Kinky Marriage Counselling

Amidst all the scary Corona stuff out there, and given that folks will more likely be at home for a while with time to kill and lacking some of their usual entertainment outlets, I figure the best way for me to contribute is to keep on blogging. So I made a special effort this week for you with a nice long story!

A little while ago I orchestrated a scene for an online fan of mine. It involved himself,  Mistress Violet, and another Pro Domme on a "marriage counsellor" theme roleplay. What fun!

This is a married older male fan (in his fifties) who reads the blog and emails me every now and then. He is a natural subby, but has a wife who is not "into" playing at all. He says he tried with her, and that she tried as well, but that her heart was not into it, and he felt bad continuing to try to play on those terms (on top of being unsatisfied). But he absolutely wants to stay with her, and still enjoys having vanilla sex with her and being with her. So, he jerks off a lot to my blog.

little monkeys, all of you ;-)

He asked my advice at one point on discretely visiting a pro. Advice, or maybe permission? At any rate he seemed to be a loyal husband, so I was happy to give him my blessing, on condition that he could keep a secret. His first choice was of course my recommendation, Mistress Violet Mays.

He did visit her a couple of times and enjoyed it a lot. It was a good outlet for his kinky side and the little missus was none the wiser. Mistress Violet kept it very strict, caring, and professional, of course, and gave him what he needed without risking his marriage with any long term emotional entanglements (and lest you think I'm a hypocrite, I've sent my husband to Mistress Violet as well, together with me and alone on occasion).

Not so long ago this fan emailed me again, and said he really was turned on by the "humiliation" sort of thing (that my husband and I do a lot of), where he could be spanked by one woman in front of another. He asked me if I could play the witness. I could not, of course. I am very careful to keep blog life and real life quite separate, even when I feel 100% safe. Just a hard and fast rule for me. But I don't mind him asking (who knows, maybe one day I'll say yes to something like this). I suggested that he should come up with a scene concept, and then ask Violet's advice on choosing an appropriate witness/participant amongst her large group of contacts (Violet is highly respected within the Toronto BDSM community and abroad, and often plays "concierge of kink" to keep it fresh).

He asked if I would apply my "remarkably kinky imagination" (his words) to helping him to come up with a scene. I agreed to that, of course.

Because we had discussed his wife a bit, and I enjoy mind games, I suggested a wife / marriage counsellor theme for him. He would be some kind of bad / lazy husband who refused to do any of the "women's work" around the house. This resulted in arguments that threatened the marriage, a dwindling of sex, and constant masturbation in front of his computer to the further detriment of their sex life. Moreover, while not becoming violent, the husband had become borderline abusive towards his wife while arguing, and she feared for her own safety. In fact, it was so bad that the wife had mentally accepted a divorce, but that they would go visit a marriage counsellor as a last chance sort of thing. The marriage counsellor would hear them out, and then suggest what should be done. She heard them both out and concluded quickly that while in many cases there are two sides to a story, in this case the husband was completely in the wrong and needed his attitude adjusted. As the husband desperately wanted to save the marriage (and it helped that the wife had a giant trust fund that was coming to maturity), the husband agreed to do everything asked of him without questioning it during a month long "CBT" program (NO, not that! "Cognitive Behavioural Therapy", sillies). To paraphrase from Wikipedia,

"Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, or CBT for short, is a psycho-social intervention that aims to address deep-seated issues. It focuses on challenging and changing unhelpful cognitive distortions. Most importantly, it directly addresses behaviours, and helps in the development of coping strategies that target solving current problems."

We floated the concept past Violet and she loved it and said she had somebody perfect in mind. Violet chose to play the wife, and she asked an older disciplinarian-oriented Pro Domme in Toronto to play the marriage counsellor. He set a date with the two of them, and then he and I collaborated on fleshing out the scene, and then sent it to Violet for her review. Here was Violet's response

I LOVE this scene as it really allows me to showcase a range of emotions (thank you, scriptwriter), and I really like the psychological mind fuck of accepting the divorce, then forcing my husband into a corner... I ALSO really like it that I'll be the less experienced woman in this scenario, learning from the therapist as she shows me how things are done. I will have lots of fun!

(Isn't Violet grand?)

After it was arranged, I knew I wanted to publish something concerning the event here on my blog, so I went into the scene concept we created and fleshed it out even more for publication. But I just could not stop, so in the end I wound up writing a 60-page story (I got carried away!).

Too long for a blog post, so I published it on an illustrated "Fiction with Julie" page, titled The Marriage Counsellor (of course). I changed the names of the characters as follows.

• Julie, the wife
• David, the husband
• Dr. Joyce, the marriage counsellor
• Cherie, the receptionist
• Beth, Julie's little sister
• "Julie's Mom", Julie's Mom
• James, the handsome man in the elevator

(yes - carried away!)

The Table of Contents is as follows.

1. Trouble in Paradise
2. The Story Gets Told
3. The Hammer Drops
4. His First Session
5. David at Attention
6. David Confined
7. David Paddled
8. David Plugged
9. David Outfitted
10. David Made Into a Woman
11. David Spit-Roasted
12. David Rewarded
13. The Family Lends a Hand
14. David's New Lease on Life

Chapters 1-3 are a bit slow-paced but set the scene so you can suspend disbelief (at least a little?) for the remaining 11 chapters which are all "action packed".

Now the scene concept that my fan played out with Violet and her colleague did not do everything described in my story by any means. And for the sake of the privacy of all concerned, I will not get into what parts were and were not played out. Suffice to say I got the whole scoop, and the scene was, well, VERY GOOD for him! In fact, my original scene concept pushed a few boundaries with him, and the actual scene blew right through them in spades. Of course it included a full stripping in front of the two lovely ladies, and a very strict OTK spanking with a paddle that had him well-blistered, but there were many other things he was required to do as well, some of them very uncomfortable for him indeed, and all highly, highly humbling, which was his ask. Oh what fun!

We will neither confirm nor deny, but try figuring out for yourself what things from the story were acted out, and which ones were not, in the comments below. I'll give you a "hotter / cooler" feedback. Ha ha!

Enjoy the read and come back here to comment!

The Marriage Counsellor