Sunday, September 25

Waning Sex Drive?

I responded to a comment from Anthony on a recent post (Anticipating my Spanking) which got me thinking about this issue of waning sex drive.


Would you consider yourself hypersexual?

By definition it is “An obsession with sexual thoughts, urges, or behaviors that may cause distress or that negatively affects health, job, or relationships.”

I’m just curious because you are clearly excitable and seem to have a needy pussy. Wondering how much it impacts your life as a whole.


Definitely become obsessed for sometimes days in a row, but I never let it negatively impact anything. I feel it's a net positive in my life.

I do sometimes get distracted during work-at-home, but I'm successful at work (feel good about my output and not letting anybody down, and doing ok in my career). But I'm not actually that ambitious that way. My husband's career sort of sky-rocketed so I actually don't care that much about my own (he now makes so much more than me that I doubt we'd even notice if I quit completely).

I would say the only tension it brings is that I want it ("it" being spanking, domination, rough sex from him) more often than my husband is willingly able to give it to me at this point in our lives, and I do feel that playing outside of our relationship would be a negative, so I do get a bit frustrated and channel that into daydreaming, spanking porn and masturbation, and my blogs and book.

I appreciate your honesty. That’s so wonderful that your husband is performing so well at work. I have an uncle who also sky rocketed and it’s such a blessing to you and everyone in your lives.

It’s funny how our brains long for what we can’t have. Now that he fits your ideal of a man, possibly more then ever before, and at the same time that means he’s busier and less able to give all his attention as often as before. All that together makes you even hornier! As frustrating as that can be it’s kind of in a kink person's nature to get frustrated no matter how much we get it (our kinks met). A part of us needs that frustration. It’s like a worthy punishment for our misbehaved minds. Thats such a fortunate problem to have!
If I’m assuming too much or way off on my observation please correct me. As a side note I personally appreciate your discernment in regards to “outside of our relationship”. That can be very dangerous even when it’s worked out in the past. You two are special people and we as followers are lucky to have your story to relate to and learn from.

Great comment exchange. Thank you Anthony, especially for the kind words.

Yes, it's unfortunate but my husband is now back to travelling on business a lot, always jetting off to one exotic place or another, leaving me at home to my own devices. And when he's here he works long hours and is frequently tired. Plus, as he's been getting older (he's older than me), his sex drive has been waning naturally as well. It's one reason I don't post as often as I used to. Less going on, and he has less interest in his own kinks than ever before. It's about all he can do to satisfy mine as occasionally as he does.

As well, I find my own vanilla sex drive declining precipitously. It feels like the only thing that really keeps me going is my kinks. In that sense, my kink is an amazing gift that keeps giving. Really endless hours of the highest grade of amusement.

Like, I don't get at all excited by thoughts of "making love". I used to, when I was younger. I'd be as hungry for a lick and a fuck as the next girl, independent of kink. More the licking than the fucking, but you 'gotta put out, right? Now? Now it doesn't turn my crank. Ho hum.

But when tied to my kink, I come alive sexually. For instance, the spanking and domination I just described kept me in horny anticipation for days, was amazing when it happened (other than the actual spanking itself, which hurt like hell, and the anal plugging and plunging, likewise), and has kept me horny for days after.

And now the only reliable way to have me come alive in the bedroom is to spank the shit out of me first. A little good girl spanking won't even do it. I need to be spanked literally frantic to transform me into the ultimate bedroom whore, willing to do anything for pussy relief, and wildly excited to do anything sexual my man demands of me. I especially love it after a severe beating if I'm threatened with even more, maybe a hellacious belting, if I'm not the best slut I can be. Oh, then I am eager to please! Daddy's good girl in the bedroom.

Between times when my husband and I play out these episodes, I must amuse myself. And hence I turn to spanking writing and spanking porn. If a normal person found out how much time and energy I devote to this stuff, and how excited I get, they would consider me off, abnormal, "hypersexual". I know men who become obsessed like me, and get very guilty about it, and attempt to quit, or beat themselves up over it. I've never looked at it that way. I have always considered this obsession I have been given to be a great gift that immeasurably enriches my life.

Recently I've been spending a fair amount of time on a site called Over The Desk Punishment Memories. The curators post true life recollections of real spankings from contributors (there is a sister site for fiction of the same ilk). There are lots and lots of memories of girls punished by their Mommies and Daddies, and at school, by babysitters, and so on. Also boys. My favourites are the ones where the girl is a misbehaving teenager and is spanked bare bottom in front of witnesses. That's very central to my fantasy life. Also ones where the girl is spanked bare bottom in private by her Daddy. Love those.

Another of my favourite little pastimes is browsing for sexy images and gifs that turn my crank. I reblog most of them to Sign up there and follow me to get an insight into my sex-addled brain based on what I repost and my little thoughts that I mostly append. For some of the better ones, I save them to my iPad with the intent of doing a blog post. The act of collecting them, curating them, selecting them, adding commentary to them, and posting them, also turns my crank. I play with my pussy a lot during the process, and orgasm multiple times using the various images as springboards to rich fantasies I build around them. As David is again away, and as work is none too demanding, it gives me plenty of time and opportunity to be naughty in my bed doing this alternate "work". Let's do some now, and celebrate our kinky obsessions!


I do get turned on by girls. A much younger, very strict one, going over my browser history. Oh my! So blushy! I think it will be the strap for me afterwards.

But I bet a lot of you switchie/subie guys see this and think the same thing. A young niece perhaps. How you will blush as she recreates your browsing history. I'm sure punishment will follow!


I think I may have posted some of these in the past, including this one. Some images are just on endless loop on the interwebs. Never mind, it's like fishing: sometimes you catch the same fish as before.

And yes, I sometimes work myself up like this. Generally I am imagining a man's belt whipping across my backside as I writhe in pain... "No! Please! No more! No more, Sir! Please!"


The results of a strapping across the fronts of her thighs. What must she have done to have earned that punishment???


Been there! I hope for her sake that was the last one!


Love the kicking and the very red bum. Love the strong arm and the big hand delivering her spanking. I dream about this.


There are certainly more pleasant ways to get yourself off! But when a pussy is horny, anything will do.


Have always loved the legs dangling positions. The knee socks make it. This is the "correct" relationship between the masculine and the feminine.


Another of the same ilk, nude and in the kitchen (like me). I imagine she was spanked for failing to prepare proper meals on time as well.


Daddy looking all over for his misbehaving daughter, finding her necking with a farm hand. He'll make an example of her now.


A little vignette. Newlyweds. A clash of cultures. In his culture, the women do the kitchen work! Oh yeah? You 'gonna make me? Love her struggles. Pointless ones. She's getting this spanking whether she agrees or not. Love her submission at the end. She never truly understood before why all the women in his culture did all the kitchen work. Now she does! She knew what she was getting, she just needed to see if he was man enough to do it.


A humiliating position for a belting. Especially with all of us as witnesses. Love how she looks at us in pain and embarrassment. She is learning her lesson.


This one is high on a kitchen stool, the same exact way I got it! Boobs dangling on one side of his lap, bare ass hanging off the other. Frantic from her spanking. Despite the pain, it's how I want it: spanked frantic.


I don't know. Don't ask me, because I don't know! Maybe she's about to get a spanking with that hairbrush, and that is how she must wait for it?


This is EXACTLY what should happen when hubby comes home and finds the kitchen a mess. No, you may not pull up your pants until this kitchen is spotless, young lady!


A full pantsing and shirtsing for the camera. What a naughty girl! Did she lose a bet? Was it truth or dare? She strummed her little clitty that night thinking back on it.


Ha ha! If you want to act like a sourpuss around the house, there you go. Only a Mom would think to do that to her teenage brat!


Another excellent punishment for backtalk from Mom. If you can't say a pleasant word, you won't get to say anything at all.


A nasty paddling for his daughter while her sleepover friend stands there and watches. It was the third time Daddy had to come in to tell them to quiet down and get to sleep. This time he brought the paddle. There won't be a fourth.


I've mentioned that the thought of much older men with younger women turns me on. My old boss was maybe this guy's age when he took me to a hotel room to spank me. Oh gush!


Whats going on here? Was she a little snooty to her man's friends on poker night? I think so. Now she's paying the price.


One heck of a spanking. Gulp. The shudders, sobs, and tears are all too real. We women who sign up for this lifestyle understand that this can be us at the drop of a hat.


A truly intense spanking meant to teach a lesson that won't soon be forgotten.


A little time in the great outdoors, in the nude and nursing a very well-spanked bum, will bring this girl down a peg or two. Especially seeing as how the lawn maintenance crew were grinning from ear to ear as they went about their grass cutting, leaf blowing, and shrub trimming. They spent considerably more time than usual this week, looking over, pointing, chattering to one another in Spanish.


A spanking followed by a figging for this naughty wife. How her bum hole burns! He'll be sure to wear a condom for the bum sex to follow so that his cock will not feel the burn. Mind you, all that fucking up and down her anal passage will make her burn all that much more.


She tried playing office politics against the master and lost. She thought her back-stabbing would get the CEO kicked out and her installed in his place. Look where it's gotten her instead.


Look at the blush on her face. Mom did not approve of the skimpy bikini she was wearing. She said in that swimsuit she may as well be wearing nothing! "I'd rather wear nothing," she said, "then wear a frumpy swimsuit like yours!" She got her wish.


The fucking post. This little lady has been putting off marriage for too long. Nobody good enough for her. Well it's her 20th birthday and grandchildren are needed around the farm. She'll be spending the full day chained to that post with her feet bound down as well. All the farm hands are encouraged to sperm her as many times as they can the whole long day.


This young lady has clearly not had a spanking in far too long. Her first semester away at University was a disaster. Too much partying, not enough studying. She'll have to repeat the term. Mom and Dad were both of a mind what she desperately needed, regardless her age.


I am forced to agree with the sentiment.


Raise your hand if you are a slut for two fingers up your ass in the spanking position

🙌🏻 🙌🏻 🙌🏻 ✋🏻👋🏻👋🏻


This is what school corporal punishment should be like. Straighten out those kids but good!


Newlyweds on honeymoon.

Her: Please, no, sweetheart, people will seeeee!

Him: You should have thought of that before acting up, darling.

Old bystander guy: Give it to her good, Son. You need to start off as you mean to go on.


She's about to get a good girl spanking! 💦💦💦😥😥😥


You were the one who wanted this arrangement, sweetheart, now sign that Domestic Discipline contract while I fuck you to really make it official.


Yes, we know. Spankings are meant to hurt, darling. Don't misbehave and we won't have to do this.


I think most so-called "feminists" nowadays secretly crave to be put in their place like this.


This is what I get when Miss Puss Puss acts up.


A spanking over the corner of the bed really opens up the insides of the cheeks for that 'all over' spanking. Too bad about the embarrassing exposure. And too bad about how your pussy grinds down onto the bed as you humiliatingly leak your sex juices during your ordeal. The harder he spanks, the more you grind, the more you leak. You'll be well-prepared for your wifely duties afterwards.


Sometimes only Mommy's hand will really do, even when you're all grown up.


When the girl has really embarrassed the family, the spanking from Mom in front of them is equally as embarrassing for her. In this case, she was caught shoplifting. The policeman and storeowner were both invited over to watch her be disciplined in front of her family. The storeowner was more than satisfied that Justice had been served and dropped all charges.


She "forgot" to wear her panties to the football game after-party. Somebody snitched on her and Daddy came to get her, hopping mad. She was spanked then and there, in the most humiliating way possible. Even the nerds had a good look! Videos were posted. Her pussy lips were sore for days afterwards. Everyone at school called her "Lips" from then on.


And Kathy suddenly realized that being a "trophy wife" with an ironclad pre-nup was not all it was cracked up to be.


It was a harsh spanking but all in all she took it well. Rather than an hour in the corner she gets a little treat instead. Stick that bottom up and keep it there.


She's a submissive. Her Master decided to put her to the test. All his friends would be penetrating her that evening.


Yes, I'm just as turned on imagining a woman doing this to me as a man. For burning the dinner she gets her rump roasted.


My older man fantasies triggered again. Staying at Grandad's, all alone. A bedtime spanking. Pussy bouncing on grandad's knee. Not a stitch of clothing permitted. This little lady will orgasm several times while still across his knee. Grandad will be pleased he's still "got it". Tomorrow night she will offer to suck him off after her bedtime spanking and he will allow it. The next night she'll get the belt and will willingly spread her legs for him to take her.


He's a single Dad who cares a lot for his little girl. He cares enough to spank her thoroughly when she misbehaves. The spankings are always the same. In the living room, in her birthday suit, hoisted over his knee, the wooden salad spoon teaching her a lesson she won't soon forget.


A loving Christian man spanking his errant young wife. He's had it up to here with her reading those trashy romance novels. It ends here and now!


VR masturbation in her boyfriend's room at the frat house. She doesn't realize she's being videoed while "doing the deed". When she gets back to her sorority later that evening, it will be on a loop on the communal big screen. All the girls laugh at her and tease her. Why did she ever trust Brad? She will never live this down!


What a great gift!


Oh how the paddle burns! He's getting right to the seat of the problem.


She's so embarrassed when her husband chooses to show her off to his friends. How she dresses in little girl panties, and keeps herself smooth like a little girl.


A lesson in manners seems long overdue. You can push a man only so far...


Once a month he's released and may fuck the rubber pussy while she crops his ass. He only has five minutes though, or too bad, so sad, there's always next month.


Its really very cruel to give a "man" an erection while locked in his cock cage. His poor balls will be so sore that night!


She is NOT a happy camper. And that spanking looks far from over, she's right to look so worried.


Made a complete example of. The tourists are enjoying her, at least.


Had to throw this one in. Are you feeling the bern? Ha ha!

There we go. Some good masturbation fodder for me and you. Which ones do you like the best, and why? Let me know in the comments!


  1. Oh, number 38. One of my favorite spanko vids ever. That little lady whines and moans so deliciously as her husband kisses her deeply, fondles her excited little pussy and roasts her naughty, tardy bottom with his hand and the spoon. She is CLEARLY hot to trot by the end of the video. If they even bother going to the social function that served as the excuse for the spanking, she is definitely going with a fresh load of hubby sperm somewhere inside of her.

    Maybe the 20 year old examining your browser history in number 1 is the one torching your butt in number 45. She has an authoritative, responsible manner and has been spanking women older than her since she became legal, even her flighty, silly mom. The smell of a burnt dish did not help your situation following the discovery of your kinks (but maybe you wanted her to find them when you asked her to help with a computer problem). It was going to just be a firm hand spanking for being a perv, but a lack of attentiveness in the kitchen is dangerous so it's a long, hard dose of the spoon for you. And you will be remaking it wearing only an apron.

    1. I'll have to look for it!

      Yes, I imagine anybody who lived with me, when they discover my kink, would start spanking me "for cause".

    2. Poor Julie. You've become a mere mortal like the rest of us. A good dad fantasy involving the feared razor strap would help

  2. Tell us the story mentioned in #19.

    1. You can read about it here:

      Basically an old retired boss of mine put 2 and 2 together and figured out who I was. So we figured out we were both spankos that way. He was a total gentleman about it and put no pressure on me. He was a mentor of mine who helped me in my career. A real father figure to me. When I figured out he was an experienced spanko top I got my husbands permission and suggested a spanking from him would be appropriate. We met in a hotel suite and he spanked me. It was awesome!

  3. You are such a dirty girl. I love how your mind works. Number 37 is what dirty girls need who can't help but spend hours searching for nasty fantasy images online.

    1. It's what I thought of as well when I posted it. I'll show David that photo and this comment as soon as he's back home!

  4. Love the male in chastity pics. Wish you would do more femdom

    1. Blame David. He's less "into it" than he used to be. But... my next book is almost entirely femdom, so it is using up a lot of my brain right now, it's just that you won't see the results until I publish (soon now!).

  5. 10,12,22,42 are my pics.
    You are correct that it does become more difficult to reconcile sexual urges of men and women as we get older and are together for many years.
    Keeping it new and fresh works but even too much spanking can become boring.

    1. 10 is a great little picture story. Did you like my take on it too?

      12 and 22 are incredibly exciting to me. It's the sort of spanking I crave (but dread!).

      42 is just mean, isn't it? "Trophy wife" indeed.

      I think part of it is just lowering expectations and not trying to pretend you're 20 again. It's different as you're older and still fun.

    2. I love all that squirming , kicking and wiggling and from what I can gather , you include all three of them in your act , plus your cute yelping and touching.
      You would be a delight to have over my lap!
      As for the trophy wife I'm sure she is enjoying their post spanking activity as much as he is!

    3. Yes, the Trifecta! But it's not an "act" (except it is, but a very easy "act" to play out, as it's right there!).

      I like to think she's not enjoying it, but is such a whore that she's stuck with it. A little weekly pussy punishment to keep the good rimes rolling ;-)

  6. As a fellow bdsmlr user… I have to admit that is basically the same thing but the ads and glitchiness are reduced a lot, and it’s faster. You can import your bdsmlr blog too. Just throwing it out there.

    1. Seems the software is identical, and identically slow and glitchy 😂

  7. As someone who's been fascinated by spanking since I’m a child and that has always been into kinky sex from my teenage years (thanks to all the content available on the Internet including your blog) I find it very interesting how you discovered your kinky and especially your spanko side later in life. Do you ever wonder what would have had happened if your husband had been strictly vanilla? Do you think you’d have eventually discovered most of the things that turn you on by now or no way? It makes me wonder how many people could perhaps become kinky / spanko if only they knew about it haha

    1. Not sure. But I think there are many women who would love it if they got into it, especially if the gateway is femdom. What's not to love about spanking a guy frantic? I've "converted" several myself!

  8. 47. It is so similar to a spanking I accidentally observed when I was younger. The raised knee puts the best part of the show right at eye level for everyone watching.

    1. It does. How lucky you were to have had that experience!

  9. la 28 me parle , car même si je nous sommes divorcés, moi et mon ex femme, fessons toujours nos 2 filles qui ont 38 et 39ans, le pire plus elle reçoivent nos fessées, plus elles en redemandent, allez savoir pourquoi...
    Nous ont le sait car la fessée familiale, les excitent tellement qu'il est le prélude à leurs plaisirs complets et à leur orgasmes avec nous ....

    1. I love her facial expressions as she's getting spanked!

  10. If you were my grand daughter, sleeping over, and I walked in in you and caught you doing what is depicted in #2, a belting would not just be your fantasy, but your reality as well! When I'm done, you'll be writhing around and clutching your ass just like #21. Then it will be a turn over and I'd give you a #37 to have the punishment fit the crime. Afterwards I'll get my muscle massager out and give you a #43 so you don't self-abuse any more. For the rest of the weekend, expect a lot of spankings like #19 and #46, followed by timeout in the style of #23 while I weed the garden. Be warned, young lady, that if you accept an invitation to sleep over, that's exactly what you'd be getting from me!

    Daddy Frank

    1. Wow, you made a whole story out of it. Thank you Daddy! I reviewed each pic as I read. I am sorely tempted to accept that invitation on some weekend David is away on business. I can be your grand daughter for a weekend...

    2. You little tease you!
      I'll call that bluff. I am a widower who lives alone South of your border. You'd have to travel down. I'd be happy to pay your way. My daughter and her husband, and my son and daughter-in-law may wonder about the strange Canadian woman staying with Dad for the weekend, but I think I can keep them away for a weekend. Let's see you put your ass where your mouth is :-)


    3. Would I be your little 18-year-old grand daughter for the weekend? You'd have to be nice to me and buy me ice cream and stuff. You'd walk into my room to say goodnight and catch me doing that. Then the spanking. Then I'd have to confess to you how horny I always get. You think a whole long weekend of aversion therapy, making me do it while you watch, followed by strict spankings and embarrassing timeouts. Maybe one reason I'm so horny is that I've never had sex? Can you teach me how to give head and how to receive intercourse, in both holes? I hope Grand Dad has a good supply of Viagra on hand. Just please DON'T watch the video related to #40 linked to in the comment below. I couldn't take anything like that. That would be TOO MUCH, ok? Please.

    4. Don't be absurd and obscene, young lady. Grandad will teach you nothing of the sort. He WILL teach you, in no uncertain terms, to go to bed on time and to get the sort of sleep a young lady requires, to be modest and demure, to dress modestly, to act the little lady at all times, to have good table manners, to keep a civil and polite tongue in your head, not to overeat and to limit your sweets in order to keep your figure, and to make yourself useful and help out with the chores. And certainly (and my goodness!) NOT to play with yourself at bedtime (as if that even needs saying).

      I believe the old-fashioned methods are best for instructing young ladies, which means corporal punishment, on the bare, with timeouts. If you misbehave, then according to your behaviour Grandad may use mouth-soaping, duct tape over your mouth, line writing, and figging (in both places). Yes, it will be painful and embarrassing, but it's for your own good and because Grandad loves you, sweetheart.

      I reviewed the punishment method the step-mother used in #40. I certainly hope I would not have to use methods like that on you. However, if you persistently continue to play with yourself, despite multiple punishments for it, I would not hesitate to go there, so be warned.

      Now, when can you come for a visit with Grandad?

      Grandad Frank

    5. Oh gush, Grandad! 💦💦💦

      You are making me really, really want to now...

      Oh dear... 🤔😥😈😇🥰😘😟😥🤤

    6. Expect an email with the particulars, dear.

    7. Yes Grandad. Will look out for it...

  11. Well Julie thank you so much in regards to thinking over my comment. I’ve been on bdsmlr plenty since you posted about it a couple months ago. It’s a great spot to find arousing images to edge to.

    It’s fun knowing you are so horny by yourself but your husbands away. It’s basically a form chastity because you can’t give yourself what you really crave. Which is a hard frantic spanking! Imagining you genuinely struggling humping against a pillow, while making all types of embarrassing whimpers, but it not being enough is hilarious. I mean that in all the best kink ways.

    You should definitely get some type of punishment for spending so much time playing with yourself though. When I feel like I’m having too much private time I actually put myself in chastity in front of my wife. She gets the hint and we will set a reasonable goal for me to achieve. It ends up bringing us closer every time.

    1. Thank you for embarrassing me like this! I know you know I love it. I should keep track of the number of times I edge (1 point for every time I need to stop) and cum (10 points for that). When David returns I am punished proportionately!

    2. I think he should spank you with an audience of males and females. The whole spanking should be naked in an embarrassing position like dangling over one knee. After your tearful spanking you should be forced to hump a pillow to orgasm, on the ground, in front of everyone. Making all types of vulnerable whimpering with your red cheeks on display.

      Love that points idea too! Good luck getting what you need.

    3. And your welcome too

    4. I like the plan for me. Maybe we can add a fat peeled ginger root up my bum for the pillow humping? That way I imagine I'd really be forced to put on a show. Time limit for cumming. 6 strokes of the cane for not making it and repeat.

    5. Oh Julie! You’re too slutty to actually embarrass at this point

    6. NOT true! I embarrass as easy as the next gal, it's just that I fetishize my embarrassment.

  12. The first photo is really moving. A young girl just found femdom pics in my browser history and learned my secrets.
    14 bare ass cleaning is also fantastic.


    1. I liked #1 too. It's like, gulp, she SAW me!

      #14 is an entire story arc all in itself, with obedience as the conclusion.

  13. "...jetting off to one exotic place or another..."

    As a 30+ year 'road warrior' with airline and hotel points in the millions, that ain't so.

    Woman in my office, after hearing I would be in LA and San Diego said that sounded great and she wished she could go.

    I asked her: "Why? I'll see the airport, the car rental office, my hotel, the building my client was in, and back to the airport to go to another airport and repeat! You never 'see' anything other than that as there is no time.

    (The times I HAD to go to Hawaii? Well, that's different.)


    1. David complains about the same thing. He's in business class and nice hotels, but is always stressed and tired and never sees any sights!

  14. Love pic #2 of the girl humping her pillow, but why is she wearing panties? And a top?

    As for the other pics: #48 - I once spanked THAT girl! And then got spanked by her!!!

    #33 and 52, the panties coming down...? Pulling them down, the last you see before completely baring her bottom is the gusset popping free. In deep, it just "pops" free at the last moment. I always smile when I see that.


    1. #48 be super cute! Lucky guy!

      Yeah, those panties have a hard time letting go, especially when I'm a little moist down there 😂💦😊

  15. 14. Who stores the hamburger buns next to the garbage can???

    1. Did not notice that, but agree! Spank her again, I say!

  16. You must really enjoy the classic spanking magazines... plenty of old men spanking young women in those :D
    I think the young lady in #9 is being punished for her antics in #15.
    And what a lot of fuss in #10... just imagine what she'll be like when the belt starts cracking across her naked ass!
    But after casually scrolling through this excellent selection of all these women being dominated, it was #39 that really did it for me...

    1. That"s right, #15 antics got posted on insta and Daddy found out. Ho boy!

      Well, #10 is getting the belt, but only across his lap. I'm imagining the fuss she makes when she has to bend over for it!

      #39? Mommy issues? 😊

  17. Here's the Spanking Tube video for #40. Story is different than your write up but you might like this one if you haven't previously seen it.

    1. Thank you! Very exciting extended trailer. You could clearly see the belt punishing her asshole, then punishing her pussy, and finally directly punishing her clit (she had to pull it open!!!). And then the two step-daughters will presumably get the same!?! All while Daddy watches!?! A lot of my fantasies wrapped up in that. And you can see by the strength of the strokes, her reaction to them, and how she clutches at her pussy and can barely get to her feet afterwards that it was very real! I may have to buy the vid and review it!

  18. 15: The idea that a gal has to fash her tits and bits is a always a great humiliation. Like when you requested several readers to send in pictures of their bum before you share yours.
    24: I must have missed the story of Julie getting figged or has it not happened yet?
    51: The paddle has always been a favorite. My recent birthday, the last of the 55 birthday spanking was from a nice big paddle.
    And 58: I like bib tits.
    Pie pie 4 now

    1. 15 is very cute!
      24 not yet...
      51 one helluva paddling in a very embarrassing pose.
      58 No comment!

  19. 3: I love to see this. Thighs should be punished more. Both front and back.

    6: This young lady is being so naughty. She deserves a severe punishment on her bottom and her lady part. Society should have a zero tolerance policy for masturbation by either sex at any age (and regardless of relationship status).

    16: Love the creativity of these bag over the head punishments.

    17: Taping the mouth shut is a wonderful idea for punishing talking back. I hope they were both spanked as well.

    24: Great to see figging used. Figging and other forms of anal discipilne should be used much more often.

    25: This is so great to see. I wish employers could spank their employees (and yes, I would accept spankings at work myself).

    31: I agree. We need to bring back cp in the schools.

    37: Love to see this. The genitals of both genders should be punished (and yes, I would accept cp applied to my penis).

    39: I love this. I wish that I had a "mom" to do this.

    54: This is the most exciting of the group to me. As a male with sissy tendencies, it is both exciting and terrifying. While I do not believe that I should be subjected to something like this on permanent basis, I think it would be great as a long term punishment (for weeks or months on end). I would add that if I do not cum in the allotted time, I should receive an additional spanking with the crop and have my time being kept in chastity extended. I have come to see the value of chastity as a punishment.

    1. 3 - yes, and having to face front like that during it, with pussy on show? Devastating!

      6 - Mom: "what, the hell, do you think you are doing young lady!?!"

      16 - I'm sure it serves her right!

      17 - I'd never seen that before, but OMG, had my Mom thought of that she would have gone through a roll of duct tape a month on me!

      24 - I agree. Nothing like a burning bum hole to teach a wife or teen to behave herself.

      25 - I agree, zero tolerance policy for back stabbing politics especially. Put the employee in his/her place: down many legs.

      31 - yes, fully nude and severely strapped in the most humiliating position imaginable. Hard to make an inpression on teen girls any other way. It's all they respect.

      37 - yes, especially when the punishment fits the crime.

      39 - such a small thing to ask, and VERY amusing for the woman involved.

      54 - just noticed, what's that on the tip of his penis in the second frame? Is that Icy Hot? But yes, regardless, I think a month in chastity is a good punishment, with a weekly "release" like that depicted (Icy Hot included).

    2. I did not realize that was icy hot. I thought it was some lube. Although I hate to admit it, I deserve the icy hot. Chastity punishments like this need to be severe both as a matter of simple justice and to teach us naughty men a lesson.

    3. I thought so at first, but it's totally white. What lube is totally white?

    4. Ah ah. It is not Icy Hot nor lube, wife is much more perverse, it is Numbskin (lidocaine).
      One common side effect of Lidocaine is some risk that hubby finds it difficult to reach orgasm and ejaculate
      and.... as Brian says "if he does not cum in the allotted time, he should receive an additional spanking with the crop and have his time being kept in chastity extended"
      Vicious circle

    5. Ah ha! Thank you, Internet sleuth! Imagine his desperation as, desperate as he is to cum, he just cannot do it with the Lidocaine, but fucks so hard to make it happen. Ha ha ha!

  20. I love that you're so into this! If he's waning and you're skyrocketing.... maybe it's time for another lock up and some prostate torture to get him rolling ;-)

    1. Need to ground him first, but what can I say, I like the money he brings home...

  21. So true that it takes some rough play, spanking and dressing me in lingerie to get the excitement to play well with my Wife these days.

    Great pics, thank you. I may need a figging and a humping if the

  22. I love # 10 and I think that your commentary is spot on. If you take one look at the guy, you know that she knew what she was getting into when she married him. Still, when he takes his belt off, the reality of what she was going to get, she would probably do anything to get out of it. I do wish that we saw a little more of the last pic. I would bet that she gives him a glance hoping that if she wiggles her bottom, she could entice him to take her right there.

    First runner up is # 45. That little girl was eager to get into a lesbian relationship. It was exciting and so taboo. But once they were married, she was learning that her spouse really wanted a traditional wife to cook and take care of the house. That wooden spoon was teaching her what her place really was.

    Second runner up is #32. This poor girl is just beginning to realize that they had not really discussed some things. This is what happened right after she argued that she was going to keep own name, that she was not going to wear skirts and that they were going to share responsibility for cooking and cleaning. When he was finished spanking her, she was amazed to find that she was thrilled that he was so assertive. But what would her liberated friends think when she sent out the thank you cards with a picture of her in a demure skirt and signed them Mrs. James Smith.

    Please do more of these kinds of posts. They are great.


    1. #10, exactly! We're on the same wavelength.

      #45, careful what you wish for! She wants a dominant gf/wife, she has to pay the price.

      #32, I like your take on it!

      Will do! Femdom one next.

    2. Femdom! Yippie! Can you find a role reversal version of #10?

  23. I have had to do forced orgasms standing in the corner. I was caught masturbating, got spanked and the ping pong paddle them had to do 3 orgasms in the corner before I was released. Calling out I'm cumming is so embarrassing and then to keep at it for 2 more!

    1. Bravo. I don't think my husband has 3 in him!

  24. 45. I imagine that's my wife and that's me getting my butt roasted. I got that 'ol tingly feeling down below now. Thank you Miss Julie! Lc

    1. Many women's picture of domestic bliss, both sides!

  25. I always like hearing about your parents. It seems like they are such good sports about occasionally being the subject of your blog posts, and so supportive of your outed kink. They seem like really good people and you're lucky to have them.

    p.s. - I miss hearing about your sister!

    -David (not the husband)

    1. They are good people and humour me greatly about my childish kink.

      Yes, not much action with Sue lately as the new gf is not keen to play or let her play. Bummer.

  26. "I'd be as hungry for a lick and a fuck as the next girl."

    Now THAT'S a line! And every man's secret GF!