Julie Spanked!

I was reading Ms Clara Hewitt's blog, the How it began entry. While Clara is new to blogging she is very experienced as a dominatrix. She advises,

I can and do take spankings in my personal life still, so I know exactly how it feels to be on the receiving end - crucial for a dominatrix, I feel.

I am new to this, as you know, and Clara obviously knows what she is talking about, so I decided that I had to give it a try on her advice. Her particular advice to me was,

Honestly, Julie, I think you should be spanked, just once, so you know what it's like! In my experience the boys who take the hardest spankings are the gentlest when they dish it out - wimps will always hit you much harder. Have a few glasses of wine, start very gently and agree a code word. I can't wait to read what happens!

david takes a pretty darned hard spanking, so if Clara is right, I'll have nothing to worry about. Ha Ha!

I went up to david earlier this evening and told him that he needed to give me a spanking, so I would know what it feels like, to allow me to be a better domme to him. To my surprise, he was very eager. I thought he was all about getting a spanking, and that this might turn him right off. Guess not. Good I guess, so long as he doesn’t plan on making a habit of it!

I took Clara's advice, and told david to open a bottle of red. I had a couple of glasses and allowed him a half glass (I needed his wits about him!). I told him that I would be in control, and he should not get any ideas. He was to use only his hand, and he would stop or lighten up the moment I told him to. We were not role playing naughty girl or anything like that, so he could get that out of his mind.

When I was ready I got david to sit in the middle of the sofa. I hiked up my skirt (I already had bare legs in readiness for the event) and draped across his knee. I told him to go ahead, and take it easy.

He started spanking me over my panties, but it was a complete joke. I could barely feel his pathetic little swats. I told him "For fuck's sake, don’t be such a wimp!"

He started spanking a bit harder and it was quite nice. I could feel my seat warming up a little. I actually enjoyed the sensation.

Don’t get me wrong. I am not cut out to be a subbie at all. The thought of being submissive to david would have been a complete turn-off. But as long as I was in total control of the situation, which I definitely was, it felt rather pleasant, the physical sensation of getting my bottom warmed.

I told him to peel down my panties slowly. He did that, and that was pleasant as well. "Keep spanking." I told him. He did. I started getting him to spank me a bit harder, and to experiment by moving the smacks around a bit. The nicest place was right at the bottom of my bum. I did not like too high, too low, or too much to the side. My am I fussy.

"Spank harder" I told him, and he stepped it up a bit more. I really enjoyed the sensations! He asked if I wanted to spread my legs a bit. I accommodated him, and he shot a hand down to my pussy, which felt nice. He took his fingers away and then put them back a second later, nicely slick with his own saliva. That was really, really nice. He used his other hand to keep spanking me. That was a good combination. I felt like so long as he was rubbing my clit like that, he could spank me all night so far as I was concerned.

But I wanted to see where the limit was, and I wasn't anywhere near that, so I told him to finish me up with a nice hard spanking, just in the spot where I liked it the best. He started spanking me pretty hard, but I still liked the sensation. "Harder!" I told him. I went into a different little head space as he ramped it up. After a minute or so of that, I felt my bum had had it, so I told him to stop.

The sensation was pleasant. There was a lot of heat in my butt. I went to a mirror in the hall and saw that I was red all over my backside. I couldn't believe the heat. But it was pleasant, not painful.

I took him by the hand up to our bedroom, and basically raped him.

Good advice, Clara!