Saturday, July 10

Apologies

Hi Everybody,

I wanted to post this blog entry by way of apology to my husband and all my readers. I let my fantasies carry me away on the last couple of posts and was rude to my husband in the comments for which I sincerely, sincerely, apologize.

Boundaries in play are very real and absolutely need to be respected. David has always respected all of my boundaries. Even when he does things to me that I claim to not enjoy, it was in the context of me asking him to do things. I was mistaken in expressing a desire to not respect his boundaries and am very, very, sorry.

I wish to clarify that David is not in the least "homophobic". It was wrong of me to use that word and those sentiments. David's philosophy is to live and let live, and to celebrate all forms of sexual and gender preference, and to completely respect those choices in others. He asks only that I respect his choices and preferences, as he respects mine and others'.

I apologize to all my readers that because of my actions it became necessary to post this message.

I am truly sorry for what I have done.

Julie

123 comments:

  1. David is being a pussY. Now he deserves Jim to explore his bottom hole. And then you should give him a golden shower after.

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    1. If he wishes to do those activities, I will be very game, however respecting my play partner's boundaries is paramount.

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  2. Thanks for sharing, Julie.

    We’ve all got our boundaries for whatever reason. The word “homophobic” is used widely and derisively, but it’s not well defined.

    I have a mild intellectual interest in all your posts but no prurient interest in the last two, so I didn’t really read them.

    Best,

    Rosco

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    1. I was using it derisively and inappropriately in the comments regarding my husband, and am apologizing for that.

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  3. Good call Julie. I was trying to imagine what David might feel like reading your post.

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    1. No need to imagine. He did read it which prompted my apology.

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    2. David's belt seems to be very effective, any way you deserve ir Julie

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    3. He has used his belt on me in the past, but today I was punished over his knee with a fairly heavy wooden hairbrush until I was quite literally in tears. I had two complete spankings: one before writing my apology, and the second immediately after. I felt, and feel, very properly punished.

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  4. Once the heat of the moment has passed, you know you deserve a very, VERY hard spanking.

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    1. I was in fact sitting on a very sore bottom as I wrote it :-)

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  5. You sure need a punishment for apologizing like that ;-)

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    1. you def need a hard and long spanking for this

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    2. Yes, Sir. All I meant was that I was just given it before posting my apology. Hairbrush :-(

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    3. You should invite two gay friends over and david should make you apologize to them. As a result, if I were them, I would hold you responsible for the consequences of your insulting language and David would be buggered by your two gay friends and all of it YOUR FAULT.

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    4. You have a strange mind, sterny!

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    5. I read that you were given a spanking before and afterwards, i think you need a reminder weekly for about 4 weeks with very stern spankings!

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    6. I think the 2 is good, thank you very much, Sir.

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  6. Where did you use homophobic words? I thought I read all your comments but didn't see anything homophobic on there?

    You didn't have to post the apology though. Even though the scene was intense and boundary pushing I think most of your readers understand you'd never actually force David to do something he doesn't want to do for the sake of a fantasy.

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    1. There was a comment reply I made yesterday morning to the first post that went too far. It's still there. I'm not allowed to remove it.

      And in fact I very much DID have to post the apology. :-)

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    2. Oh now I get it haha. Well thats what you get for being bad, you horny little girl!

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  7. I was actually stunned the last couple of posts. I always saw you as intellectual and rational. And an author whose choice of words was well crafted. One can wish for a particular fantasy but if one's partner deems that scene out-of-bounds, then that enters the world of coercion which leads to, by definition, non-consensual activities.

    Even if one partner feels there was more shifting of some boundaries to accommodate the other than vice versa, well that's just life. True friends (and lovers) don't keep score on that.

    We all make mistakes; the best of us apologize (as you have) and move on. Welcome back.

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    1. It started off with me just posting my own fantasy that I thought would resonate with readers. But I went too far in suggesting that my husband should somehow feel compelled to act it out against his personal boundaries, and even pressuring him to do so. I have learned my lesson.

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  8. Very nice apology, Julie. Am I to understand from the comments that you were writing it "under duress", so to speak?

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    1. The apology was freely given in my own words, and reflects my true feelings of the matter. However, it is fair to say that David had a discussion with me prior to my formulating my apology that made me see things in the correct light.

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    2. I see. And were you, by any chance, draped across his knee with a bare bottom during said "discussion"?

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  9. So you were actually spanked and made to give a public apology on your own blog? How humiliating is that?

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    1. Yes sir (or ma'am). I deserved what I got.

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  10. I understand your husband doesn't really read your blog that much. Did he this time? Nothing you wrote was that bad. What set him off?

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    1. He peruses from time to time, and he happened on this one. What upset him most was a comment reply where I called him both selfish and a homophobe. I wish I could delete it now, as I'm pretty ashamed of it.

      He also was just not generally pleased me conveying that it was an ok thing to pressure your play partner into doing something they are very explicit about not wanting to do. He thought I was setting a bad example for the community. I agree and am sorry for it.

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    2. Respect to you both. David, my apologies to you too. In a comment that I made, (like Julie) I looked on the situation solely from my perspective, rather than considering boundaries and consent. David also, my respect and thanks for your good natured slightly removed involvement in Julie's blog. Many of us truly enjoy it and envy you both your relationship and fun. Thank you.

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    3. Thank you Mark, I will convey your message.

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  11. This post made me smile :) Hope you learned your lesson. Good girl!

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  12. This is the sweetest post ever.
    Did your husband supervise your apology?

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    1. Yup. He literally stood behind me with the hairbrush still in his hand as I typed it out! I have to admit it was super sexy being taken in hand like that...

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    2. Did he spank you before or after he made you write it?
      Are you going to share all the details in a post?
      (and I wish I was in a relationship like yours... Hot)

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    3. I got some before and more after.
      Happy to share details here. Ask away.
      Are you in a relationship now but he doesn't spank?

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    4. Not really. Looking for a good guy. Is it ok if I email you for your advice?

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    5. Sure! Email address top right in the about me box

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  13. I was wrong. Your best quality as a spouse is not your sexual / kinky interest. It is how much you love and respect David and won’t hesitate to admit you made a mistake.

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    1. David explained my mistake to me quite convincingly! ;-)

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    2. With the back of his hairbrush sounds like!

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  14. It feels like I've just witnessed an authentic adult disciplinary situation. Very cool. It's so sexy that you put your ass on the line like that, and that you genuinely seem to respond to your husband's spanking discipline. It feels so childish in a sexy way. And on top of that the commenters above saying "good girl!" with such general approval as to what happened to you.

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    1. I guess you did. David only ever spanks (for real I mean) when it's unmistakenly justifiable, which only happens rarely. But I've asked him to, and it makes me feel like a well cared for little girl when it does, so I don't mind the comments. Being teased for my legit spankings is part of my penance I figure. Many of my readers take a "fatherly interest" in my behaviour, which also turns me on.

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    2. In that case, you can add me to their numbers! It's satisfying to me that you were given a proper spanking for showing such disrespect to your husband. Well earned.

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  15. Thank you for the apology. I was surprised that you posted those two fantasies. It felt like you were driven more by feelings than craft. Unlike most of your writing, there were obvious typos and you repeated an image. That's something I've never seen you do.

    I'm not being critical. It just seems that something made you want to get those posts out. I wonder why.

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    1. The image repeat was deliberate. I wanted it to be the reference image so made it first, and then when I elaborated the fantasy I included it in the appropriate sequence.

      What made me want to get them out was just I was inspired by the QBuzz blog. It just got that fantasy going in my head and I needed to spew. I'll have to reread for typos, omg!

      Then in the comments something twigged me to that story I collaborated on, and I was anxious to take a second pass at the ending in this context. So i was just super inspired (and horny!).

      That fantasy of forced bi for David is very intense for me. You should know! That was the story I wrote for you. It's super frustrating that I'm not allowed to play it out with him, and some of that frustration came out, for which I paid the price.

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  16. sissy michelle10 July 2021 at 16:58

    i know how u feel i also got punished for getting off on ur story last night, usually i delete my history but my wife was too quick on getting to my phone to see wha i had been upto ........ oops!!!!!

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    1. Bad girl! You seem more upset at getting caught then having done the deed!

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    2. sissy michelle10 July 2021 at 17:30

      maybe i am`, i should probably show her this and ask her to spank me properly and see hoe that goes. P.s i hope ur bottom feels better lol lol

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    3. Yes you should!
      Bottom is all better this morning.

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  17. Well,  David has certainly made his point clear with you regarding the exception he takes to those particular comments, and you've sincerely apologized publicly here.  Well done by both of you. 
    Hopefully there's no criticism or regrets about the posts themselves.  I think both of them kick ass. 
    vic

     

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    1. David approves of any and all of my fantasies, and is fine with that part of it all. But yes, I am very clear on where I overstepped.

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  18. Were you sitting on a bare blistered bottom as you typed this out?

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    1. Indeed! David required me to get to the essence of what I had done wrong during my first spanking. Then he plunked me down on my bare blistered bottom to write out the apology. He said the duration and intensity of my second spanking would depend entirely on the quality of my apology, so I was therefore highly motivated!

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  19. I'm very disappointed in your behavior. It is one thing to indulge your fantasies, but it's another to be as disrespectful to not just David's boundaries, but to him as a person, and in a very public arena no less. Your typical role playing aside, were I in David's shoes, I'd be tremendously hurt by your actions, and once I'd calmed down, a hairbrush spanking would be only the first part of a truly punishing series of penalties. I'm very glad you seem to be genuinely sorry, because you most certainly should be.

    Shame on you, young lady.

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    1. Yes Sir. I'm sorry Sir. David usually only uses his hand, so the hairbrush, delivered strictly as it was, was a major "upgrade".

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  20. Rogering here. Tsk,tsk,Julie. Lucky you did not get a sore bottom hole too for your troubles.

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    1. It's the UFC fights tonight, so it will go too late for sex. But tomorrow he will have full call on me, sexually, so that remains a possibility...

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  21. Tsk, tsk, tsk. I would think one of my fellow compatriots on the right would have appreciated how much of a slur it is to have hateful views attributed to someone when it is not true without needing a spanking to teach that lesson. And make no mistake that "racist", "sexist", "homophobic", etc are these days little more than slurs thrown around to shame and manipulate people.

    I'm glad David blistered your naughty behind for your inconsiderate behavior and put you back in your place, followed by a bit of public shaming. You deserve to have your butt bare, burning, and regularly fucked all weekend. Feminizing would obviously not be a punishment for you so maybe being naked and collared until work on Monday would be a good little humbler as well.

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    1. Yeah, I was not thinking straight when I used that word. I used it casually which I should not have. Apparently I did need a spanking to teach me that. But lesson learned.

      After a punishment like today's I need to be fully sexually available to him, so we'll see next time we have sex. I'm hoping the spanking part is over, though, as my butt is still sore and tingly.

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  22. I have a question. Has there been any situation when you wanted to spank David and he wasn't in the mood? Do you just let it go then and then tell him he will get a more severe spanking the next time?

    Just asking since we are talking about consent etc here.

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    1. I don't ever really take him in hand, although sometimes lines are blurred. He has never refused to play when I initiate, though. He wants me to spontaneously scene him, and I know his boundaries.

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  23. Sounds like you've certainly learned your lesson, young lady. A good hairbrushing on a girl's bare bottom will have that effect. Were you kicking and crying like a little girl before your husband was done with you? Were you nose in corner afterwards? Were you completely bared, or only your bottom?
    - mike

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    1. He did not go easy with the hairbrush! There was definitely kicking and crying. Fuck.

      After second spanking did some bare bum corner time.

      I had my PJs on. Bottoms were pulled down, and kept pulled down while I was typing the apology above. PJ bottoms around ankles while nose in corner. Worst part was after part 1, knowing that part 2 was still coming!

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  24. Ha! I did think you were using that word incorrectly, but understood what you meant. Glad you were taken in hand!

    To be honest, I felt some of the language you used in your story was a little unnecessary, but given that it was in context I didn't want to be a prude, and am not a fan of censorship in general. Still, I would love for David to take you to a Toronto leather bar, show your story to a couple of big beefy bears and let them show you what a public spanking from a couple of "faggots" feels like! David would prove himself as an ally, and when they were done spanking you they would laugh as you sucked him off. For the rest of the night you would stand by the bar, red bottom exposed, with a sign that said "I'm a filthy cocksucking bitch."

    Of course, the true tragedy is you letting your husband dictate what you post on "your" blog! Strict Julie no more! I'm wondering if he's got access to your e-mail too, that would certainly explain a couple of things!

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    1. That sounds exceptionally humiliating, and hot as fuck!

      He only reads the blog from time to time. He does not have access to email, your secrets are safe with me!

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    2. I thought you'd like that! It's been a while since I tried to make Miss Puss Puss tingle, not that she needs my help finding si!ulation!

      And it's *your* secrets I'm thinking of! I haven't written anything I wouldn't mind David seeing. In fact, I think he should keep a tighter leash on you, literally and figuratively! I was thinking of you making certain promises and then welching out... Your last e-mail to me (written a month ago!) read like your husband was reading it over your shoulder! Guess you were just being careful!

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    3. Always careful (and especially for the next few days!)

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  25. So, I've been following along from the sidelines here. I usually do, even if the content doesn't really suit my preferences. You're always so in depth, articulate, and entertaining that something that doesn't suit my preferences is still something I happily consume here. I also love to follow along in the comments section because they're usually full of juicy extras that I'd miss out on if I didn't. Unfortunately, the comments are much more... unedited. They're not thought out, they're an expression of what's going through ones mind in the moment, not the carefully crafted narrative of the post itself. And that really caught you out here.

    I'm proudly part of the LGBTQ+ community and it was disappointing to see the term "homophobe" being thrown around so flippantly. I've interacted with many, many homophobes in my life, and unless the man you've painted David out to be is completely different from the real world David, he's far from being homophobic. Then being a kinkster who attributes a lot of her own exploration down to your blog and experiences I was also disappointed that you were so clearly not respecting your sub's boundaries. Safe, sane, consensual. Rule number one for kink.

    However... Everyone makes mistakes. Everyone thinks with their dicks or pussies instead of their brains sometimes. Everyone on Earth has fucked up royally at least once in their lives and it's important to contextualise this:

    -You've had this blog for a decade now.
    -You've always been supportive of the LGBTQ+ community and from every interaction I've seen you have with someone who identifies on it (for example your older sister) you've been nothing but amazing.
    -You've never overstepped the mark, or done anything without making sure all parties involved are comfortable and consenting (for example, leaving your younger sister out of any goings on with your mother/father)

    Ten years of doing this and this is your first true fuck up, and in quite the fitting manner David took care of it. You paid the piper with a sore butt, a sore hole tomorrow (or today, I'm a bit late) and quite the embarrassing admission of guilt alongside a public apology. Quite the way to learn a life lesson, but hey, we kinksters like being a bit extravagant, don't we?

    Can't wait to see your next posts, I for one would love to hear the juicy details of your little lesson with David!

    -Kasey

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    1. Hi Kasey,

      My apologies to you, and everybody in the LGBTQ+ community for my absolutely thoughtless choice of words. I meant to criticize David's sexual preference, which in and of itself is wrong, and used the wrong word on top of that. What I said in the apology above absolutely reflects David and my feelings.

      I rarely get the hairbrush across his knee "for real', but certainly felt it's sting today, in addition to the sting of my very public apology, and the embarrassment of everybody knowing how I was punished.

      My hole is as yet unpunished, but I think it is in my near future to be required to present myself for anal intercourse.

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    2. He should put Adam in one hole while he fucks you in the other hole and then switch holes.
      If he can't fuck you in both holes in one session, then do it over two sessions.

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    3. Fantastic comment, Kasey! An excellent summation of what happened. Since Julie apparently takes instruction on how to write had blog now (shades of her apology e-mail to neighbour Larry!) I'd suggest a blog outlining David's reading the blog, full details of her punishment, David's response to her apology, and Kasey's excellent response, and any further punishment. I think all her readers should know this post was written whilst sat on her naked, punished bottom with her pyjamas around her knees, not just those of us who explore the comments.

      I echo your anticipation for further posting!

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    4. Any chance you or David post any pictures of the punishment effects (HB or the one you still suspect) as additional humiliation?
      A punishment fitting the reason of the crime: In the corner with a red (and/or dripping) bottom..

      Best,
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    5. We'd have to recreate the spanking, and I'd really rather not!

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  26. You deserve every smack David gave you, he was very kind to only use the hair brush. He should have also used the cane to finish up with six of the best.
    Also give you few strokes on your hands (school style) with a ruler or strap.

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    1. Trust me, the hairbrush, in his hands, was more than sufficient!

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  27. I applaud the way your husband handled the situation, and your grace in receiving punishment and taking a lesson from it.

    I imagine the "little girl" in you came out when you first realized that you were to be given a spanking. Did you whimper a little as you were put across the "parental" knee? I imagine you did. Did your husband pull your PJs down before taking you across his knee, displaying your bare girl parts to him as you squirmed? Or were they lowered only afterwards, sparing you that little indignity? And I can only imagine the fiery kiss of the brush and your no doubt over-the-top reaction: the kicking, the crying, the promising to do better. You temporarily rejoined the ranks of naughty little girls being taught a memorable lesson across Daddy's knee.

    I need hardly emphasize how ridiculous it is that a woman your age needs to be treated like this. But there is no doubt whatsoever in my mind that you thoroughly earned exactly the treatment you received. I am assuming you are expected to be on your very best behaviour for the remainder of the weekend. I warn you that Daddies can have rather a "hair trigger" after an incident like this, and the smallest misbehaviour may earn you another trip across the parental knee.

    After I read the comments, I am picturing you sitting on a hard wooden chair on your bare blistered bum, your PJ pants puddled around your ankles, typing out your public apology, tears dripping on the keyboard, knowing your husband was standing by, monitoring you over your shoulder, ready to give you a full repeat performance of everything you had already received. The inevitability of a second lap dance so soon after your first must have been disconcerting. Re-reading those words of apology now, knowing your situation at the time, adds a definite poignancy.

    And if you are in any doubt whatsoever whether you should feel ashamed or not, I assure you you should feel your shame burning to your very core, young lady. Not only was your misbehaviour shameful, the punishment you received, normally reserved for naughty young girls of yore, was perhaps even more shameful: you were severely spanked, young lady, spanked on your bare bottom.

    Sorry, not sorry.

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    1. Yes Sir, you put it well.

      My bottoms were lowered before going across his knee, and he gave me an extra little scolding with me standing there like that.

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  28. I want to send David an Ipanema flip flop to wear at home and use on your ass whenever he feels like it for the coming week you naughty girl, he should not let you get away with just this one time hair brush spanking.

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    1. I think I've been sufficiently punished, Sir, and more importantly, so does my husband!

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    2. It is difficult to resist the temptation to spank when you have such a powerful implement handy at your feet!
      He will definitely use it

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    3. Slipper is not a known spanking implement here, but I got to know it during my trip to brazil when I saw a lady pretending that she will take off her slipper and her giggling son immediately behaved. I asked my local friend, he said of course the boy doesn't want a slipper spanking and explained that lady Slipper is quite painful being rubber Ipanema.
      I bought one and tried it in the hotel room and found it effective.
      I married a Spanish lady few years after and I respect her slipper that warms my ass all the time.

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  29. Julie,

    Since you used images to depict your original post, I believe it's only fair that David does the same. Unfortunately, for you, he'll have to repeat the intense bottom blistering again in the spirit of being able to capture his own images for you to post on what happens to naughty girls when they cross the line. R/S

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  30. Is your punishment over? Or he will give you daily bedtime spankings for a week.

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    1. I still have to make myself completely sexually available to him next time we have relations, so that still needs to happen, and he usually "takes advantage" of the additional freedoms that offers...

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  31. I usually look forward to your posts Julie, but the last two turned me off and I stopped reading.
    I'm glad David roasted your bottom good and I hope you are still wincing when you sit!
    You can do better.

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    1. I guess you fall into the not bi-curious camp, and that is perfectly fine!

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  32. So you were spanked the first time across your husband's lap. You wrote your apology sat on a red and stinging bottom, and your husband gave you a second spanking to dot the i's.
    What was the state of your pussy during this ordeal because we know that you are often soaked in this kind of circumstance?

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    1. It was a bit gushy as he scolded me and I knew I had a spanking coming. It dried up pretty quick once the hairbrush connected to my butt. During the writing I was in a bit of pain and really, really did not want that second spanking. Ever since it was over I've been horny as hell for him!

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  33. This very real spanking (real like the one David gave you for putting your parents' lives in danger) makes you want to know more about the circumstances, David's decision, your surprise, your feelings... Perhaps all of this is already written otherwise it would be a pleasure to read the report from your hand.

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    1. Lots of details that it would be fun and sexy (for me, now that the fire in my ass is a memory!) to write about. David is cool with me describing it (we already discussed) so long as I don't backtrack on my apologies.

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  34. How are your buns this morning? In love with your HoH?
    Andy

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    1. Buns are a touch dusky and itchy. VERY MUCH in love with my HoH, and feeling very sexually needy...

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    2. Wait, did you just call David a hateful old homophobe? Sounds like someone needs another lesson!

      Just occurred to me you were very lucky not to get your mouth washed out with soap! Maybe there should be a typing equivalent, like rubbing hot, raw chillies with your fingertips...

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    3. How are you reading that into this comment???

      I think mouth soapings can apply to writing as well.

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    4. Did I misunderstand something? I think David should Horsewhip ontarian Hindquarters, you Hard on Handler! 😜

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  35. Takes a lot to publicly apologize like this! For that I’m proud of you! Definitely was shocked to read what I did and was disappointed in your choice

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    1. Well... I can't take ALL the credit. David was extremely persuasive. But, yeah, I deserved everything I got, and would have done the right thing regardless once my errors were pointed out so clearly and my attitude adjusted so compellingly.

      But regardless, sorry to have disappointed you like that, Sir 😢

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    2. I have always enjoyed reading your blog and our interactions as I am sure I will continue to. however this is now the second time I’ve been disappointed in something I read within the last few months! I’m very glad to hear you were dealt with and taught a lesson!
      I also very much appreciate your apology to me as well. Miss our interactions and hope to hear from you soon

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    3. Than you, Sir.
      I'll try to do better, Sir

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  36. Hi Julie

    I don’t respond in this blog much but always check out your site each day. I loved your re-write of my story focusing more on the daughter. I think it was the more erotic part of my story and your amplification of that aspect was great :). The humiliation by the daughter is so very erotic (note I say “the” and not “my” is an important distinction. I would never imagine my daughter in this fantasy). I do somehow imagine it is me but with some fictional daughter with no resemblance to my own. I read some negative comments about this topic but it is the richness of our imagination that allow us to superimpose your own self into a fictional environment with the trappings of reality. It’s not a fantasy in the sense that you really want this to happen with real life characters but something for your mind to play with and enjoy. This richness of my imagination is what gives me the kind of experiences you enjoy both in real life and fantasy. Unfortunately in real life many of us don’t experience what you do in real life and envy your situation and so thoroughly enjoy reading your blog.

    billie

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    1. So nice to have you comment bill! Yay! Thank you for the story in the first place.

      Good point about fantasy that too many folks confuse. And guilty as charged myself, but sentence served!

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  37. It's amazing to me (in a good way!) that there are actual hot wives out there who allow their husbands to spank them like this for true disciplinary purposes. It's sort of funny to me that a woman your age misbehaves. I am a considerably younger male, but I wouldn't have made the sort of mistake you did. I would have known better, which is saying something. But I guess you paid the price and will be more careful going forward.

    But for you to be subject to your husband's discipline like that. Bare ass over his knee, hairbrush discipline, blows my mind. And then you get a fucking afterwards. Sometimes an ass fucking?

    It's just so fucking humiliating for a grown woman to willingly put herself into that situation. Blows my mind.

    But thank you for being you. I love reading about it!

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    1. Hi Teddy,

      Thank you for writing such a thoughtful comment. I'm guessing you're in your early twenties or so? If so, I am old enough to be your Mom, in which case it's pretty embarrassing to be be discussing my spankings with you. And my... ass fuckings...

      Yes, it is embarrassing (some would not use the term "humiliating", though I use them interchangeably), but that's part of the attraction to me. I feel the embarrassment intensely at the time, and afterwards (like now). I get a sexual kick from it that I cannot separate from the punishment. It's why I put myself in this position.

      I also, personally, value the stereotypical sexual roles for men and women, husbands and wives, and put my ass where my mouth is :-)

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    2. 19 actually, and still living at home with my Mom, who would be about your age.
      Hope I find a girl like you some day.
      But even given our age difference, I'd put you across my knee to correct your behaviour, and enjoy doing it. I've seen the vid of your ass wiggling across your husband's knee. Sweet.

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    3. P.s. seen pics of your pussy also. It's slutty. You need spanking.

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    4. Oh my. You are a young one! I'm literally blushing, and imagining what it be like to go across "my son's" knee with my "slutty pussy" on display.

      It's an interesting fantasy to be an immature Mom to a mature, well-built, 19 year old son who takes me in hand as you suggest.

      Anyways, hope you find a nice gal your age who wants to be spanked like me!

      Aunty Julie

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  38. Naughty girl got what you deserved: a sore red bum!
    Please do post the details.

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  39. I'm very happy to have read this apology. I must say that when I read your transgression, my respect for you dipped a bit. As the injured party, and your HoH(not to mention your loving and dedicated partner of all these years), David saw to your punishment and declared it sufficient. But, the wound may have left a scar that is harder to forget. I pray that your sobs were deep and cleansing so that such misbehavior will not happen again. Ever. Good girl.

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  40. It sounds as though the issue is well "behind you" at this point. I have had a young lady do the same more than once. Typing apology while sitting bare bottomed on a hard wood chair, well blistered and tears flowing.

    Better behave yourself young lady

    Paddle Daddy

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  41. How is your bottom Julie, still hurts?

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