A Half-Assed Spanking

As you guys know, I have lots of fans writing to me wanting me to dominate them over email. I am always good with it. This week I had a lovely young lad in his early twenties from France. I know his real name, but I won't use it here, he decided on "michael" for this blog entry. I usually give my e-subbies a quick task to see if they are worthy of my attention. Well michael came through with flying colours!

Here were my instructions:

Get a wooden implement and spank yourself 100 times, good and hard, on just one of your cheeks (whichever is easier for you to reach). Then send me one picture of your two cheeks, I want to see the difference. Make sure the lighting is decent so I can see the damage. 100 HARD strokes. If one is not hard by accident (or because you pussy out), repeat it until you get a hard one. One you think would satisfy me. ONE HUNDRED. I better see a very red cheek and some good marks, young man!

I want to tell you a bit more about michael below, but I'll not keep you in suspense over the results.

Poor baby! That is one angry looking cheek. I love how he's bent over, tugging his shirt up so I have a better view, clutching the instrument of his own castigation. I'm sure he was in a great deal of pain. His penis is not even erect (at least, I hope it isn't! It does look like a bit of a small one).

Here is a lightened closeup.

I'm really not sure if I could have done any better in person. Bravo michael!

Can you not just picture him swinging that hairbrush over and over and over again. His face contorted in pain? Tears coming to his eyes? I can!

Here is what michael had to say about it.

Regarding the spanking... I was giving myself very hard strokes with the hairbrush. I mean, I need to say that for the last few it was so painful that I had to give myself less severe strokes... I know if I had been put over your knees, I would not have had anything to say... During the spanking, but also before, I didn't have any erection as I was imagining that it was you who was giving me spanks and I was very embarrassed. But I think I would have been able to cum anyway... Now when I am writing this with a sore bottom I am starting to have an erection.

Yes, I agree that he missed out on the crescendo of severity I would have given him. The last strokes are usually the most painful.

Michael would really like a girlfriend who is into spanking and humiliating him. As you can see from his photo, he's a very cute boy. She would have to be a girl like me who does not particularly get off on dick, but more on tongue. I understand it has something to do with the geometry of vagina, g-spot, and clit, and it's about 50-50. Plenty of fish in the sea. And Michael is the sort of boy you could cuck if you want some dick every now and then. I imagine anybody in the 18-30 age range would be suitable. He lives in the south of France, so that's nice. I don't know much about his prospects, but he's a student and renting his own apartment. If you're interested, send me an email and I will connect you.

But before you sign up, ladies, I should tell you a few more things about michael.

Here is how he described himself.

I am a slim, tall and handsome boy. I had one girlfriend, but I was having a problem with premature ejaculation with her... I have also read the story about your husband and how you dealt with this issue, I think I should be treated like this. I hope to find a dominant girl in the future, like your husband did.

I reassured him about his "little problem".

Premature ejaculation can be extremely fun for the right girl. I really enjoyed my husband's "little problem". It means he's just more responsive than most men. I had so much fun teasing and denying him! Watching him stand and squirm after a penis rub, knowing that if he cums it's a ruined orgasm and THEN he gets a spanking anyways! Ha ha!

Yes, I did and do have a lot fun with my husband's premature ejaculation issue (though it's gotten better with age, sigh!). The episode he was referring to was a series of posts on my husband's premature ejaculation issue back in 2012 beginning with david's premature ejaculation issue. Basically I had him stand in the living room over a puppie pad and masturbate and stop, and masturbate and stop, and so on, as I timed him. Here is an excerpt from one of my blogs in the series.

I said that he would be using his hand on himself, lubed and vigorous, and I would be timing. Each day he would rub himself without cumming for more and more time. I would increase the challenge by adding things that turn him on, like dirty talk, light spanks on his ass, a sexy peek-a-boo from me, or having him hold toys inside his bumhole.

"Doesn't that sound like fun?" I asked him.

"What if I can't make it?" he asked.

I told him that if he thinks he's going to cum, he can ask my permission to stop rubbing. If I think he's done enough, I'll let him stop for ten seconds, hands at his sides, to regain his composure, and then we'll start from the beginning again. If it's really bad, he can ask me to clamp him with my hand at the base of his cock. But each time he stops, I'll add up the seconds he had left, and at the end he'll get a paddling with my hairbrush for as many strokes as all the seconds remaining. If he needed a clamping, the seconds would be doubled.

"But what if I really can't make it?" he asked, looking nervous but knowing the answer before I even spoke it.

I told him that the whole idea was that he control himself. If he can't: it's the strap. david groaned at that. He knows a strapping from my leather tawse is no laughing matter.

"Nooooo..." he whined at me.

"And whatever comes out," I told him, "you'll be holding in your mouth during your strapping without swallowing."

I put david through his paces several times, and then told him that for his "lack of progress" he would be punished by my inviting my sister over to watch one of his premie training sessions.

He was soooo humiliated! (Trained in front of Sister). And he got the strap also, while my sister watched.

So that's the sort of regime that michael would want a girl to do to him. Are you game ladies? Have you lots of extra girlfriends or sisters you can invite around for some fun? Michael particularly liked a blog entry where david was made to do bare bottom corner time while two heavily tipped maids made up our room in a fancy Paris hotel (Husband Bare Bottomed in Corner in Front of Hotel Maids!). So he's definitely up for some public humiliation.

Michael wrote back about his premature ejaculation.

Regarding your last email... Yes, I have a problem with premature ejaculation but for my girlfriend it was not a fun at all. She was upset and maybe a little bit angry with me.

I didn't really like this and I would rather that she had put me over her knee for a very hard spanking as you did with your man.

But she was not into femdom at all, I mean all she knew was that I liked feet, but apart from that I didn't tell her anything. I really wanted to develop my tongue skills. I mean I was giving her cunnilingus but I don't know, I think that she didn't get used to it. I didn't have the opportunity to lick her ass and I would have liked to. What I really like in your relationship is the rule that if your husband touches your asshole with his tongue, he will not be allowed to lick your pussy after. This is the rule which really excites me, maybe because I didn't lick any ass of the girl, but also that it's very humiliating... He needs to do something with his tongue, lick you out in that place on your body which won't allow him to touch your pussy. I completely agree with this rule, well, we should have rules regarding touching your pussy with a completely clean tongue, shouldn't we?

Rules are rules! She did not "get used to" his cunnilingus. Really now. Was that the problem?

Michael goes on to share some of his "experiences".

I engaged in a few video sessions with two Pro-Dommes (not including spanking but embarrassing). I was able to see some of their bodies and they were able to see me. During those sessions I had to show them my cock and they told me to masturbate, laughing at me and so on. I really liked it, to be embarrassed in front of two experienced girls. But what I saw also was sometimes I was so stressed that I was not able to get hard... but I was able to cum... I mean when I stroked my penis which was not hard (because they were strictly instructing me to get it hard) I was having a climax despite the fact that it was not hard. They were just laughing at me and it was very embarrassing. One time I knew they didn't want to make me cum as they wanted me to pay for another, longer session. I was not touching my penis or just touching it a little bit. But when the session was going to finish, one of the girls told me that if I wanted to cum, I needed to have another session, so I just started stroking and came within maybe 15 seconds as I was very embarrassed which turned me on. And one of the girls asked the other, while laughing, "did you see that?" The other answered, "yes", with a big smile. I was again very embarrassed.

So not only does michael suffer from premature ejaculation, but oh my goodness, when he gets a bit nervous he can't get it up either: it stays just a limp little noodle and dribbles out an orgasm!

He shares another experience with us.

I had just one spanking. That was with a girl my age, but she was very experienced. I decided to stay in pants (I know I should have taken them off without saying anything, but I was very embarrassed). She put me over her knee for an otk spanking. She was very well built and she placed me on her tights. She spanked me with the hand, not so hard at first but then much harder. She massaged my bottom as well. When I was getting this light spanking and having my penis over her tights and dress, I just came without an erection. Without even touching my penis... I didn't have an erection because I was very embarrassed so my penis was quite small. But despite that fact I was able to cum. When I stood I showed the stain to her and she sent me to the bathroom. When I came back I saw that I had made a mess on her dress also. She was not angry at all, smiling, but waiting for me with the hairbrush... I got a hairbrush spanking, not very hard but I was very humiliated.

Poor little premie! Imagining cumming, limp in your pants, while across a lady's knee? And then after his ejaculation being gently punished with a hairbrush spanking?

So, a pretty little boy, enjoys being spanked and embarrassed, preferably in front of multiple women, who cannot get it up if at all nervous, who suffers from premature ejaculation, and will cum even when fully limp from just a gentle touch. Sounds like a good candidate to be feminized and made into a little spanked house maid by the right sort of lady.

Let me know if you're out there!