that if she wanted to use his nudity or feminine clothes to humiliate him during  the training, that would be fine also. I basically told her there was to be no nudity or sex on her part (she wholeheartedly agreed!), and that I was reserving his cock, balls, and up inside his asshole for me, but she could have the run of anything else.  I think that she was impressed that I knew my mind so well and spoke it!

She also asked about how experienced he was and how much he could take. I described one of my more epic beatings and she seemed impressed. Ha Ha!

Most importantly, I told her we would be playing it "straight". I would be introducing her as david's new personal trainer to replace the last one, and we would not talk about anything of this with david. She and I agreed we would have some glorious fun with him. We ended on a more serious note, talking about his exercise and eating habits. She was pretty appalled with what I told her!

After this was all arranged, that evening I told david that I had found him a new in-home personal trainer, and that he was GOING TO do it and he was GOING TO get into shape! He agreed (he knew it was coming: only a matter of time until I found him a new girl).

"Any chance she's kinky at all?" he asked me. Ha!

"I have no earthly idea," I fibbed to him, "but she is an experienced trainer who comes highly recommended, and that should be good enough for you."

He looked very crestfallen at that.

"But," I went on, "she and I did talk about your diet, and she used the word 'childish' to sum it up."

I sat down next to him on the couch and put my hand on the crotch of his pants. He had stiffened slightly. "You want to be treated like a child by her, don't you?"

"Yes Ma'am" he said, stiffening more.

"Go bring me your hairbrush." I whispered in his ear.