Tuesday, April 28

Sunday Dinner, Good Girl, Wooden Spoon

Last Sunday was, once again, Sunday dinner at my Mom and Dad's house. Sue was there as well.


The previous Sunday it was just my husband and I with Mom and Dad where I "came out" about being a spanked wife to them. Mom was surprisingly really open to the idea. Because I had misbehaved around how I had intended to come out I was due for a spanking after returning home (I was going to deliberately break a glass and get spanked for it - never did - but argued with my husband about it). However, given how non-judgmental my folks were, David made me spill the beans about my desires for my spankings also to be outside the home, and for those closest to me to know about them; and then, well, one thing led to another in an improbable sequence of events, and I wound up getting a mild panties-down spanking from my husband in front of my freakin' Mom and Dad. They thought it was "cute" (see Honesty is the Very Best Policy).

Last Sunday was exactly one week later, and my sister Sue re-joined us as well. I had given her the whole run down around what happened, and she had spoken with my Mom, and I had debriefed her on that (see Reactions). I had personally not spoken with Mom all week long.

I was anticipating a bit of teasing this week and I did get some of that. There were in fact three notable events, and a promise as well.

The first notable event was over dinner. At a lull in the conversation, my Dad asked David, "so, was she a good girl all week?" He was asking my husband if he had cause to spank me during the week! I had in fact not received a spanking all week long. Nonetheless, David chose to embarrass me. Not one to mince words, he said, "Haven't had to spank her at all. She exercised almost every day. Cooked dinner three nights. Performed all her wifely duties..."

"David!" I said, blushing.

My Dad laughed. David had just implied I had been properly submissive during sex with him. In fact, part of my "wifely duties" consisted of my being his Domme (see A Strict Whipping), but I wasn't going to embarrass my man by saying that, so I had to eat the embarrassment of my Dad imagining me submissively spreading my legs for my husband "on command", or worse!

But what's with my Dad asking that question in the first place? He seems extremely interested in my spankings! Is that normal given what he saw last week, or is that unusual? My Mom did not shush him at all. She seemed interested in the answer as well. Sue put her hand to her mouth, concealing a  smirk or a smile I could tell.

So embarrassing. I'm one of five adults at a table, yet my Dad and my husband are both teasing me openly about my spankings (and my "wifely duties"), and my Sister and my Mom seem just fine with that. I brought it on myself, I recognize that. And I do kind of like that sort of attention, despite the embarrassment...

That was the only excitement during dinner. There was another notable event right after dinner involving Sue that I'll get to, but after that, the third notable event was just before going home, my Mom pulling me aside and asking me earnestly, "is everything ok?". Yes Mom, everything is really fine. Really.

Going back to the second notable event. It was in the kitchen. Sue and I were clearing. Mom and Dad and David were in the living room "sitting more comfortably" (tee hee re. my husband's butt if you've read my last blog entry).

"So, last week you told Mom and Dad that I've spanked you, did you?" Sue said.

I was feeling guilty about that, I shouldn't have, and I had told Sue straight away and apologized to her for it.

"You know I did," I said, "I told you and I apologized. I'm sorry, I thought you were ok with it."

"Oh I'm ok with it," she said. Then she went rummaging around in a kitchen drawer and pulled out the wooden spoon.


"Still going to spank you for it," she stated. "Go on, upstairs, I'll do it in your old bedroom."

What? I know this is my "thing", but my tummy dropped out and I became extremely self-conscious about being spanked by my Sister where Mom and Dad and my husband could all hear. And unlike David, Sue would not take it easy on me on account of them. It would be long and hard and I'd be in tears and howling for mercy long before the end of it. I know this from experience. That would be too much. No. I didn't want it. I was going to put my foot down.

"Oh, I'm just kidding. Look at your face," she said. "I wouldn't actually spank you here, where Mom and Dad could hear. You're nuts."

She didn't look like she was kidding!!!!

"I'll do it, let's see now, Wednesday evening after dinner, I'll drop by your place around seven. "I'll clear it with David first, then I'll do it by the book."

She was referring to my DD Contract which I had shared with her. "By the book" involved a lot of embarrassing things. It was more meant for my husband than for my Big Sister. There was full nudity, corner time, admitting of sins, after care, and even a "Sexual Obedience" clause after punishment spankings! Was she talking about that? All of that?

As I write this today, she's already arranged it with David, who has given her his "all clear". David's told me to be nude and in the corner awaiting Sue's arrival. And then I was to obey her, and accept my punishment from her, as if she was him. And if I didn't, he would make sure that I did.


Oh crap!

98 comments:

  1. Big Sister. “Sexual Obedience”. (Leak.)
    -david

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    1. I know. Am I going to have to eat her out, OMG! She did not say that.

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    2. It's possible. And Sue may also feel like doing some eating herself.
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  2. Ms Julie, this entry has me trying to burst out of the small opening on the holy trainer chastity cage and leaking in my lace panties.
    Humiliation and the threat / tease of a hard spanking at your parents brought back memories of what i experienced years ago at my parents from my Wife.
    Looking forward to reading your next entry in regards to what you will have to endure at the capable hands of Sue

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    1. What happened? Have you told me the story before?

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  3. Te ofrezco humildemente mi blog con historias 100% reales con mi sumisa.

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    1. "I humbly offer you my blog with 100% real stories with my submissive.l
      Sure! Bring it on. 😊

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  4. Everyone is being debriefed, but you are always the one with the bare bottom? You debriefed your parents, and we know how that turned out then you debriefed your sister and now,.....well....you know.
    You mentioned You sort of liked the attention despite the embarrassment..... the embarrassment that you stipulated to in a contract and signed as a plank of integrity?
    By the book, as far as I can tell where your sister is concerned will be a solid 8 out of 10 or better, touching on all of the points of the integrity section of the contract I just reread the discipline ceremony and the Integrity sections, that;s quite a bit to imagine. I think that may have been a part of her strategy of giving you 3 full days to think about what's coming your way. Well actually you'll be coming her way but you know what I mean.

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    1. I've re-read the contract myself with Sue in mind. I even have a clause where David can nominate a proxy, but I was thinking of my Dad, not my big sister. So embarrassing if she's read it in detail, which her words implied she did, or will.

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  5. Sue will arrive to find you naked and ready. But ready for what? Like anything she wants. first your bottom will pay and David will enjoy watching her spank you. And after? will she use a strap-on? Maybe she wants some oral it's all up to her.
    archedone

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    1. Damn. Did not think of strap-on!!!

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    2. I think she will hand that portion back over to David while she watches or else it will be a coaching session, but that's assuming you don;t get excited during the penalty phase which she doesn't tolerate so most likely directly over one knee until you " lose all sense of shame" or actually find it?

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    3. She's good at that one knee thing...

      But she's like, power top or whatever you call it for lezzies and gives her girlfriends the strap-on treatment, like, all the time!

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    4. Like, I mean, there's a signed document that there's no freaking way I'll ever reneg on that gives her carte blanche. So if she's ever wanted to... and she mentioned it! And she's a committed muff diver!

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  6. Well young Lady, it sounds like you are going to receive a full and well deserved punishment.
    It may be that you have to service Sue, or perhaps she or David (or both) will take advantage of your bottom hole.
    I, like all your readers, await the post punishment update. Enjoy your naked corner time!!
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    1. This is a recurring theme with you, non consent vs. consent, Sue did NOT consent to you telling your parents about her, that's bad enough for you to think about in the corner. This is exactly what the contract is for.

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    2. Yes yes yes, I admit it. My big mouth writing cheques my poor butt will have to cash.

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  7. Seems things are quite intense for you these days. Your dad is definitely intrigued just don’t know to what extent. Can’t wait to hear about your meeting with Sue

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    1. Yeah, he's interested all right. I'll blog about Sue after my... gulp... spanking.

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    2. Now that you opened the door between Sue and your mom, that can be taken as tacit acceptance for Sue giving your mom details and your mom giving your dad details and your Dad can then bring up your Wednesday at next Sunday dinner!

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    3. Fuck. You're right. Hadn't thought of that.

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    4. How is the maintenance spanking going?

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    5. Had the first one on signing day. We were aiming for once a month or so, or sooner if we both want it.

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  8. Hi Julie,
    This is Thierry, again. First, congratulations for changing your mind and going easy and progressively with your parents. As you wrote, honesty pays!
    At the same time, things are developing quite fast now and I wanted to share a thought that occurred to me a few days ago.
    On your blog, you are giving us a detailed account of what happened at your parent’s. This makes you visible and recognisable to them. I explain myself. If your father or your mother started to have a quick look on the internet and tried “spanking blog”, then your blog would appear very soon on the list (about 15th position when I tried earlier) with these words: “A Strict Whipping and Sunday Dinner. › I gather my family's”. If your parents are a bit curious and investigate a little, they will find your blog and discover quite a lot on your private life, including David’s.
    I hope this won’t lead you to delete your blog. But perhaps you might consider protecting your privacy in deleting some of your articles, or changing the settings in the descriptions so that your parents might not discover everything. Or tell David and seek his opinion and advice on this matter. Or tell your parents everything or that it’s now over or .... well, it’s your choice! Unless your parents don’t use computers?
    I hope this will help!

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    1. He has a point I have often wondered how in the WORD David could have not found this blog the odds are certainly against it. All of us found it by accident and it is QUITE high on the search engine. So either you control the computers in your house or he already knows? Maybe you should change the post titles?

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    2. Well, everybody uses computers, but I doubt they're searching spanking porn!

      It actually already happened once, what you describe. A Pro Domme in Toronto David and I scened with was recommended our blog by another client, and while browsing came across a scene we did with her! She called me out on it and I volunteered to do a session with her where she spanned me for real'ish. Ha ha!

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    3. Re David and this blog... no comment.

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    4. To make a comment on this subject which calls none, if david were one of your readers, you would not write on your blog :
      "Awww. I just want him to DO IT!
      He should read my mind, otherwise what good is having a hubby? "
      Or you would write it in the hope that he reads it, which means that you are not sure if he reads it. Who knows...

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    5. Nothing secret but be careful, maybe not to broadcast.
      If you type the words "toronto spanking violet" on google search, the first result is
      https://twitter.com/msvioletmays/status/890170786190946308

      Another spanked Julie! :-)

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    6. Another? That's me. But you can't recognize me in the photo, much, and my real-life boring name is not actually Julie.

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  9. See julie, this is better! Clear slate to start this whole new adventure off. Apologies for everyone impacted...don’t hold back your tears. You’ll get through this and all will be right in your new dynamic.

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    1. But but but... the wooden spoon! In Sue's hand! An angry get-eveny Sue!

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  10. -“patiently wait for picture of Julie waiting in corner for her sister to arrive”...

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    1. I'm picturing it already!

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    2. Ohhhhh a before and after corner picture would be absolutely delightful !! That trembling, LITTLE and PERFECT butt!

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    3. I did that last time Sue spanked me. She's gonna get suspicious!

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    4. Set a phone camera timer and do the honours yourself and in private.

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    5. Silly girl, you will still have your butt bare before and after she comes and goes. Look at younalready trying to wiggle out of your punishment. After all, you said embarrassment was part of it.

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    6. I'll see if I have a chance.

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  11. Julie, in that moment when your sister said she was about to take you up to your old bedroom for a thrashing...after your tummy sank and the horror wore off, did you actually wish she had?

    The humiliation of everyone downstairs hearing the fuss. The nostalgia of your old bedroom (which I think is a good idea for future, and from Sue not David).

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    1. Actually... no. Surprisingly. There do appear to be limits, and having my big sister spank me anywhere near my parents seems to be one of them. I have no idea why I blurted out the fact that she had spanked me to Mom. Momentary surfeit of honesty while in an emotionally weakened state, I suppose.

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    2. You could probably arrange to have Sue spank you in your old bedroom when your parents are away. They don't need to hear it for you to have that experience.

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    3. The location is less important than the proximity to others. It makes me excited getting a spanking from David where my Mom and Dad can hear it going on. Getting it from Sue while they listen is somehow not the same and I can't explain it - maybe a bit of a sibling rivalry thing? Dunno.

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  12. Tell me about that, my mom supplies my husband with the spanking implements to spank me with.
    She even once took over to show him how to spank properly.

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    1. Come on, we need all the detes now, girl!

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  13. You hungry nympho :-D

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    1. Yes Sir.

      nym·pho·ma·ni·ac
      noun
      a woman with uncontrollable or excessive sexual desire.

      "hungry nympho" is like "hungry hippo". I think a hippo is hungry enough as it is without further qualification :-)

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    2. Well yes, good definition.
      I have to admit, that i am torn with you. Part of me wants to say dominant things to you and see how you react here in the comments and the other part wants to see how you would react to submisive me... what to do?

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    3. That's easy, go with the tone of the blog post. If it's a subby post, feel free to Dom. If it's a Dommy post, see how far that gets you!

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    4. I see, an easy formular, although... you should have mentioned that before, so i would not have the need to ask this and waste time! I hope Sue's punishment puts you in your place and you behave better. If she is finished you should get some extra punishment from your husband and then suck him off with no reward whatsoever, because let's be honest here, you deserve it and need to be punished for the bad and naughty girl that you are!
      I would do so much things with you in punishment ways...

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    5. Yes Sir! I was spanked by both Sue and David, and fucked! But I'd be interested in how you would punish me, Sir, if I was yours...

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    6. I hope, that we will hear about your punishment.
      First thing with your bratty behaviour would be, that you would get regular maintenance spankings, just to remind you and keep your ass warm.
      But for example the punishment would take place immediately before visiting your parents in a way that your ass would be really on fire, even if you sit on a comfy cushion.
      But you would have to wear a shirt to dinner with the print "Naughty Girl" or similar on it. Then i would direct you to a chair at the table with preferably only wood on it and ask your parents to watch closely as her naughty daughter sits down....
      How does that sound for a starter?

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  14. Oh Sue is such a tease!
    Given your penchant for patriarchal humiliation, perhaps ALL your wifely spankings should only ever be given at your parents' house, in front of Mummy and Daddy and whoever else might happen to pop round (Sue, lecherous neighbours, wicked uncles, your father's friends etc) Perhaps Daddy might even starting joining in one day...

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    1. I wouldn't mind!
      I think a good wife should submit, and be seen to submit, in ways which suggest she is sexually submissive to her husband, such as a bare bottom spanking.

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    2. You're a classic. (o)

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    3. Yes. I mean you are cute, not a kinky slave. A cute lady does things the old fashion way.
      As you certainly wear whatever you like as long as you are comfy with it. A pleasure to spank such a bottom. (o)

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    4. I think an underrated aspect of wife spanking is "if I can do this to her here, in front of you, imagine what I will be having her do in the bedroom, behind closed doors." That excites me for people to imagine that about me!

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  15. I hope she's not going to make you lick her asshole. Tongue as deep as it could get into it. It would be horrible for you...

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  16. Hey there Julie, Kasey here again.

    I was wondering what in particular made you definitely not want a spanking from Sue, in your old room?

    It ticks a lot of your boxes, from what I've read, and it's not in front of your parents as it was last weekend.

    I'm really curious to hear your response, maybe you made the wrong choice and should've taken your spanking in your old bedroom rather than have to take a naked spanking and a potential strap-on fucking!

    -Kasey

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    1. It wasn't so much about the room than the fact that my parents would hear my sister spanking me. I'm guessing it's some sibling rivalry sort of thing where Sue and the parents are concerned, but it just doesn't do it for me. But if it were to happen, I would not have much say in it.

      And I was not thinking I was trading it off for a potential strap-on fucking. I really can't imagine she would go there. I think she just wants to spank me!

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    2. Do you think she has found and read this blog.....

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    3. That makes sense. lol.

      I am afraid, despite what may be your deepest desires, most of us are just teasing you about what sexual clauses you'll be made to commit to? :P

      Though....... that said....... your sister... she's a wild one.... ;)

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    4. Phew. Just done!
      Kasey... I going to have to quote you in my write up, I'm afraid!

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  17. You have been so selfish, getting everyone involved in your sexual fantasies. But what do they get out of it? Now things are about to change. You should beg Sue to let you clean her home once a week while wearing a very skimpy French maid outfit and heels to shoe off your legs, but no panties. After she inspects your work, beg her to punish you for your mistakes. Then with a very red ass you must service her with a very long pussy worshiping session. No cumming for you. Believe me, being dressed as a tart can be even more embarrassing sometimes than being naked because it shows you are a bottom to your superior. Just to make it better or worse have David there some weeks to watch or do other things with Sue as you scrub her kitchen floor. I now have to do this for my own sister and it is such a humiliating turn on.
    Timmie jo

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    1. Hi timmie - that does sound very embarrassing! Anxiously awaiting your next blog entry, young man. It's been a week. Get writing!

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    2. Is there a link to this blog by Timmy Jo?

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    3. https://sub2sister.blogspot.com/

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  18. "Coming Out" was realizing that a spanking was what I needed, and having a woman who knew how to give. "Coming out" to my mother-in-law was easy, my wife had told her mother of the spankings, in fact her mother told her daughter that was what I needed. I told my mother-in-law that I wanted a spanking from her. Well she did, then and there, talk about getting a spanking. So coming out is good, but sometimes more than you ask for. Jack

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    1. My experience is that if you don't ask you don't get.

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  19. I love the fact you gave David's backside a sound whipping before your visit so he still feeling it when he sat at Sunday dinner.
    A nice reminder to him to be careful in case you mention that you were the reason for his discomfort!

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    1. Don't tell me you didn't enjoy watching him squirm at dinner , knowing only you knew why ?

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  20. Julie,
    You’re so lucky. David is so lucky. Even my wife is lucky. Here I am with a partial erection that can’t go far because I’m not due to be let out of my chastity device until next weekend. Oh well... By the way, it’s good to see your family get along so well!
    Enjoy and be careful.

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    1. Glad I can be "helpful" in keeping you good and primed for when your wife lets you out. I'm sure your sexual ardour will be off the charts!

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    2. Julie,
      If I’m denied a time period such as a month, and I’m close to it now, I’ve been an animal when it came sex with my wife. By the way, the wooden spoon hurts.

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    3. She is about to find out ! Won’t be long now. Let’s hope our amazing julie figures out how to take a timer photo or two...

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    4. Spanking was not that bad. Though I was disciplined in a slightly different way...

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  21. Corner time missy.
    (daddy to his wife : Pour me a drink, honey. )
    "Look at that big bare bottom".
    Isn't it Sue, your big sis, ringing at the door ?
    Send not to know
    For whom the bell tolls, Julie,
    It tolls for thee.
    Let the show begin !

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    1. She's due at 8. I have to go eat dinner now.

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  22. Good luck Jules. Remember, this is for your own good!

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    1. It was! I feel much better now. All made up with Big Sis!

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  23. Maybe she will give you some of the alternative punishments like a big soapy enema.

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  24. Nice to see David and your Dad have a nice discussion about your spanking, maybe one day David and your Mom can sit at the dinner table discussing your diapering. " so David make sure you use lots of powder she has always gotten rash's so easily" LOL.

    Seriously hope you are getting what you want and are as happy as you seem.
    Good luck from sunny Alberta

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  25. Welcome back girl. I’m glad you’re ok! Loved and cared for and adored by many :)

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    1. Slightly sore bum, and feeling very submissive to my Big Sis!

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