Thursday, January 21

Husband Panty-Spanked by Wife

My husband david erred and needed a correction. I was only too happy to give it.

For background I put him back on his diet on New Year's and I am keeping him company as I could stand to shed 5 pounds or so myself. We are counting food calories, limiting it (1500 for me, 2000 for him), keeping net carbs low (<50g), and exercising (cardio and weights). I don't like driving carbs down too low, and like to keep it around the 40-50g range because we feel better and it still works (your mileage may vary). So a very important food item for us is this one:

It only has 17g of net carbs per bun, so I like having one once a day.

Well, I sent david out to do the grocery shopping with a list, and he came back with something completely different.

I mean, WTF??? Sure they're also 100 calories and have only 16g of net carbs, but they're smaller and thicker, don't come apart as easily, and when they do come apart they come apart into unevenly thick halves. I was fucking annoyed and all he could say was "they're just the same...". They are clearly not "just the same." I had to get to work when I discovered this but I told him, "tonight you're getting spanked for this."

Lest you think I am unreasonable, this is a typical sort of impromptu scene for us. I pick up some minor thing that slightly annoys me, and I blow it all up out of proportion, using it as an excuse to have a spontaneous "strict wife, submissive husband" scene. We don't actually do this for real differences of opinion, but something like this is perfect. I also enjoy playing a totally unreasonable bitch. Keeps him on his toes!

After work and dinner I confronted him again about these ridiculous buns. He was still maintaining they were "basically the same." I made him take one out and separate it into halves. He had trouble doing it, needed to get a dinner knife to help, and managed to tear the thin top piece in the process. "Just the same, eh?"

"Well, mostly..." he said.

"Look at how thick the bottom half is and how skinny the top half is. And how small the diameter is. You know I like to make two open face sandwiches. How am I supposed to use the skinny one that's practically falling apart? the thick one is way too bready. You think I want that much bread in my slice? And look at how small they are compared to the normal ones. I want maximum surface area for spreading things. They are not the same."

"Ok, they're a bit different."

"And did the store have both?"

"I dunno..."

"You don't even know? You picked up the first thing you saw with no thought at all?"

"I guess."

"Well I guess I'm going to have to teach you a lesson with a long hard paddling across my knee and some quality time with your nose against the wall."

"Ohhh..."

"Go upstairs, have a shower, clean yourself up with soap, dry yourself, put on a pair of panties and a T-shirt, and then come back down to the living room and put your nose in the corner with your hands on your head and wait for me to punish you. Expect a bit of a wait, young man, until I've calmed down enough to deal with you."

"Ohhhh... yes ma'am..." 

He went up to do as he was told. Ha ha!

I went about my business and before too long I can hear him quietly coming down the stairs and putting himself into the corner. I went over to him and without saying a word I pulled his panties down to just beneath his bottom and then left him there to stew.

Would he be there for 5 minutes? 10 minutes? 30 minutes? One hour? He had no time reference and no way to know. All he knows, for every minute he stands there, is that he's been a naughty boy who is about to be severely spanked across his wife's knee, with a hard wooden paddle, before being put back in the corner.

What is the purpose of the panties, you may ask? They are punishment panties. Not only is he being spanked, he is being panty-trained as well. It is, by definition, an emasculating item of clothing for a male. In his male brain, it is men who wield the power, women who are subject to it. Not today. Or at least, today he is the woman, and the panties let him know that. A woman with his panties lowered about to be taken across the knee and spanked on the bare until he is wailing, begging, and crying like a woman. My little woman.

I like to have him do corner time in the living room. It is where company sits. It is easily visible from the front door. It increases his sense of exposure. He knows that if someone were to drop in (unlikely as that is nowadays) that I would not let him off. I would have to explain what was going on.

I left him there about 15 minutes as it turned out, during which time I fetched my souvenir of Muskoka paddle.


It's hardwood and just the right length to give some good speed on the head. It's not too thick so it bruises less, but really does a number on the nerve endings on his butt, and reddens it beautifully. He "does not like" this paddle.

I placed the armless spanking chair in front of the fireplace. I had my paddle in one hand and reached out for his ear in my other. I conducted him over to the chair, sat, and brought him across my knee.

I reminded him why he was being spanked, and told him I expected abject apologies and begging for mercy - genuine contrition - perhaps even tears, before I would even consider ending his punishment.

Then I laid in. Of course, I warmed up his butt a bit first with lighter strokes of the paddle. If I go too hard too quick, he cannot take it. I want to properly warm up his ass so he can be there across my knee for a nice long journey into submission.

I start upping the pace and increasing the force of the blows. I start getting some satisfying mewling and wriggling. david does not think what he did was so bad as to warrant a spanking. Therefore he is reluctant to apologize and beg for mercy. It is part of our game. But as they say, the spanking does not really start until he is begging for it to end.

His ass is reddening spectacularly and his cries become more strident. I hear my first "no! please!" I remain resolute. He knows what he must do to get this spanking to even begin to end.

"Ok! Ok! Ok! I'm sorry!" he says. It's not very convincing. I increase the intensity.

"I'm SORRY! I bought the wrong bread! Please! I didn't mean to! I was careless. I was thoughtless. I'm sorry! I'm SORRY!"

That was a bit better. NOW his spanking can start.

I would estimate I gave him another five minutes of non-stop punishment. All the while he was frantically apologizing and begging my forgiveness, and begging for his spanking to stop. We found it a good way to get him towards tears is if he is loudly vocalizing during his spanking. It breaks him down physically and emotionally.

Before long I started detecting the addition of sniffles and tears to his increasingly frantic wailing. That was when I became satisfied that he had been properly spanked, and decided to begin ending it.

I like to announce an end to his spanking by pausing, reiterating why he is being spanked, and then telling him that there will be some number more hard ones. It's better than just stopping out of the blue. If I say "10" he will be relieved. If I say "100" he will be frantic. I said "100".

"NO! PLEASE! I'VE BEEN PUNISHED ENOUGH! PLEASE! NOT A HUNDRED! PLEASE!"

"Shut up and think about the consequences next time you go shopping."

I gave him his full measure of 100. I paused after every ten and announced the count. Each ten I made harder than the last. He was in purgatory now. The begging and pleading faded, replaced by a grim determination to make it to the end. Fortunately, the sniffling and the tears were unabated. The mewling was pretty loud, though. 

True to my word, I let him up after the hundredth stroke. His butt and high thighs were a disaster area! He stood gingerly, clutching his ass cheeks. There were legit tears in his eyes.

"Pull up your panties." I told him. He bent down and did so, painfully getting them up and over his sore behind.

"Back in the corner," I said, pointing the way. He shuffled over.

I followed him and when he got there I again pulled his panties down to just beneath his messed up red ass. I like the ritual of this pulling down of panties in the corner.

This time I left him there for a full 30 minutes as I sat there surfing my iPad and watching him. He sniffled and he wiggled and wriggled that sore ass, which was very entertaining.

A typical evening in the Julie household.

68 comments:

  1. Didn't you have an old contract a year or so ago with diaper discipline in it as well with the diet you might be able to bring that back out again now. Gotta get him ready for bikini season

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  2. HI Julie, I love tour blog on the subject you are so honest about your sex life i admire you for it. here my scenario you could act like a school teacher or governess in uniform and say I saw cum stains in your pantie and I won't stand for it.so I'm afraid you are going to get otk hairbrush and after its going to be a birching.

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  3. Not the same at all! Can’t follow simple instructions. You need to do some analytics with use of his least favoured cane and ability to orgasm linked to his weight. Carrot and stick approach. Rule him by the cane and cock. That’s what men understand.

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  4. I wonder what consequences you might have in mind if David doesn't follow the diet you have put him on and doesn't lose the extra weight?

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    1. He will, helped along by some strict but loving discipline.

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  5. Your impromptu punishments are so good, I love the way you 'snap' just like an exasperated matriarch might before she spanks and scolds.

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    1. Yes! I enjoy my own unreasonableness. It's very feeeing.

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    2. Feeding ?
      May I ask the meaning of "snap" in this context.
      Agree with QBuzz : l'impromptu vous va si bien...

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    3. 'Snap' = to suddenly lose your temper. Hope Julie doesn't mind me providing the definition.
      For instance, the males of the house are loudly watching a football game when suddenly they hear a roar of rage from the kitchen. The lady of the house has spent all day running around after them becoming more and more fraught, until she sees nobody has tidied away the dinner plates, and 'snaps', pulling the television plug from the wall, scolding them all to tears and pulling them across her lap one by one for a dose of her hairbrush on their bare bottoms.
      She feels a lot better afterwards!

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    4. feeeing should have been freeing!

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    5. Thank you QBuzz for the lively little scene which helps to understand the definition of this verb.
      Why don't you try to illustrate "The freeing of Julie Delmar", in your own way, if Julie agrees?

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    6. I think the contents of this blog does a better job of illustrating that particular concept than I ever could :D
      I hope I won't have to be punished for not completing my assignment Sir (and Ma'am).

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    7. Too bad, I was thinking a story like your "Christmas in Paris" with QBuzz and J.Stern in the roles of the husband and the son in law of "it's so freeing" Julie... :-)

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  6. How were you dressed Miss Julie?

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    1. How would you have liked me to have been dressed? Like that! ;-)
      (Actually... jeans and a blouse - nothing fancy)

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    2. Obviously...pencil skirt, stockings with seams, high heels. There is nothing quite like the sound of heel clicks on hardwood behind you, when your bare bottomed and in the corner Miss. Sends shockwaves right through the entire body.

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    3. True. I like the effect as well and feel powerful. But jeans are less work!

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  7. That paddling would not happen around here. Far too long for us. But the paddle and panties have a strong appeal.

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    1. There's an art to a long spanking. Use yellow safewords honestly to surf the limits. Does not need to be hard, or beyond what you can take. Making it longer is a different kind of submission.

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  8. Writing lines after such a spanking is allways a good reminder instead corner time

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    1. Now add - writing lines while being figged with a diaper on to hold it in and making grammar, punctuation and readability part of the grading.

      Emily

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  9. "A spanking does not really start until the person being spanked wants it to be over."
    I don't know why this sentence seems to suit the feminine meanders of the mind so well.
    While the one below seems to correspond more to male brutality.
    "My goal is for the person being spanked to want it to stop the very moment it begins."
    You explain very well, and in detail, (you are really good at reasoning) how the two packets of buns are absolutely different : two good slaps in his face could have punctuated your demonstration.
    It's amazing to imagine David stewing in his own juice all day long thinking about the well deserved spanking he's going to receive.

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    1. Yes. You understand so well the psychological, which is what I enjoy playing with.

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  10. What is worse than standing in the corner with a very well spanked bottom, it is standing there in your little boy jammies, the bottoms pulled down. My mother-in-law bought a pair of cowboy and indians little boy jammies that fit me. When I'm really need a good sound spanking, I now must put on these jammies, spanked soundly and then face the wall. My wife said that the few times I have pointed out something you wrote, she has decided that panties I would enjoy, but looking like a naughty little boy is what she likes, and trust me in those jammies I feel like a naughty little boy. Yes, my mother-in-law was present during such a spanking, enjoyed the show I put on and really enjoyed seeing me standing, little boy jammies on, the bottoms pulled down. Jack

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    1. I think YOU like those jammies, jack.

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    2. yes/no, knowing I'm going to have to wear them makes the punishment worse. They do what my wife wanted them to do, remind me I've been a naughty little boy. I don't like it when her best friends sees me in them. My mother-in-law enjoys it the most, and have learned not to talk back to her when she makes a comment, the spanking I will get from her, I kick off the bottoms. So yes the Jammies add to the spankings and I do as 'Mommy' saids. Jack

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    3. One more comment, you will agree, wives or any female enjoy making a male feel like a little boy, reminds them who is in control. My wife finds that the Jammies insure I know who is in charge, also when having to wear the jammies it is early bedtime, bath in the morning, and if been really naughty could be wearing the next day. She will address me as a naughty little boy, will remind me to address her as Mommy, and if anyone drops in, they are told why I'm in my jammies. I wanted a woman who would spank me and never thought it would go this far, but then again I agreed no limits, she decides, and so if it is little boy jammies, I do as told, just like a naughty little boy should do. Jack

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  11. I like the way you added 100 when he was expecting 10!
    What a shock for him.
    I'll bet you enjoyed him squirming for the rest of the day ?

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    1. Yes. "You think it's over now, don't you? Nope!"

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  12. Nice one this kind of stuff sounds familiar. Irene blows up some silly little thing out of proportion. She also just bought me a 6 pack of bight colored panties and expects me to wear nothing but for a week.

    Most of my corner time is spent not standing up but tied to a wooden chair in her closet. (Our downstairs has too many windows facing all directions - some neighbors my be amused, others not.

    I don’t know that I need a spanking but I’ve a yen for some pussylicking, and one pretty much precedes the other in these parts. Maybe I’ll go make a mess in the kitchen.

    Rosco

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  13. Poor david! A woman used to tell that when she happened to arrive at the living room with a certain paddle in hand, her husband on seeing it couldn't help but start crying nervously, with much amusement from the guests. She called that "tears of remembrance".

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  14. Your idol, the 45th President is obviously morbidly obese. Do you think Melania would be able to slim him down, now that he no longer has the rigors of the office to contend with? If he only had KFC six days a week instead of seven, that would be a start. Maybe an apple or banana to introduce him to the world of fiber. She could give him a target of say 2-3 lb. weight loss per week, and if he fails, a firm application of a sorority paddle on his diaper-clad bottom might work wonders. Maybe forgo his golf cart and actually walk around the course to help his level of fitness.

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    1. Melania has the look of a woman who can apply some strict discipline!

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    2. 46 can't even play with his dog while getting out of the shower without breaking his leg

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    3. I like President Trump's portly demeanour. Find it attractive. Very "God Emperor"ish. But it is true, if I was Melania, I would whip him into shape now that he's retired to keep him healthy and long lived for me.

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    4. The God Emperor enjoyed having Stormy Daniels spank his ass with a rolled-up magazine. Sarah Huckabee Sanders had a kind of feral glint in her eyes - - There were probably times when she engaged in discipline sessions with her boss in the oval office.

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  15. Love this --- although I think you let him off to easily by not reinforcing his punishment with a pegging. Nothing drives home you are being punished quite like anal sex!
    I am sure David will reach his weight loss goals with you there to help him!

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  16. Hi Julie, This is the side of you that I always enjoy the most. You are such a natural Domme. I admire David for his stamina. This was truely a marathon. Just curious, did you feel in the mood to having him orally pleasure after this? Bob Bell

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    1. In this case no. Sex and spanking are different pleasures that sometimes come together, though not essential that they do.

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  17. Oh Miss Julie.... these spanking blogposts of you get me hard instantly and i would love love love to be on the receiving end and be brought to tears by you...

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  18. Two years ago, david was still a little hard before the paddling. This weird hardwood paddle "Souvenir of Muskoka" ! How his penis and testicles were humbled! David was holding the paddle between his ass cheeks. You took a photo and published it. Full public display.
    (o)

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    1. I did, and good catch, it was the exact same paddle (one of my faves).

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  19. I take it that David's pleading and begging for the spanking to stop was real and not just pretend? That he was at "yellow" for most of the spanking? The relationship between "yellow", "can't take it anymore" and pleading and begging for it to stop is kind of interesting.

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    1. Real in a sense. He could remain stoic if he wanted to, but I want him to vocalize, but not fake it. So he "allows himself" rather than shutting it down. But his cries are well earned by me. If I go overly soft, or just use my hand, I don't get them.

      We sort of do use this kind of pleading as a form of feedback. If he shuts up, I don't know how it's impacting him. If he allows himself to honestly vocalize, then I can tell by the tone of his pleadings where he's at.

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  20. Wow! That was an intensity that is simply amazing. The real spanking starting when you are already pleading for the spanking to start. Plus, 100 more, as a way of concluding the spanking. Just a few real spanks with that would have me pleading for the spanking to stop! Many, many more for five minutes, then another 100. WOW!
    bottoms up
    Red

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    1. We don't do something this intense every time, but when we do it's usually worth blogging about!

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  21. WOW!!! Thank you SO MUCH for sharing such an intimate moment with your followers! The comments about the 'spanking starting only when the wailing does' hits home; that is the stuff of my dreams! I'm sure David knows now just how fortunate he is to be with you, but I'll wager he had his doubts when you decreed another 100!

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    1. I enjoy the power rush myself, reducing a grown man to a whiny little woman like that. The more he wails the more I want to spank, but all good things must come to an end.

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  22. I got a question. This is a little forward, but I am curious. Do you ever grab your husbands balls or his penis during a pre spanking lecture or post spanking lecture? I dont mean in a sexual way. I mean just to kind of take charge while you’re scolding him and what not? If so, do you feel this is effective?

    I am just started out in my female led dd relationship. I learned it from a good girlfriend in real life who lives this way. She actually let me watch one of her boyfriends spankings. So I saw the lecture and all. She was really mad at him for an overspending issue. So when she was lecturing him, she got to yelling at one point. She grabbed his balls and was really scolding him. She was like yanking his balls up and down and keeping a hold of them while she lectured. She wasn’t squeezing them or hurting them in any way. She just had his balls in her grip and was shaking them with her hand as she yelled at him.

    It seemed to have a very powerful effect on him before the spanking and it wasnt sexual at all. So I was wondering if you did that and if you reccomend that yourself

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    1. Definitely! Sometimes during a spanking I pull all his junk out behind him and use a tight grip and nails on his ball skin to settle him down. Sometimes I'll grab some penis skin near the tip to pull him out of the corner for his trip across my knee. And sometimes, as your friend does, as an element of a good scolding. But be careful, it can be overly painful.

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  23. Nice paddle Julie, just a question, did you gain weight like the lady in the photo (you usually select photos of slimmer ladies).

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    1. Then you need a lot of spankings to make sure your bottom is full despite being slim

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    2. My bottom perhaps less so... :-(

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    3. So being sub does have some benefits to make your bottom even sexier

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    4. Makes a better target for my man, and can absorb more spanks I guess!

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  24. I once got a spanking from a big strong lady like the one in the photos.
    It was best getting a hard hand spanking from her big strong hands over her high full knee, it brought back childhood memories when any lady (even my older sister who was 6 years older) was able to give me an effective spanking with just her hand and keep me still despite it hurts

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