Wednesday, September 6

Husband Spanked for Real

So, I've been looking for opportunities to up the "real FLR" quotient in our relationship. My darling husband presented me with the perfect opportunity the other night.

We have a device called the Sodastream.


It's used to make bubbly water from tap water. I enjoy bubbly water mixed with a hint of cranberry juice and a bit of lime. Those canisters of CO2 run out, of course, and it's my husband's job to keep them stocked (he goes to the Canadian Tire for refills - his domain!). We have about a dozen of them so he does not have to go very often and he can trade the empties for fulls all at once. The idea is that he goes to exchange the lion's share before we run out.

The dozen canisters sit up like little soldiers on a high shelf. You can tell by the cap if it's used or new. We got down to just one new one left on the shelf . I remember reminding him to get the canisters exchanged as we are getting low.

Then we ran out, and he needed to fit the very last one in. I reminded him again to go get them filled. I DO NOT like running out of bubbly water! ;-) He promised he would tomorrow.

Well tomorrow, and tomorrow. I reminded him again. He hit his head and said "Doh!" and promised to do it, for sure, tomorrow.


Well, you can see where this is going.

I got home earlier than him, and went to bubble up some water. Phewwwwwwwweeeee... And we're out.

 
The canisters are gone from the shelf. At least he has them with him. He gets home. Does he have a bagful of new canisters. He does not. He "forgot".


I take him by the ear. I pull him all the way up to our bedroom like that. He knows what he has coming. I open the bedroom drawer and pull out his hairbrush.


I open up his spanking chair. A small folding chair we keep in the bedroom.


I sit down on it. He is in front of me. I unbuckle his belt, and pull the belt out his belt loops. That's for later. I unclasp and unzipper his pants. I make them fall to the floor. He is in his boxers today. I grab on either side of his boxers and lower them to the floor. His penis and testicles come on display. He is not hard. I move him to my side and I pull him over my lap, pants and underpants at his ankles.

I push his shirt up above his waist. I put my left arm around his waist.

"How many times did I tell you???? How many???"

"quite a few..."

"Whose responsibility is it to change those out when they get low???"

"mine..."

"Well, I think you need a lesson in responsibility. Do you agree?"

"yes ma'am..."

"A long hard lesson..." I say under my breath as I tighten my grip on him. Then I start just wailing away on his ass with that hairbrush. And I mean wailing! I went for a good, I don't know, five minutes likely, at a spank a second. You do the math. His ass turned cherry red and white in the middles. He cried out and begged me and apologized over and over again: "Owww! Ohh! No! Please! I'm sorry! I'm sorry! Please!!!"

When I was done I threw the hairbrush down on the ground and I literally pushed him off my lap so that he fell at my feet.

"Get up!" I yelled at him as I grabbed him by his ear and yanked. I turned him around and made him bend over the back of the chair, elbows on the seat. I picked up his belt I had removed earlier and I just start whipping that ass! About 50 good strokes, I'd reckon. Again he was pleading and begging.

"Stay there!" I told him after I had finished.

I went to get the tube of toothpaste and a bathroom glass of water.


I put a big glob of toothpaste on my finger, wet it, and shoved it up his ass. I smooshed it all around in there. I repeated with a second glob. Then I coated his anal area until it was white. This causes quite an intense burning in his asshole that lasts at least an hour.

"Pull up your pants!" I told him. "You will go to the Canadian Tire NOW and get me the replacements. At the checkout, tell the girl you fucked up, forgot to get refills, and got a spanking from your wife. GO! NOW!"

david had a scared look in his eye, pulled up his pants quickly and ran out the door. I could see him wincing as he moved, a combination of his well-spanked rear and the toothpaste burning his anus and rectum.

He returned quickly, a bit longer than half an hour, carrying the replacement canisters. He put them down on the kitchen table.

"Please Julie, may I wash out my bum?" he asked pitifully.

"Burns does it?"

"Yes Ma'am!"

"Did you tell the salesgirl at the checkout?"

"Yes Ma'am."

"What did you say exactly?"

"I told her her that I had fucked up and not gotten these changed until they ran out, and that my wife was pissed and whipped my ass, literally whipped it. With a belt."

"How did she react?"

"Smirked Ma'am."

"Was there anybody else in earshot?"

"No Ma'am. May I please go wash out my bum Ma'am?" As he said this he bounced from one leg to the other.

"Put away the canisters, and put a fresh one into the dispenser," I told him.

He looked pained but hurried to do as he was told, wiggling and wincing the whole time.

"May I please go and wash out my bum, Ma'am?" he asked desperately after he had completed the chore.

"You may."

As soon as I said that he scurried right upstairs.

"And let that be a lesson to you!" I yelled after him.

I was smiling as I bubbled up a bottle of water, and made my bubbly cranberry-lime drink. Even put a couple of festive ice cubes in it to celebrate.

There. Did I "scene him" or did I punish him? You be the judge.

91 comments:

  1. Oh geez,

    I'll be back, I just need to ... check on something in the bathroom real quick.

    jimd

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    1. How is your penis? Still there?

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    2. A girl I was seeing caught me on your sight, masturbating. I thought that would be the last of her, boy was I wrong. I had to explain and then since I had just started, had to finish. She then stated I know what naughty little boys need when playing with themselves, a spanking. Boy did I ever get a spanking and she was serious. We have been married now for three years and when I hear "naughty boy" I quickly get to the bedroom, undress, and wait, sometimes five minutes, sometimes longer. Once the spanking is over, I stand facing the wall in the front room for a good hour. So if you ask how is my penis, it is fine, it is my bottom that was addressed for playing with my penis. Jack

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    3. What??? Are you saying MY BLOG was partially responsible for your happy sparky marriage? I like the timeout afterwards. One full hour is no joke. You must hate that! But the best part is that no dobro soon after you crave another spanking from her, even knowing it will be painful and that you will need to stand, yes, one hour bare bottomed in the front room facing the wall.

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  2. I would put that as a punishment. Never heard of the tooth paste being used that way nice touch. Also having him tell the sales clerk about his whipping was good. How was his bottom after he cleaned any little burning left?
    archedone

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    1. I've done it before, the toothpaste, though not for a while. Even tested it on myself. Quite nasty!

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    2. Yes, it is. I was once ordered to use toothpaste as "lube" for a dildo. Problem is, toothpaste has a slightly abrasive ingredient.

      Submissively,
      david

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  3. It would have been fun to empty a bottle of sparkling water + 2 effervescent tablets in david's ass to teach him not to lie (he did not say anything to the saleswoman). This provides amusing sensations (for the one who looks).
    To answer the question, I think it's more of a scene. If david decided it, YOU would receive one of those spankings which one could say is a TRUE punishment and therefore very real.
    A ground for the justification of a punishment ?
    being such a bitch ?

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    1. Ah, the word "bitch" does not translate to well in this concept. But I know what you mean, sterny!

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  4. It was definitely a punishment. You got right to it and immediately made him correct the reason he was spanked. You may want to express your authority in some manner each time he gets new cartridges. Like he has to wear panties, women's deodorant and scented lotion and a butt plug. Wait a second, how come he was wearing boxers? I thought he had to wear panties this month? Oh, the previous post was a scene. Keep having fun!

    Best, Shades

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    1. Yes, I did not make him actually wear panties for a month!

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  5. Personally I'd call it punish him, given the lack of erection. I'd also call it overkill, given the nature of the "mistake", but that's of course very subjective.

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    1. OVERKILL!?! I remind him, like 4 TIMES?!!!!?

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    2. You might misunderstand my meaning Julie. The spanking's fair enough, but I'd call the severity described overkill for my tastes, given what we're talking about. But again, the level of punishment is of course quite subjective, and depends quite a lot on your husband's tolerance level and your normal level of play. Seen in that context it might not be overkill. But only the two of you can really be the judges of that IMO.

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    3. But I intended it to be "overkill". Anything worth doing is worth doing right.

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  6. Only you can answer that question. Did you get that different emotional feeling that scening David doesn't give? If so did it add anything for you? I'm willing to bet it added to his experience!!
    Tom

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    1. It felt different yet familiar... I think all the world's a stage and all the men and women merely players.

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  7. Well look at you......quite the DD matriarch. Congratulations.

    As for whether this was a scene or real? Only one person knows that and it's not any of us or even David.

    I will say from my perspective it seemed more real than anything you've written about before and my guess is that unless you dropped contrary clues we are unaware of, David probably found it to be real as well. But only you know what you were thinking at the time and whether this was an excuse to play hard or a solution to a behavioral issue.

    How about posting one of your well-expressed follow-ups to explore how this might have been different for you? It it was real, there will be different feelings going on....even if the actions themselves are nearly the same as a scene.

    Anyway, great post. I've been wondering when this 'next step' would happen. ;-) All the best!

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    1. To me it was not that different as I try to channel real emotions while scening as well. HE actually asked me afterwards, "was that real or a scene?" I told him it was real and he can expect more if he screws up. He now does not know if my saying that was a scene or not!

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  8. Definitely a punishment...bordering on a "sceneushment" (yes I just made that word up)LOL.

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  9. Ms. Julie, my money is on "punishment" and NOT "scene." You determined the offending behavior, called him out for it, got him to admit his guilt, immediately took him to the bedroom for hairbrush and belt with NO warmup, reinforced the lesson with toothpaste and embarrassment at the checkout counter, made him recount to you his experience at the Canadian Tire, and concluded with a final lecture.

    One comment questioned whether david actually said what he was supposed to say to the sales gal. I believe he did as he was told, so as to avoid the possibility of additional punishment for lying. As someone who has been punished by you, I know you have a suspicious mind, because you did question whether I'd typed the sentences myself or used a software program to generate them! You audited me, and I had to defend myself, which I did, and you ended up accepting the evidence I provided you. I believe david KNOWS you could have called the sales gal to check on what he told her - and you would have, if you suspected any shortcuts or lying on his part.

    Best,
    - t.

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    1. Hi, t. Looking for a second assignment and a second punishment ?
      I remember miss Julie found it would be fun if you could make further progress.

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    2. Wait...you punish men online as well? How might one become a subject of yours?

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    3. Send me an email, boy, but be careful what you wish for!

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  10. I believe the answer lies in the eye (ass? brain?) of the beholder. Speaking from recent experience there is definitely a different vibe and feel when things get real as opposed to a game or a scene.

    Submissively,
    david

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  11. Hi Julie,
    Regular reader but have not commented for a while: to answer your last question, you definitely punished him and it sounds like he knew it was real from the beginning. How I really don't know since your scenes are so realistic. But his failure to be hard when you pulled his pants down leave no doubt he knew what was happening. The toothpaste up his bum was a nice touch as well as the humiliating conversation at Canadian Tire. With many others probably I have been fascinated at how you skate so close to the "real" DD line but still describe it and think of it as a scene. The thing is that discipline and punishment must look the same to a third party and so only the participants know for sure. I admit somewhat sheepishly that I have often thought you were administering real DD in the past but were in some denial that this part of your relationship with your husband had become real. This is really a compliment to you because your scenes are so real it is hard to believe they are not. In any case you seem to have a decision to make: you have now disciplined him for real and he accepted a real punishment. It seems to me much more important what you feel about this and whether you want to continue or go back to scenes. It's all good but you have reached a fork in the road. David’s complete obedience suggest he is ready for real discipline. The question is: are you

    Alan

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    1. I respectfully disagree that this is a crossroads or fork in the road for you. This one seems a no brainer. To me it's more like getting the almost non existent free upgrade on something you really love! Say you have a beautiful luxury car that you can't imagine trading in. Then you suddenly find out you can get a free sport package for that car. You could keep getting all the enjoyment from driving it that you have in the past. Though every now and again there is this added excitement from the new upgrade.
      Tom

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    2. Interest perspectives. This only works as punishment because david allows it (craves it, is turned on by it). It had a very real vibe because it was a very real offense that very truly pissed me off, and that was very unpleasant for him (in certain ways).

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    3. I completely agree that spanking only works as punishment because the submissive needs it but getting spanked by an angry wife and " on the spot" is a very different experience from a planned spanking or maintenance spankings.The emotions go off the board when your disciplinarian is really angry. That's also when you know for sure you are under control because like a moth to the flame you are unable to resist the authority she is projecting.
      Alan

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    4. Oh yes, I was genuinely pissed off with him. And there was never a question in my mind, or his apparently, to not obey me in that instant.

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  12. Definitely a punishment ... and well deserved. I recently forgot on several occasion's to take the piled up bottles, cans and plastic to be recycled. My wife reminded me at least three times. Coming home from work she saw once again that I had not gone to the recycling and it was immediately upstairs for a bare ass over the knees spanking with her oversized paddle.

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    1. Yes! And the key to punishing a spanko is to make sure it's extra hard and unpleasant so that he wished you would just scene him. Hard but true.

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  13. I would say “punishment” without a doubt. At least this is the way it must have felt to David. Us subby guys need a little talk and prep to get our submissive juices flowing. The poor guy just walked in from work probably still in his alfa mode and wasn’t ready for this at all. I’m sure that in the aftermath he is probably in sub heaven and he is now aware that you won’t hesitate to incorporate behavioral punishments in addition to all the wonderful scenes you create.
    Cheers, Bob Bell

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    1. Or... won't hesitate to unilaterally declare a very unpleasant scene when he screws up!

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    2. What distinction are you trying to make between "punishing" him and "unilaterally declar[ing] a very unpleasant scene"?

      It seems like a distinction without difference, yet you go to great linguistic lengths to preserve it.

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    3. Interesting question! Not sure.

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  14. I would say it was punishment. He committed the infraction, you called him on it and still he 'forgot'. On my list of infractions is a similar reason for a spanking. Forgetting something while I am out. It happens, we forget and like David, I got punished. My discipline was nothing like his, however, I did not forget multiple times and still fail to accomplish the task, so his discipline should have been heavier than mine. Punishment for sure.

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    1. I'm glad you see it my way. Some pussy earlier on suggested my punishment was "too harsh" for his infraction. Bah!

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    2. Your are correct again. Even though I am on the opposite end of the paddle as you are, I believe in the DD relationship. It is as much of a duty for the Dominant to administer just discipline as it is for me to bare and present my ass and accept what she feels is due.

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  15. I say it was punishment you taught him lesson he needed to learn about obeying and forgetting things or order you given he knew I am sure what would happen. would you give somebody else a spanking for same thing I am beginning think there a real reason or time YOU FEEL REAL SPANKING IS NEEDED even so you say you mostly don't punish him for real reason mostly scene

    I some what wonder if he ever thought you would spank him or ever figure out Spanking he would get if didn't do as you said told him now seem like he learn will get REAL SPANKING if mess up doubt he forgot on purpose so you would punish him

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    1. It was not on purpose. I could tell by his reaction!

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    2. ok understanding bet you felt better knowing you taught him lesson big time

      bet he going remember this spanking for long time doesn't want mess up again with this

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  16. The worse spanking I ever received from my wife, when she found my stash of spanking magazines F/m, and to make it worse I was masturbating just after a shower. I did not think my bottom would ever heal, that hairbrush, no words from her, put one hell of a fire on my bottom. I promised never again, she took all the magazines, and thinking it was over. A couple of weeks later, I earned another spanking. I stepped out of the shower, she handed me a hand towel and with a spank to my wet bottom told me to get to the front room. I had to masturbate and insure it landed in the towel. She then took hot water and cleaned me off. The spanking hurt from the start, facing the wall afterwards, I had a hard time not wanting to rub my spanked bottom. She read a magazine, said nothing, when I was allowed to leave, told to put on my jammies, I did as told.

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  17. I can relate to the part about being spanked with my own belt. There is something kind of cool about me knowing that the belt I wear in public all the time is one of my wife's favorite disciplinary tools.

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    1. Yes!
      Mu husband also gets turned on when I'm in my jeans and have on my thick heavy belt (hard to find in my size!). When we're out in public or at friends, and I catch his eye, and then tap my belt buckle with my finger..

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  18. "I enjoy bubbly water mixed with a hint of cranberry juice and a bit of lime. "

    A little vodka can help. Or a lot. Esp. at the end of a hard day. That's been working for me for years!

    A.J.

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    1. Oh dear! What kind of a girl do you take me for!

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    2. Heh-heh-heh-heh....

      The best kind...?

      A.J.

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  19. "Did I "scene him" or did I punish him?

    Punish. No doubt. Too spontaneous for a scene. And 300 with a hairbrush? Hard? Followed by a belt? Wow! I'm guessing the exertion alone took a bit of your anger out of you, too.

    As for the toothpaste - that's a new one for me!! (The absolutely filthy things one learns on this blog.)

    I DO NOT RECOMMEND THIS:
    When I was in high school someone pulled a prank on a guy in gym class by putting some of that balm we used to use on strained muscles - in his jock strap! That stuff slowly seeped into his ball-sack and he was soon winching, then scratching, then rubbing, and then the wild fire dance began!!!! Holy shit, did it ever! Finally smelling the camphor he ran into the shower and used a ton of soap to get that balm off. His ball-sack swelled - and not in a nice way - and became real red and sore that lasted for well over an hour. I thought the coach would kill us all for pulling that stunt.

    But that...in the anus? If toothpaste burns, that balm, DESIGNED to produce heat, is pure fire. If you are happy with the results from toothpaste, use it. That balm may be too dangerous.

    A.J.

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    1. You should try, just a dab, on your external anus and let us know!

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    2. Not happening, love!!!

      Not my thing (I'm still a virgin back there), besides - I was in that gym when that happened! I saw it unfold and knew who the guilty party was.

      Now, if I had your red-bottom over-my-knee for a brief moment....!

      A.J.

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  20. Awfully harsh punishment for the crime. I think someone should remember that next time you're naughty

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  21. Definitely punishment, and contained all of the ingredients as described above. Proof will be in the pudding, does he forget again. It's a great way for both parties to feel better quickly (maybe not David)and you solved a problem. Was up in your neck of the country this week and have a similar experience waiting me, for driving to fast on the curvy roads and getting my grown daughter car sick. after my wife told me repeatably to slow down. It's what we men need but also works to solve serious infractions, like running out of bubbles:)

    John

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  22. I see it as an adult domestic discipline scene. It's a scene because the conditions for it to happen are born from a desire for it to happen. We could debate forever about what punishment really is and whether this legitimately fits, but as someone with a discipline fetish, this works as punishment for me. Misbehavior results in a spanking that is very painful and humiliating, and it is controlled by the disciplinarian. That's really all it takes to qualify for me. The caveat is that punishment falls within the acceptable limits of everyone involved.

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  23. You are right to ask whether it was a scene or punishment. As a dominant it is important for you to know the difference between the two and to know when each makes sense so you can use both of these tools from your dominant toolbag.

    Punishment is a means of modifying behaviour. It is a training measure. It should only come after the breaking of a rule that has been clearly spelled out. It isn't fair to punish a submissive for something they don't know is expected. Doing so creates confusion and mistrust.

    A scene involves a different type of play. Something that turns you both on. It can of course lead to role playing of actual displeasure and being 'caught' but there is no lesson being taught or behaviour modified.

    This situation looks like a punishment as it involved corrective action. However the fact that David asked you 'was that a scene or a punishment?' shows something may have gone awry here. Perhaps, noting that you are not in a full time female led relationship, you should ask yourself could David have been reasonably expected to receive the punishment you gave him for not getting the water bottles? Did he break a rule his dominant gave him or rather did he not do as his wife requested? Were the rules made clear to him?

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    1. Excellent insights. No, he did not break his dominant's rule, he displeased his wife. But, he displeased a wife who has the ability to turn on a scene anytime she pleases. I think he might have reasonably expected a "realistic scene" to ensue!

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    2. Ms Julie there is no such thing as a "realistic scene". It seems to me you are confusing not only the distinction between "punishment" and "scene", but also between "wife" and "dominant".

      The rule was "maintain a continuous supply of water bottles". The submissive could have reasonably expected punishment by the dominant for breaking this rule.

      The wife was severely affected by the breach of this rule but it was the dominant, not the wife, who very properly enforced the rule by way of a fair and appropriate "punishment".

      This was not a scene, "realistic" or otherwise.

      The wife, other than being a victim of the poor behaviour, had nothing to do with it.

      You may wear two hats Ms Julie but you cannot wear them both at the same time.

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    3. Disagree! I scened him for a real offence. He submits to my discipline because it is a scene. I am not confused at all. I exist in both states at the same time!

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    4. Well you can disagree of course but if there is no room for confusion at all why did you pose the question in the first place for us to judge of whether you scened or punished him? This is very similar to the situation that arose in your "summertime wandering eyes" piece when david very inappropriately perved at the girl crossing the street. There you said "I am going to scene your ass when we get home." You really meant "punishment" then too but your habit is to use the term "scene" interchangeably to describe both punishments for real life offences and scenes for fictional role plays. But it's your (excellent) blog so have it your way if you must Ms Julie.

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    5. Well, I was confused before all this wonderful interaction on comments. Now I think I'm comfortable again in its ambiguity!

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  24. Punishment. Without a doubt.

    1. Nothing was negotiated.
    2. It was sprung on him without prior notice, warning, or specific consent.
    3. Nothing suggests that you wanted him to enjoy or be turned on by any part of it.
    4. Nothing suggests he enjoyed or was turned on by it.
    5. Your motive was revenge for a perceived "wrong" done to you.
    6. No indication that you modulated anything or looked out for his safety or well being.
    7. It was done in the heat of the moment and fueled by your anger.
    8. Nothing resembling a warmup or any measures to mitigate skin damage.
    9. You wanted him to truly suffer
    10. The toothpaste thing was vicious.

    James

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    1. But... the terms of our scening FLR are that I can scene him anytime without notice, and it's still consensual (he can say "red"). So most of what you say is not relevant. He enjoys and gets turned on by my dominating him. I always look out for his safety. I DID want him to suffer, and let's just see him forget my bubbly water again!

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  25. That makes at least 3, 5, and 7-10 both undisputed and relevant. I'll take that.

    James

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    1. I disagree on 3. Whenever I scene him, I ALWAYS want to give him what he needs and craves, which is sort of the same thing. I'll give you the others!

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  26. Also, while he "enjoys and gets turned on by [your] dominating him," you carried this out in a manner intended to ensure he did not, as you indicated in this comment above: "Yes! And the key to punishing a spanko is to make sure it's extra hard and unpleasant so that he wished you would just scene him. Hard but true." So, not only is 3 relevant, but 4 is as well.

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    1. There are levels and depths here. Yes, on the surface he did not enjoy it, but he enjoys the domination without a doubt. It's your inability to "get" this point that leads to your confusion over our lifestyle.

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    2. Of course, I get that. The point is you could give him the thrill he gets from being dominated without the misery you added to the mix here in order to make it a "real punishment." So, perhaps he did enjoy the thought or the basic dynamic of being dominated, but by yiur own admission, your goal was to make it truly unpleasant for him, which is one reason I concluded it was a punishment and not a scene.

      You even said that that the idea was to make him wish it were a scene. That seems like conclusive evidence that it was not a scene, and therefore, was a punishment. It seems like you answered the very question you posed in the post.

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    3. Unpleasant in the moment. Satisfying his greater need. Making sure I get bubbly water always ;-)

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  27. "I DID want him to suffer . . . ."

    That is so heartwarming. Hallmark really needs a card for that sentiment.

    Something like: "I love how you smile, and the things that you do, but the thing I love most is . . . the beating I gave you."

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    1. Of course he should suffer, it's what he craves!

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    2. Now your logic is getting inscrutably circular because you are using "suffering" in a way that suggests it was desired and/or enjoyed.

      There must be a word to describe something he truly does not want and dislikes on every level. The question is, was that how he experienced this or was it a positive experience for him?

      And if it was a positive experience for him, could it actually be considered "punishment"?

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    3. I can't really truly punish him. He consents to me punishing him because it excites him ultimately. A "real" punishment excites him even more.

      You are so literal and linear in your thinking. It's really Yin and Yang. Both existing at the same time.

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    4. Interesting statement. I wonder if the hardcore "DD" crowd views it that way. I tend to think you are right, but I suspect that they would resist agreeing because it would contaminate the purity of their dynamic.

      I think we're bordering on quantum mechanics here. It's both a wave and a particle. However, I tend to agree, at least up until the point that a limit is violated.

      I think you can truly punish him by refusing to spank him.

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    5. Yes! He once tried to manipulate me into spanking him by being a brat when it wasn't welcome or appropriate. He got a week's grounding for that!

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  28. The spankings that I get from my wife and mother-in-law are always very "real' and not scenes. last Saturday the two of them decided I needed to be professionally fitted for my bras at Nordstrom's and arranged for an appointment. Up until this point my wearirng of women's undergarments had been only in private of my urging, so I was very apprehensive regarding this. My mother-in-law decided the proper way to convince me it was non-negotiable was a serious dose of her 3" wide strap across my pantied buttocks. My wife Elise secured my wrists and ankles to the spanking-bench and her mother then proceeded to give me the worst strapping I have ever had. This quickly convinced me I needed a bra-fitting. I dressed in my normal bra and panties under a men's polo and khakis and we went to the mall. The entire procedure was very embarassing and I wound up with 5 new bras, all white and very satiny. Once home they both took turns banging me with their strap-ons and rubbing my nipples through my new bra until I orgasmed.Having two strict women dominate me is extremely arousing and I am glad my wife actually gave me no choice in this lifestyle change.

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    1. Nope. You're right. Not a scene at all. Nothing sexual going on here. Move on people.
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  29. We have a similar way, but much simpler, no special chair or implement. She picks any thing handy, wooden spoon if in kitchen, her belt if she just arrived home or getting dressed. Otherwise the most handy item is her slipper that she takes off in a second and turns my bottom bright red in a minute.

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  30. OMG Ms Julie! I definitely perceive that as punishment! And it arouses me to no end! I absolutely love all of your scening, but they're something extra special about you truly commanding david to take a spanking (and burning toothpaste in his bum) as punishment for disobeying /disappointing you!! You are glorious! ;-) Respectfully, doc

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