You folks should know that I don't blog about every spanking given and received, only the more unique ones. But in fact there are many routine spankings that I don't typically blog about. I thought I would today. It will be first one for him, and then one for me.
The other morning I was awake before David. I went downstairs and got my coffee, read the news, had a little breakfast. Still no David. I went back upstairs at around 8:30am. He was still in bed. I work at a desk in the bedroom. He has the nice study in the attic.
"Hey, sleepy head," I said as I started pulling the covers off him. He was naked and had "morning wood" as they say. "What's that?" I asked sarcastically. He pulled the covers back over himself. I sat beside him.
"When did you go to sleep last night?"
"Ummm... about 2 or 3am."
"No wonder you're such a sleepy-head this morning. What were you up to?" I asked suspiciously.
"Ahhh.... Maria Kart..."
"Mario Kart? Really? When's your first appointment?"
"Not until 10."
"Well you're in my office."
"Ohhh. Just a few more minutes..." he begged.
"I know how to wake you up," I said as I started pulling the duvet back again, exposing him. He thought it might be for sex.
I made him roll over onto his tummy to present me with his bare bottom. I put one hand in the small of his back and started smacking him with my other hand and scolding him. "3am? Mario Kart? Are you a child?"
I opened the bedside drawer, still keeping my left hand gently pushing down on the small of his back. I pulled out his spanking hairbrush.
I started popping his bottom with that. I was instantly greeted with a chorus of "Ow!", "Ah!", "No!" together with some vigorous leg kicking which only encouraged me to spank further down his thighs.
I ended it as quickly as I started. "Now go get ready and get yourself to work. No more Mario Kart until all hours, young man!"
Ha ha!
Of course, we're a switch couple, and not happy unless we get as good as we give.
We were up at the cottage, and one thing that "triggers" David is if I walk from our bedroom to the bathroom, past the TV room, totally nude.
It's just natural for me. I get out of my PJs in the bedroom, I want to go to the bathroom to have a quick shower, so I walk over nude, and walk back with a towel. Just so happens sometimes he's sitting there on the couch watching TV or surfing his iPad.
This has been going on for a while. First few times I did it his eyes followed my every wiggle and I could tell he was lusty for me. Good! At a certain point, he decided to pull me across his lap and spank me for being such a tease. I did not mind! At this point it's 50-50 if he lets it go, or if he spanks me.
So when I don't feel like a spanking, I wear a robe. If I want to take a chance, I go fully nude. I know exactly what I'm doing. It's always a decision point for me. When I decide to go nude, I get a tingle in my pussy, because I know what I am risking!
Last weekend his eyes followed me all the way from the bedroom door to until I got behind him and the bathroom door was in sight. I thought I was safe
"Come here!" he yelled out, just before I got into the bathroom. Uh oh! I went over to him and stood in front of him, self-consciously naked now.
"What?" I asked snarkily, as if I didn't know.
"You know how I feel about you walking around naked."
"Well that's your problem, not mine," I said, bratting it up.
"I'm about to make it your problem!" he said as he snatched my arm and started pulling me across his lap.
"No! No! Don't you DARE! Let me go!!!!" I also put up a fight which made it hard for him to hold me. But we know each other well. We both enjoy my spankings more when he has to fight for them.
He eventually wrestled me face down across his lap. I was over his left knee and his right leg pinned my legs, and he had a hold on my wrist with his left hand
He only used his hand, but he taught me a very good lesson about the risks of teasing him by running around nude in front of him. A spanking like this from David is never "fun" or "playful" or anything like that. If we're "roleplaying" (?) a punishment spanking, it's a punishment spanking! It's a spanking that has me red-bummed, frantic, contrite, and truly eager-to-please before the end of it!
Anything less if for wimps ;-) Just kidding, to each their own, but my particular spanking kink demands a spanking of substance or what's the point? David knows this about me, and me popping out of our bedroom nude in front of him was his carte blanche to deal with me accordingly. That's why I got so nervous doing it, and why mostly I put my robe on!
After he let me up I clutched my buns and did a little spanking dance in front of him as he smirked at me (I admit, I exaggerate my performance for cuteness and emphasis). He turned me around, smacked my bum, and told me to "go put on your robe, woman!"
Fun times!
Two very sexy stories! I like the idea of you banishing David from your office and up into the attic, where I'm sure he jerked it like a kinky red-bottomed ghoul!
ReplyDeleteAs for you... I don't know what it is about your cottage that makes you act like a little carefree slut. It's only a matter of time until you leave your room naked to find Larry has stopped by to share a couple of beers with your husband, or your parents stop by unannounced to find their supposedly grown-up daughter being punished hard by her husband for showing off her tingly twat!
I must admit I'm being a little hypocritical here; I'd soon have you wearing no more than some high heels, a leash, and a smile!
Change of scene makes me horny.
DeleteOooo high heels and leash only! I like that one for this little minx and her sexy frame! Maybe add a diamond jewel butt plug?
DeleteSounds nice. I'm game!
DeleteOoh, diamonds! Fancy! I'm sure they'll bring out the colour in your eyes!
DeleteWhat? She'd love to be caught like that...read the blog.
ReplyDeleteWhat? No! Never! Moi? I would HATE that. I would be soooo embarrassed!
DeleteDon't worry Anonymous, I do read the blog and have quite a few ideas about things she'd love.
DeleteLove it Julie.
ReplyDeleteLike the idea that you have a handy implement ready.
Be prepared!
DeleteIt seems you like to be always prepared Julie, you even started using slippers as an implement to be always ready.
DeleteDavid's bottom hurt for a day after the slipper spanking, may be he asked not to take the slipper again as it hurt him a lot
DeleteThat would not enter into it.
DeleteDavid better be careful hanging around in your office too long, he might end up enslaved as your office bitch/tongue slave kept under your tongue...
ReplyDeleteI like!
DeleteOkay, my wife had me in panties, her two best friends over, both spank their husbands. She explained the panties, your suggestion, she did not go with all. I did not like that she made me masturbate into a cup while comments were made. I left the panties down when told to get over her lap, she surprised me she pulled them up. The spanking over the panties hurt more than ever. She said I had a choice to either swallow my cum or take a spanking from both of her friends. I took the spankings, and wished I had not. One of the friends explained her husband spanking for being out late, I was with him, she brought her very large hairbrush and my wife totally approved of the spanking. The other friend spanked very hard, played with my limp penis. I had to stand facing them, panties had fallen off. The comments made about me I wanted to run and hide. The friends were invited for morning coffee and that next day I had to display my very red spanked bottom. Jack
ReplyDeleteI would have made you swallow AND take the spankings.
DeleteWearing the panties was bad enough, and being spanked by the others, they did not hold back. I will admit and hate to admit it, I need a woman to be in charge. Jack
DeleteMy wife is going to have the carpet clean next week, and you have said I should do something different and so will do such this Saturday morning. Will sleep in later or pretend to, will then start stroking my penis until I'm about to cum and then finsih on the carpet. My wife has strict rules of being naked in the home, so this will get her attention. When asked why such behavior, I will say I did not like the panties spanking and in front of her friends. I will hold back releasing my wad until she saids I best not do it, and I will then let it go. Jack
DeletePlaying with fire, jack!
DeleteI did it, my wife said feel better now. I said Yes and then it happened. She had me clean up the mess, towel and then told to lick the spot clean. I was told to stand and take hold of my small dick as she called it, not move. She went for the bath brush, and then of all things I was not expecting, she smiled and said a visit to the tool shed since you like to be naked. I said NO, the hairbrush said yes, and it was a slow walk. I'm loud when being spanked and my wife really tanned my bare bottom and said I was extra loud. The neighbors could hear and I wanted to get back inside quickly. Faced the wall, the phone rang, and my wife said Yes. It rang several times, and she said Yes each time. They heard she said, and just so you know, for the next week, after work, it is to the tool shed, naked. Oh she said you might be going with panties on, haven't decided yet. I played with fire, and my bottom is going to be on fire for the next week. Prior to bed, she said I Love You, but Loves comes in different ways, said with a smile.
DeleteGood for all the neighbourhood to know what a naughty spanked husband you are. ;-)
DeleteI love the sound of a hair brush in the morning...
ReplyDeleteC
Ha ha! Apocalypse Now, right?
DeleteYes indeed!
DeleteI wonder why walking around nude triggers them so much. BIKSS hates it when I dash out of the toilet into the bathroom without my bottom on. I mean, I'm still wearing my tee shirt... it's just my butt that's peeking out from under it. Really!.
ReplyDeleteI know! If they don't like it, they should avert their male gaze,
DeleteIt appears that you don't understand what you are dealing with. I used to tell my daughter that boys had one thing on their mind, only one thing, and it was a constant obsession; and that was to 'sow their seed'. It really doesn't matter WHO she is, and that doesn't change much until they've peaked sexually, but it never just goes away.
DeleteWe're obsessed. Only the strongest of us can avert our gaze, and even then we're "peeking"... If you are an attractive female, and are seductively dressed, don't underestimate the primitive passions you are arousing in even the best behaved gentlemen around you. Most of us will stifle them, thank heavens - but they will be there nonetheless.
I once read (and have searched for it every since that time)a short passage by a famous artist (who I can't remember...) that started "When I was twenty... " and goes on to describe how his every waking moment was consumed with thoughts, lusts, and mental images of all things female, and how his passions drove his every action. He ended that paragraph by saying 'but I contented myself by thinking that when I am 30, it will be better'.
He then describes an identical reality for his 30s decade, ending with ... 'but I comforted myself by thinking that when I am forty, it will be better'.
And so it went to the last line, which was 'Now I am eighty. I guess I'll just have to learn to live with it'.
I'm finding that his sentiments were absolutely true. Ladies... we're obsessed. Don't expect too much from us. I know it's not fair to you, but that's just how it is.
... "When the balls are full, the brain is empty."
C
Oh, very, very well aware of that! If you're a woman you learn not to turn your head suddenly because you will catch a stare. Sometimes I do it for fun. I think it's lovely and a source of power, until it's not and then it's scary.
DeleteWell ladies as a man I do not understand it either. I always enjoy seeing my wife naked. She is a beautiful woman and great to look at. We are both often naked when home alone and very comfortable with it. Wake up guys a beautiful woman is as good as it gets.
DeleteJulie, thank you very much for that little insight (learning not to turn your head too suddenly...). I guess I've observed that (sudden turn of a lovely head), and I've certainly been 'outed' that way. But I'd never thought of it as one of the tools in the 'feminine tool kit'. I've always been obsessed by women; I'm finally beginning to TRY to understand them, and the things that drive/shape them.
DeleteC
...BIKSS hates it when I dash out of the toilet into the bathroom without my bottom on."
DeleteNow that's an unusual layout for a house.
A.J.
I understood it!
Deletejulie wow! i have a few questions to ask. Do you like being spanked or do you think that sometimes it is unfair? Have you ever had a puplic spanking in which freinds,family or even complete strangers have seen? And finally do you think spankings are a good way of keeping disciplen and if so how should we apply them?
ReplyDeleteI'm not spanked (mostly) for real real, so I don't think it's unfair. When I am spanked for real, it's always deserved.
DeleteYes to the public spankings, many times. Never a real one. It has always been pre-arranged to some level. Would LOVE a real public spanking though, where the shame would be off the charts.
No, not for discipline in the traditional sense. But as a fun motivator for spankos? Yes, absolutely!
Julie - when he spanks you, the way you describe it makes it seem like "the real deal". Is it really that or does he sort of 'let you off" a bit because it is just for fun, ultimately?
ReplyDeleteNo, honest to goodness, it's the "real deal". Real struggle, real red ass, real begging, real snot and tears. We discussed it and when we play at "real. spankings" I told him that's what I wanted. I have my safe word if I need it, of course, but never use it. I know it might seem weird, but that's what I crave...
DeleteYou be one freaky chick.
DeleteI'll take that as a compliment!
DeleteSound like he Counldn't really remember when he went to bed was it 2am-3am Question for you How come You didn't know when he went to bed
ReplyDeleteShouldnt he least get some slack for admiting it about bedtime and what he was doing maybe you should lock up the game some where let him have it back when earn it Prove it to you as well
Maybe he know wanted a Spanking from you knew give him one in morning Like he look at clock said oh well Julie will spank me in morning meaning he knew be getting a spanking
I am sure you love it as much when he give you a good spanking too You dont have always blog or tell us about every spanking you Given dish out ore one you get desver too
I was asleep by the time he slipped in (between the covers, that is).
DeleteI do love giving and receiving!
Interesting, your craving for a "genuine" spanking. I once played with a pro sub where she counted down my last 10 cane strokes. Quite hard ones with a thicker cane. I told her that if she miscounted I'd start over from 10. She screwed up the count over and over and over again, quite deliberately (we had safewords). I'm an experienced top and she went beyond my comfort level. Her ass broke me as I ended it despite her messed up count. I think she felt smug after and I felt less a man as a result, that I couldn't tame this one.
ReplyDeleteIt's interesting for your husband to have a needy sub like you, and for both of you to be in such a trusting long-term relationship. You can add the psychodrama of a "real" spanking dynamic to your masochist inclinations. Very rare and wonderful, I think.
Interesting play session. I had a similar experience myself once, but I kept going on her ass! Ha ha!
DeleteI actually don't think I'm a masochist. The pain in the absence of any context does not get me off at all. The context of being spanked for being naughty is everything, the pain of a real spanking just makes the context seem more real, and it is that which I crave. But it is true that these less scripted, more impromptu spankings with us just as ourselves beats a roleplay for a sense of reality.
"a spanking that ha me re-bummed, contrite, frantic and truly eager-to-please" sums up my relationship with my wife. The difference is that we do not switch.
ReplyDeleteShe is much more interested in being pleased than in spanking me. So I make sure that she gets as much oral as she wants. Bratting is the only way I can ask for sex.
I derive equal pleasure, if not more, in spanking him, though I won't turn up my nose at a good licking.
DeleteI hope that David gives you a good licking. You deserve it.
DeleteJust got a long hard hair brush spanking from my sister in law with her grandmother's large oval brush.
ReplyDeleteThis brush hurts a lot, I was sobbing from the first minute (she gave me 5 minutes non stop spanking using a stop watch).
She had to leg lock me as I was wriggling a lot before even being half way through the spanking.
But she rewarded me by kissing and licking her feet as I want (of course laying on my stomach as my ass was on fire.
5 minutes can be a VERY LONG TIME when locked down and being spanked full force with a heavy wooden hairbrush! In the middle of it, I'm sure it takes on a sort of "endless" quality.
DeleteTime just stops... but the spanking certainly doesn't. Even thirty seconds can seem endless. When I'm restrained, it's across an exercise bench; I'm helpless, totally exposed, and able to move only my head. I can wiggle just a very tiny bit, and maybe just free enough to "present' my bottom for the implements. My spanker is standing, free to spank in any way she chooses. Five minutes... it is indeed "endless".
Deletebut hey, it a thing is worth doing - it's worth doing right!!!
Wonderful sense of helplessness. I feel that way when I'm just across my husband's lap. If he doesn't let me off, I literally cannot get off. For a man I think it's a bit different. We both know if he's just over my lap he can stand up anytime he wants (though I can make it difficult with an arm behind his back and a leg lock). So it's a different subby mindset to lay there and take it. But it's also fun for him to be completely restrained like you, knowing he literally can;t escape. Apples and Oranges, both tasty!
Deletehi again julie thanks for answering just a quick question, which country do you live as i have heard that spankings are ileagal in many countrys. also i have long craved being spank, unfortunately my parents never spank and i do not think hey approve of it either. Jenna
ReplyDeleteI live in Ontario, Canada.
DeleteI would say almost everyplace spanking an adult against their will is highly illegal! However between consenting adults like my husband and myself, even if we pretend we are "really" being spanked, it is perfectly legal. I always advocate a "safeword" as a backdoor out. I certainly have mine.
Spanking children is mostly illegal in most places, except some very, very limited and mild cases. It is generally not recommended as a method of child rearing. I like imagining scenarios where I am a child and spanked, but it's dicey even to write about things like that in most jurisdictions.
Ok thank you!
DeleteI agree with you that impromptu spankings are the best. My girlfriend and I recently had a slight disagreement. It had not reached the stage of yelling at each other, but it might have done if she had not taken prompt action. She took the paddle, which we keep on a hook on the wall, and said: "Get your pants down and bend over!" She gave me ten firm spanks on the seat of my briefs, then put the paddle back on its hook. We then continued our discussion and reached a compromise which we were both happy with.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a very happy ending!
DeleteI received a firm spanking today for not sticking to the diet my girlfriend has recently put me on. She ordered me to strip naked and had me over her knee after spending five minutes lecturing me about self-control. Then she informed me that if I haven't lost at lesat half a stone (7lbs) by the end of March we are repeating the process with the curtains open. Imagine if someone saw the shameful spectacle of me being punished for my lack of discipline.
ReplyDeleteI am not totally sure she will whip those curtains open but there will be no over eating in March!
Ha ha! Nice!
DeleteMy husband and I have found that spankings as negative motivation for spankos often backfires. I use spankings as positive motivation for him. I get very nit-picky with his diet so he can still be succeeding AND get his "strict spankings". If he starts not succeeding, I start backing off the spankings. Now THAT'S motivation for a spanko.
I remember once I wanted to lose a few pounds before I became subby at all, and was scared of spankings. David offerred to give me a "genuine" spanking, to tears, if I did not meet my self-imposed goals. I agreed, and was so terrified at that spanking that I surpassed my goals faster and further than anybody could imagine! That would not work with me today - by succeeding at my diet I would just be NOT getting something I now crave.
But perhaps the whipping open of that curtain falls into that category currently for you. But to be effective, there should be no doubt at all in your mind that she will see it through.
I once threatened my husband, a confirmed spanko, with a spanking from another MAN if he did not lose the weight. He lost the weight! And I would have 100% followed through.
I think it’s time to bring up the threat of a man spanking David again. That’s a limit that I’m surprised hasn’t been pushed yet. I can’t wait for the day when I go to your blog and finally see the post “David spanked by a man dressed as a sissy”.
DeleteThanks for the detailed reply. Julie. I think you're right. If I believe that there is a real prospect of a neighbour (even if it is the attractive young woman I have fantasised about being spanked in front of!) seeing me being punished naked I WILL lose that weight. I've just been for a run before breakfast which is not something I enjoy when I am carrying a couple of extra stones but that is my own fault really isn't it? The idea of the humiliation may turn me on but the reality absolutely cannot happen!
DeleteBy the way, how is David doing with his diet? Have you got him down to a healthy weight or do you need to put some more measures in place?
Indeed, a young fit trainer. David as a sissy, spanked then sucking cock. Delightful.
DeleteDavid is currently doing good with his weight. No need for the "big guns".
DeleteBut that's it, if it absolutely cannot happen then wifey's threat is in question. However, if she told you that she discussed with that attractive young woman, and she was cool with it and swore to secrecy, that she would see you spanked naked only if you reached that weight goal (an "about time!" spanking), would not that be even more motivational?
absolutely delightful to read. I can imagine you needing a shower in the afternoon when your neighbor has dropped by and talking to David. Food for thought in the springtime!
ReplyDeletebottoms up
Red
Tee hee!
DeleteMy first spanking GF. Got off on getting spanked. Healthy fun orgasms.
ReplyDeleteOne day she flipped the script and I had to go otk. After that - No bottom was safe!! Anytime a bottom appeared it could be spanked. One of my faves was her in a flip skirt with both her hands full, or reaching up to put something on a high shelf. I'd see that and come up behind her, yank her panties down and give her tush some fast ones!
All in fun.
A.J.
Nice!
DeleteAs always a great selection of pictures to accompany your prose. Particularly the second one, she has a lovely bum. I'm sure it wobbles beautifully when spanked.
ReplyDeleteYes! She's about my size, I think.
DeleteWhy hair brush, just a hand spanking should be sufficient.
ReplyDeleteOf course use the "equalizer".
For him, my hand is never sufficient. It's more like a nice massage!
DeleteUse the equalizer (slipper)
DeleteI got a severe dose of my wife's Strap Saturday night. We have bern married 20 years and it has all bern a FLR relationship since dating. She has required me to wear Women's undergarments all the time since marriage. I decided not to wear a bra when wd went grocery shopping Saturday afternoon. I got discovered when she ran her hand down my back while browsing the produce section and it was obvious no bra was being worn, which is strictly forbidden whenever leaving the house. Based on the look in her eyes I knew severe punishment would occur once home. She whispered to me " Dress like a Slut, get treated like one". Once home I quickly put on a bra. In our household the only penis that gets to enter anything is her Strapon penis inside me. Once clad in a proper bra, she made me bend over the bed for a severe taste of her strap across my bare bottom after she pulled down my panties for trying to get away with going braless in public. I was given a very rough, fast, and hard pegging after the strapping. Although I do like wearing my bras, sometimes they are annoying. I sure won't try getting away with not wearing one anytime soon. She gives good strapon sex and I wouldn't change a thing about that.
ReplyDeleteThis week my wife came home from work and handed me a box of Tampax tampons and said two words "It's time" as she decided I shall wear one any time she needs to.
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