A reader of my blog was surfing some porn and emailed me a link to check out. I think he wanted to get me in trouble! If I don't watch my step here, this could be me...
So, let me preface this blog entry by saying all BDSM play should be 100% consensual, and if in any doubt whatsoever, please err on the conservative side. There is a thing called "consensual non-consent" where we explicitly give our partners latitude, within prescribed boundaries, to perform acts (or have us perform them) that at the time we put up a fight about. That is still "consent" in the larger sense, provided you can safeword out of the situation.
Let me also say that your choice of the sex/gender of what turns you on is never a wrong thing or a bad thing, it is simply who you are. If, for example, gay sex happens to not turn you on, that in no sense implies you are not a supporter of others to live any lifestyle/sexuality that pleases them (among consenting adults).
Finally, if your partner has specified certain hard boundaries, it is never ok to attempt to emotionally blackmail them into crossing those boundaries. Asking is ok, emotional blackmail is not ok
There. I hope I covered my bases and can therefore avoid a spanking from my husband for what I'm about to post!
Something that turns me on, but not my husband, is the thought of forced bi, "making" a straight guy (the straighter the better) have sex with another man as a form of female domination of him. As in "prove how devoted you are to me by doing this thing I know will turn your world upside down" I find the thought of that to be an immense, and super sexy, power rush for me.
Well this reader found a tumblr like site that contains all manner of filth of the femdom variety. It's https://nairmcted.bdsmlr.com. BDSMLR is micro-blogging site that has taken over from tumblr once they banned porn there. In viewing the stuff there, I guess I created my own presence as well where I can reblog stuff such as the below (see https://strictjuliespanks.bdsmlr.com/). The particular images were a sequence of gif images from a video I guess. I don't know the name of the video. If anybody knows, please let me know and I will credit it here (and go pay for it and watch it!).
It's a very attractive woman (already just her turns me on - if I were a fourth in the scene I would be making out with her!) "forcing" two men to have sex with one another, and enjoying the fuck out of it!
Their arms are bound behind their backs. They are arranged in a side-by-side "69" position. They are clearly being made to suck furiously on one another's cocks. I imagine there is some penalty lined up for the one who cums first, not able to get his buddy off quickly enough. She is whipping one of the couple's ass to encourage him. She has a lovely little smile on her face, clearly enjoying it (this surpasses any acting that may be going on - she is me). You can see the effect the whipping is having on the one being whipped. He is clearly putting more energy into it, sucking harder, sucking faster, literally going balls deep each time. By contrast, the other one is only half-in, not even fulling taking the cock in. If that were me giving head to my husband, I could expect a good spanking for such a lacklustre job. I personally would want them both to keep going until each of them have cum in the others' mouth. The "winner" will have a mouthful of cum and will have to keep sucking on an increasingly limp penis until he himself gets off as well. Then I'd keep them at it for another couple of minutes so they can each experience that sensation. Mmmmmm.
Perhaps this is the loser's punishment...
He gets his ass and asshole whipped as he is forced to lick his partner's asshole. The winner is allowed to just be there, hold his cheeks apart, and enjoy a nice tongue bath from his buddy.
Delicious stuff, don't you think?
Oh, Julie! Yes! The forced-bi scenario is probably my one “bucket list” item that will never be fulfilled. It would absolutely have to start with a consensual non-consent agreement, where, once it starts, there would be no backing out. A safe word would only be allowed before the festivities began. Once we begin, no amount of begging, pleading or crying could end it. Yes, it would truly turn my world upside down. It would permanently alter my self-image. But it would also provide the ultimate humiliation and submission experience that I crave. The thought of being forced to suck a man’s cock, take his cock up my asshole and lick his asshole makes me shudder and makes my little cock shrivel even smaller. So why is it leaking precum? - david
ReplyDeleteYour begging, pleading, and crying would wet my panties!
DeleteDear Julie, Thinking of a woman getting pleasure from my mental and physical anguish makes my panties wet too! I’ve been daydreaming quite a lot about what it would be like to be your David, and as another reader suggested, what it would be like for you if my post above were written by your David, instead of me. Now, I am very happy with my life, and I wouldn’t want to permanently trade places with anyone, but if I could somehow be your David for just a little while, I would agree to consensual non-consent to ALL the things you wish he would. - (small “d”) david
DeleteThe thought of a beautiful woman getting pleasure from my mental and physical anguish makes my panties wet too! I’ve been doing a lot of day-dreaming about what it would be like to be your David, and what it would be like for you if the post above was written by your David, as another post suggested, instead of me. I am very happy with my life and would not permanently trade places with anyone, but if I could somehow be your David for just a little while, I would not waste a moment thinking about my hard limits and would experience as much of you as possible, including all the consensual non-consent scenarios you could think of. Unfortunately, that will remain a dream, and I will continue to live a content and grateful life as (small “d”) david
DeleteEven the word scares me! But, it reminds me of the saying, “Submitting to what you want to do is NOT submission!” (small “d”) david
DeleteDelicious indeed! I'd love to be one of those guys.
ReplyDeleteFemdom 69ing seems like a fun evening activity for two dominant wives, who can spank their hubbies asses while they both suck dick like in that excellent pic Lill Jo did for you.
Or perhaps the wives will invite their hunky lovers too so they can enjoy the spectacle of a 1691... with the lovers fucking the hubbies in their well-spanked asses while they suck on each others dicks :D
Oh, is that this 1691 project I hear so much of?
DeleteThese are all great scenes. They would be enhanced by your hot breath whispering bisexual encouragement in their ears
ReplyDeleteYeah, "come on baby, do it for me..."
DeleteOMG! Absolutely one of my favorites. Can't imagine anything much more humiliating than losing a cock sucking contest and the punishment being to lick the winner's asshole and whipped at the same time. All the while being laughed at by a dominant woman. Sublime!
ReplyDeleteTotal humiliation!
DeleteI respect that this is your fantasy Julie. This would be difficult for most straight men to agree too. However, testosterone replacement therapy makes this much more possible for women who’s husbands have a lowering libido.
ReplyDeleteMaybe estrogen therapy is needed for the boys to enjoy cock more?
DeleteOn the male body that would actually lower libido, at least at first. Unless it was done fully through to a complete transformation from boy to girl. Then libido would rise as the body’s chemistry gets adjusted to being female. Would you still get aroused from David being a “top” in a bi situation?
DeleteNo, I want him on the bottom!
DeleteI'm a guy and while forced bi with sexual acts with a man has zero appeal to me, forced bi with a strictly spanking aspect is very arousing to me. I've been spanked by men before and while I haven't really enjoyed it (compared to being spanked by women at least), the idea of my partner "forcing" me to get spanked by a man excites me very much.
ReplyDeleteI’m imagining a scene where my partner would contact a man to spank me (I know from experience that it is quite easy to find one) and plan a scene where I would be severely punished by this man in front of her. I’m imagining that this man would come to my house one day (or my partner taking me to him without telling me advance) and give me the beating of a lifetime. Perhaps I’d get a severe belting with no warm up followed by a ten minutes spanking with a solid bath brush over his knees that would leave my ass blistered, but this would be for my partner to decide.
Yes, I feel that men into femdom have not truly experienced an ass beating until they receive one at the hands of a man.
DeleteAgreed. It's not so much that a woman can't be as severe as a man (no doubt in my opinion that many can), but rather that a guy into femdom won't get much if any pleasure from getting his ass beaten by a man which would make it a true punishment.
DeleteI think a woman can be MORE severe. Just not with her bare hand.
DeleteThis is a very hot storyline. Love your imagination, and hope your wishes come true. Imagine if the first comment was from your David!
ReplyDeletebottoms up
Red
I wish!
DeleteOh my gawd, I'm sorry Julie but this post just had me giggling so much. 4 out of the nine paragraphs here were to protect your own ass (figuratively and literally), and I just... I can't help but find this adorably charming. You really, really learned your lesson last time and it shows big time!
ReplyDelete-Kasey
Oh blush! There goes my contention that spanking does not really change behaviour. But 20 minutes under his hairbrush was awful!
DeleteAdorableness aside for a moment, I love your BDSMlr. It really gives a glimpse into what's going on in the mind of Julie at any one particular time. Looks like you're feeling particularly subby at the moment! Should we be expecting another post on that soon, I wonder?
Delete-Kasey
Yes! On vacay at the cottage at the moment experiencing a spanking a day. Today got naked corner time on the deck. 😲
DeleteSounds like you're being awfully naughty! Hope you also got naked time on the dick!
DeleteBet you're wishing he packed his Mario Kart now! Glad you're having fun. ✌
DeleteMmm mmmm!
DeleteOnce David does his first cock he’ll lose his ego and get over it. It’s no big deal. It’s just a cock. Just suck it up (literally) and make your wife a happy woman.
ReplyDelete“Oh is poor baby gagging on that big, nasty cock? Baby needs more practice. No side cheek faking now baby. Take it nice and deep. Good boy.” MrD
My contention as well, but in the meantime I must respect his hard boundaries.
DeleteYes, absolutely, David's boundary here needs to be respected. It's obviously a very hard limit at present especially as he knows how much you would wish him to do it.
DeleteBut, who knows? Sometimes, speaking for myself, a person's limits on many fronts can change or at least soften over time. Curiosity and exploration as we move through life.
It would be his decision of course but you never know. He may be amendable at some point to giving it a try.
vic
Perhaps.
DeleteMy favorite forced bi scenario goes like this.
ReplyDeleteThree couples are away for the weekend and decide to swap spouses for the night. In order to entice the women to particpate, we agree that they get to pick.
My girlfriend picks first and shocks everyone by picking on of the other girls. After the next woman picks, my best friend Mark and I are left staring at each other. We are VERY hesitant
The other four push us to honor the commitment that we made to swap. Finally Mark, a big guy who played football in high school agrees if I am femmed up. The women take me into a bedroom and work their magic. Mark then takes me into his bed and I succomb to his charms
In the AM, us girls are sent to the kitchen to fix breakfast. The other girls gush about how exciting the night was and wait for me to add details about my night. I am too shy to talk about it but finally say that Mark wants to take me to the city next weekend. I am afraid to admit that I want to go and hope the girls push me into it.
Lucky Mark was likely the only one who got to give anal intercourse!
DeleteYes Mark hit the jackpot - a whole new segment of the world for him to hit on. For the narrator, the choices narrow. His wife decided that she was into women. His future is to wiggle his behing in hopes of keeping Mark interested or finding another guy.
DeleteTee hee
DeleteI'm glad that my wife after reading this, no way, but could understand some doing it. The closet we have gotten to this, was when my best friend and I stayed out until the early morning hours, it was a Friday night, so decided to have fun. Our wives were mad as hell and they waited until after we got up to address the problem. We both were told to undress, it was my home, and standing naked, both women made comments of our little penis, and then each gave us a spanking. Living next door, my friend was glad, for he was taken naked back to his house. My wife had me put on my jammies for the rest of the weekend. Did not like at all being spanked with my best friend and not having his wife spank me. Jack
ReplyDeleteNothing worse than a public spanking like that.
DeleteAwesome filth girl 👏
ReplyDeleteLiking your work here, got me rock hard thinking about being forced to suck someone dry.
The filthier the better, amiright?
Delete"If I were a fourth in the scene I would be making out with her!" - I don't know, Julie, I have a feeling she'd be sitting on your pretty little face, flogging your titties and puss whilst you fingered yourself in excitement. Do a poor job and she'll bind you up and flog your pretty ass and stop you playing her reindeer games. Get her off good and proper and she'll let the guys go to town on you - the winner licking your front, the loser licking your back, both desperate to get the taste of cum out of their mouths! This is when Blondie gets to make out with you, as well as flogging the guys for encouragement!
ReplyDeleteI am imagining each others' cum lubricating their tongues as they lick me, front and back. With hubby, I love making him lick me after he's just cum into me. It feels extra slippery, and me knowing why it feels that way, and me knowing he would kinda "rather not" at that point, turns me on even more!
DeleteOh dear, I don't think I ever realised what a naughty little cumslut you are! Like, I knew you had your rules and games and whatever, but didn't picture you sitting around thinking about guys lubing you up with it! And of course, as you imagine your pussy gets damp, you furtively look around to see if you can touch yourself without landing yourself a spanking...
DeleteJulie: If your David would “rather not” lick his cum from inside you, you might remind him of what I imagine would be a rather large contingent of your readers who would enthusiastically volunteer for that assignment. - (small “d”) david
DeleteYou never realized that, Tanky? Really?...
DeleteNo need. Hubby does it for me.
I knew you had rules and rituals, but thought that was more about control and humiliation than the substance itself.
DeleteOh no. Turns me on greatly!
DeleteInteresting. Julie Sploogie! 😜
DeleteAt the moment we only have one. I get along very well with his wife. He is our favorite whipping boy and he is available to me every weekend. Nicole, his wife, infantilizes him to the maximum. On Saturday we take him to the mall with us. I instituted a rule to humiliate him: if he wants to pee he has to ask our permission. We both accompany him to the men's bathroom. As often, all the toilets that close are occupied, I told him to urinate in the urinals as men do in this case. His wife informed me that he has difficulty urinating in the presence of other people. When she tells him not to be like a child, she smiles sardonically. He opens his fly and takes out his penis and he waits for it to come. As he can't, I warn him that I'm going to pull his pants down. “How complicated is it! I can not stand it anymore ! » said his wife. She told me that he always had the habit of spreading his buttcheeks to be able to urinate. I lower his pants and panties to his ankles. The men come in and out. There are some who pretend they don't notice anything, others who smile. He shivers. With my fingertips, I gently spread his anus. I tell him to relax as he lets himself open wide like the well-trained fagot he is. From the movements of his ass I feel he is going to urinate when his wife suddenly says "That' enough! Put a finger in his ass ». This is enough to cut off the jet. I stick a whole finger in his rectum and I churn him at full speed, swinging his prostate. It's a moment that I like, quite violent. His urge to urinate is cut short. I hear Nicole laughing. "Pull up his pants, I'm fed up, we're leaving." I get him dressed and there, like a kid, he starts pissing in his pants The bastard! I pull his panties back down and spank him on his piss wet ass. He has a red bare ass and tears in his eyes to get back to the car. It would be nice to have a second one.
ReplyDeleteMy most well-twisted commenter! Thank you.
DeleteI'll take that as a compliment.:-)
DeleteIt was. First amongst an elite crowd!
DeleteI should’ve made my soon to be ex husband do something like this before I kicked him out for cheating on me. It would’ve knocked him down a few pegs. (Something he needed)
ReplyDelete-grace Marie
Would you have forgiven him and given him another chance had he submitted to it? Or agreed to wear the cock cage?
DeleteMaybe, but I was pregnant and angry. Truthfully I could never forgive him. I wanted to in the beginning I called my big brother and said what if I forgive him. And he said then you’ll be languishing in a loveless marriage. And I said but it wasn’t loveless. And he said I know you you could never look him in the eyes and truly forgive so the love would die. He was right it still hurt. I cried into my big brother’s shoulder on my couch because someone called my baby a sweet baby. And i remembered that my soon to be ex husband called me sweet baby. So no even if he’d submitted and worn a cock cage like a good boy (I find those things repulsive but that’s another thing) I still could never forgive him.
DeleteSounds like good riddance to bad baggage. Sorry for your bad experience.
DeleteCock cage can be fun, though. Keeps them from other gals and makes them super horny for you, plus you can control behaviour by threatening to extend his "lockdown". Ha ha!
That old post with the 4some similar to this is the hottest, Julie. Where the loser suffers further by watching the "winner" who was the better sucker take the female(s) to fuck as they wish.
DeleteI also like the idea as I said previously of encouragement for both males via a week or two+ of chastity and teasing/edging/verbal humiliation leading up!
Being told well it's my choice if I wanna be locked for until X months instead..well we males would "have" to consent then probably!
Also the horniness would help in making one of us cum, and the winner would ravage the other's lady partner's holes with a vengeance while the loser is levied more humiliation.
I'd be honored/scared/excited to have you "forcefully" taking this cherry of mine or giving it away. Only such a gorgeous and compelling woman could I think.
-DOYI(dreaming of your instruction)
Different person here. I actually find that a cock cage puts too much of focus on the cock. Letting the guy be erect but not paying attention to the cock, until you decide to, while not allowing him to touch himself, while he obliges and fights his urges for you...now thats super hot!
DeleteBoth sound great!
DeleteI reckon David’s “boundary’s” are pretty pathetic after all you and he have both done. Just saying.
ReplyDeleteHe's game for a lot and indulges me terribly being subby when that was how I wanted to play, being Dommy when I wanted that, and has let me off the marital leash to play as well. No complaints here. It's ok to not get everything you want. Good for the soul!
DeleteNice pivot to save your ass Ms J. We all know a little bisexuality is on your bucket list - quite right too and you deserve it. Many readers would crawl over cut glass to suck cock for you.
DeleteDamned right. I'm on vacay and getting a spanking a day as it is, don't want to antagonize him in my vulnerable state!
DeleteTo answer the question at the end of your post: NO.
ReplyDelete*(Gives you a horrendous WEDGIE and then pulls back said wedgie into a huge pantySNAP)* Smartass. I hope David is giving you a 'smarting' ass. Just remember, it's been said that female sexuality is more flexible than male.
DeleteBeen getting spanked a lot, but no wedgies or snappies!
DeleteAppears the gif images are from the gay site corbinfisher.com There is a video presence on PornHub and probably elsewhere. Couldn't find this particular video. Would like to have seen how this played out. Tom
ReplyDeleteThanks for the sleuthing. Fam, keep going, I want to buy this vid!
DeleteOh this is corbinfisher. Her name is Ashley Edmonds. Check out Ashley Edmonds dominates Philip and Kenny or Ashley Edmonds dominates Cain and Dawson. And she has a few others as well. Gay sex doesnt turn me on, but the way she touches these boys and fondles them, is just so sensual and hotttt!
ReplyDeletePS: Fondling is one of my favorite things! Such a simple, silly thing, but it turns me on to no end! haha.
Thanks, it does seem to be her, but I still can't find the video...
Deletewow thanks for the link.
Deletewhy won't some nice ladies be mean to me )':
-dreaming of your instruction
Yay for us mean girls!
DeleteYay for sure thanks for the reply Julie!
DeleteSigh..I need to be under you mean queens' feet/stern hands right now!*pant* )': (:
My mouth/ass cherries are dispensable at your discretion(guess I'm heteroflexible)?
Sorry I got carried away need punishment for my own good I think..I may have too IRL annoying nice lesbian friends who were enjoying being mean to me I said I will buy more drinks of course..
-doyi
The exact clip/scene of the gifs is: CorbinFisher - ACS0415 - Ashley Dominates Rudy & Jordan
Deletehttps://thebussybandit.com/get_file/2/e45f90c8abdc9e9499cfdfc29e6e048cae7d399739/0/655/655.mp4
I'm So sorry, the previous link won't work!
DeleteHere's the working one: https://thebussybandit.com/videos/655/acs0415-ashley-dominates-rudy-jordan/?rnd=1629365299890
p.s. I tried to be a smart ass and copied the actual video link so your blog readers can bypass ads and such... turns out that the video link includes a specific key that can only be accessed for my IP address or something. So, I'm sorry! The one above should work "globally"
I would consent to your fantasy...I especially like the idea of it being forced....even to the point of it being rape....is that too weird...Having the woman ordering the man to rape me after she has tied me up just so that I can't resist.....yeah that is something I would do for certain....both to the mouth and ass....would you cheer him on?
ReplyDeleteIf that was your express wish, and we had a signed and notarized contract, and you had an "only to be used in case of emergency, and not emotional emergency" safeword, then yes, absolutely! I'd stroke your head and tell you to "take it, for me," as he raped your rear hole.
DeleteMe first(too??)!?
DeletePretty please Julie? lol
Hehe. Do you have a pen for my *mowf*?
I'm a fit intelligent footstool in my dreams for the hair pet from you I'd do it all though I've never wanted a man romantically nor kissed even one!
(I'm 30s and women universally love my curly brown hair I look like shei le beuff fyi)
I guess my ultimate would I'm caged remotely/irl and can't touch a woman ]...til I'm made to be tied and used as one since I want that so desperately for years..
-doyi
Hope you get David to the consensual not consent level of acceptance. This would be delightful
ReplyDeletebottoms up
Red
Well, everybody needs at least one unfulfilled fantasy... sigh.
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