After my conversation with Mom last week (Tea with Mom) I wasn't sure what to expect at Sunday family dinner. Was I going to get a spanking from Daddy??? I asked Mom during tea if that was possible and she smiled and said they would consider it. I hoped for it...
So I came into Sunday dinner all a tizzy wondering what would happen. So no big spanking happened, but there was a bit of exciting "show and tell" from David and a lot of spanking conversation. But most significantly there was a promise of something very exciting to come... read to the end to find out!
There was the usual crowd: my Mom and Dad, my big sister Sue, my husband David, and I. The first thing that happened as we got seated was Dad who said, "no more politics at the dinner table, right Julie?"
I answered "Yes Sir!". Everyone smiled a bit but that was all that was said. I think David, Sue, my Dad, my Mom even, may have wanted to say more, but nobody did (like, a reference to me standing in the corner last week, or of me getting my spanking after David got me home, or a reference to what would happen to me if I did it again...).
That was that during dinner. Boo. I was thinking the evening would be a spanking bust. I was wrong!
After dinner we gathered to "sit more comfortably" in the living room. That was when my Mom made things interesting. She said, "Julie and I had a talk earlier this week about her spankings."
My "spankings". That's definitely how she started: "her spankings". Already feeling the blush!
She summarized why I thought I needed it, and I agreed with her assessment. Basically along the lines of feeling the need to be taken care of in a childish sort of way, a little holiday from grownup responsibilities, in a playful and sexy sort of way for me.
Yes, she did say "sexy". Mom for sure had me pegged.
Mom went on to explain how she and Dad did not mind being a part of it, within limits. She did not specify those limits though. She then asked Sue if she felt the same way.
Sue could have made trouble, as in "you're all crazy! She's just doing it to get her rocks off!" But she didn't. She played along and said something along the lines of, "No, I don't mind at all. I've seen her spanked and spanked her myself already. I think it's a bit of fun and if that's what she thinks she needs then I'm fine with that."
Wasn't Sue great? She knew what I wanted, and even though she did not 100% approve, she said just the right thing to normalize it. To make it seem like not such a big thing.
Sue went on, "But based on the fact that I blistered her butt, I'm not sure if she ever wants me to spank her again."
"Of course I do, I deserved it," I said.
Mom expressed some surprise that Sue "blistered my butt". Sue said that I had misbehaved with her, that I had suffered the consequences, and all was forgiven.
"How hard was this spanking?" Mom asked a bit incredulously.
"Oh, it was hard," said Sue. "She has a very high pain tolerance. And she won't get injured, no matter how hard you go, that big butt has a lot of padding on it."
"Sue! It's not that fat!" I remonstrated.
"It's a lovely bottom," offered David, "but she does have a very high pain tolerance."
"You went light on her when you spanked her here, I take it?" asked my Mother.
"Yes," said David, "that was an uncharacteristically light spanking. Normally she wants it much harder than that."
"How do you know how hard to spank her?" asked Mom.
Oh my gosh. It was a whole conversation between Mom and Sue and David about how hard I "take it". Dad was just sitting back and munching on the pocorn, figuratively speaking.
"We have a system," said David. He went on to explain my safeword (RED) and how I try hard not to use it, but everyone feels better knowing it's there.
"I've heard about this 'safeword'," said Mom. I wonder where? "So how do you usually spank her?" asked Mom.
David then elaborated on his spanking technique!
He said he takes me across his knee and bares my bottom... oh gosh! He said he starts with his hand. He goes fast and hard, usually until I'm kicking up a storm and crying out, and that's usually enough. Sue chimed in that his hand may be, but hers not nearly. David said the next level up was a wooden paddle of some sort. Or maybe the back of a wooden hairbrush. Sue added, "or the wooden spoon, Mom." And the top level is some kind of a leather strap, could be a doubled-up leather belt. He usually has me bent over for that. "And butt 'neked," added Sue helpfully, "from what I've seen."
"Yeah," confirmed David, "I make it extra memorable by having her strip for a strapping."
"Oh my!" said Mom.
"David!" I complained.
David then made me stand up and turn around so my butt was facing them. He showed them the prime areas where I get spanked: lower butt cheeks and upper thighs. He demonstrated with a few hand swats across the seat of my jeans.
"Spread your legs a bit," he told me. I did so. He gave me a couple of smacks to the insides of my thighs. "Very sensitive in here on the bare skin. I give it to her there if she kicks around too much, or otherwise makes a fuss. Especially with the paddle."
Oh my gosh! Doesn't he realize that the only way you can get in there with a paddle is with your legs spread wide!?!
David had really gotten into the spirit of it and explained it all quite exuberantly!
"I can tell you enjoy this," said Mom to David.
"Oh I do. I definitely do. Now, if you're using the belt, just make sure the end of it is aimed for a butt cheek, rather than having it wrap around to her hip. Bend over a bit, Julie."
Oh my! I put my hands down on the sofa seat I was sitting on. David whipped off his belt and doubled it up. He showed where to aim it. Then he took a couple of swings.
I said, "Ow! Ow!"
"That seems intense," said Mom.
"She can take it, can't you Julie?"
"Yes Sir," I said, as he put his belt back on and let me sit back down a bit flushed.
"As I said, your father and I, and Sue it seems like, are fine if you wish to give her a spanking like that when you're over here."
"Like that"? Stripped??? No, she must have meant just harder. Right?
"Thank you so much," said David. "It actually means a lot to Julie that you're accepting of this part of her."
"Of course we are, and, as has been said before, it's a bit of sexy fun to see our all grown-up daughter given a spanking from her husband!"
"Thank you Mommy, thank you Daddy, thank you Sue," I told them all.
"Thank your husband," said Mom.
I turned to David and gave him a big hug and a kiss and said, "and extra-specially thank you, hubby!"
Mom went on, "you also asked about your father spanking you..."
"Uh huh," I admitted.
"We discussed it," she went on, "and it appears you've already gotten yourself a little spanking from your father."
"What?!?" said Sue, very surprised.
Uh oh. Was I back in the doghouse again?
"From what I understand," said Mom to Sue, "your sister quickly bared her own butt and then threw herself across your father's lap."
"She was pretty quick!" laughed Dad, "Nothing to do but give her a few whacks and send her on her way. They weren't very hard ones!"
"What a little minx!" said Sue.
"I understand you know about this, David?" asked my Mom.
"Yes," said David curtly. "After the fact. I was quite angry with her for not getting permission first, from any of us, and I gave her a pretty hard spanking with the hairbrush just before coming here a couple of weeks ago. She was sitting on a very sore tush during dinner."
"Well that's all well and good," Mom said, "but I think your father and I are the most aggrieved parties in this, wouldn't you say?"
"I would," said David.
Oh boy. I was gettin' spanked! By my Mom and Dad!
And then Mom turned to me and with a little smile, not angrily, said, "so next Sunday, after dinner, your father will be taking you upstairs for a proper spanking, young lady, just like David described."
Mom said it with a smile and a virtual wink, but OMG!!!!!!
On the way out we all said our goodbyes. When my Dad said "I'll see you next week," it had a certain extra meaning!
So now that's 'gonna be a thing...
Omg that's just amazing,I really don't know what to say Except for congratulations! Wow this is your dream coming true I'm so happy for you !
ReplyDeleteYou're getting a proper Spanking Julie ! I hope he spanks you before dinner so that you can enjoy sitting on a sore bottom during dinner !
Wow I can actually imagine this happening
Your mother is so nice ! She seems gentle
She's giving me a real gift, I realize that.
DeleteI think you ought to wear some nice clothes for the next dinner
DeleteDo you really think your dad is going to strip you naked and spank your ass with a belt ,oh my gosh that's so exciting I hope I was in your place HA HA
I am really happy for you
I really think sue will be punishing you this week for not telling her about your"playful"encounter with your dad
I don't know about the clothes. I don't want to make a big deal about it or over-sexualize it (it's sexy enough as it is according to... MY MOM!)
DeleteI really doubt I'll have to be nude for the strapping.
And yes, Sue certainly has a good excuse for it but I have not heard yet.
Wow can’t wait to hear this! I’ve also got a special “meeting” this week
ReplyDeleteI'm excited for you! Send me detes!
DeleteFlipping Heck. It seems like you are going to get your desire. A full on nude spanking from Daddy. It looks like it will be in private, but I wonder if he will bring you down for nude corner time.
ReplyDeleteI also think you may be due a visit from Sue judging by her reaction to the revelation of Daddy’s 1st Spanking.
Have a great week of anticipation and a little hint of dread. The train has now left the station and is hurtling down the tracks of destiny.
As ever Stay Safe.
x
Yeah, I don't know what Mom meant when she said spank me like David described. All three parts?
DeleteI was wondering what that meant too.
DeleteI’m curious what’s going to be used and what it will all look like. Care to speculate?
I think it will be just be over my Dad's lap getting a hand spanking. I think he'll pull my panties down. 50-50 that Mom will supervise. 109% that Sue will make me show her my butt afterwards!
DeleteThere will certainly be wood and probably leather involved. The woman went out of her way to inquire as to the severity of what she witnessed at her house with you and David, She also made specific inquiries with 2 different people as to the usual severity and, she also made it known that she knew about the clandestine activity with her husband in her home. All of that does not add up to a little jaunt OTK, no way. I imagine at least an 8 out of 10 and Sue will take it the rest of the way the following week. Almost guaranteed and the embarrassment factor will be through the roof.They are planning an event!
DeleteOw you're making me nervous!
DeleteSweeeeet home Alabama...
ReplyDeleteI think Alabama is a wondrous place!
DeleteThis seems too good to be true
ReplyDeleteYes, it does.
DeleteOh shit Julie! Doesn't it count as incest?! Anyway, nothing but love for you, take care!
ReplyDeleteNope! I'm good!
DeleteIncest: the crime of having sexual intercourse with a parent, child, sibling, or grandchild.
I was considering this question and I think the answer is dependent upon if you are using the fetish as a sexual orientation. If yes, then yes ;if no then no. The question hinges a great deal on whether or not you have regular non-bdsm, non scene relations with your partner, if you don't and are using kink as your sexual identity, then it would seem that you are in the area of taboo. A part of the discussion already includes the idea that you may climax, so certainly there is an aspect to be navigated.
DeleteWith my Dad it's not about that. It's about being taken care of. Being taken care of excites.
DeleteWould have been fun, in another life, if, when talking about safewords,
ReplyDeletemother (mischievous and feminist):
- and this safeword "red" is it valid for boys and girls ? :-)
Ok. I didn't saw : Mom to David "I can tell you enjoy this,"
DeleteShe meant him enjoying spanking me.
DeleteJulie are you going to consider dressing a bit more “little” for the upcoming Sunday? Like enough so it would be obvious to your family that it’s a non sexual event for them...and you’re really just trying to find that inner little girl amongst your care givers?
ReplyDeleteNo. I need to completely de-sexualise, so everyday clothes for me!
DeleteWow! I had no idea that the 2 were connected, you might qualify as an LG spanko, you might want to research that.
DeleteIs that "Little Girl"?
DeleteNo, I mean that anything different would take it away from what it is: a spanking.
This turn of events is so far away from the 99% of us who struggle to integrate our kink life with our nearest/dearest, let alone our extended family, that it's difficult to know what to say. The cat is out of the bag, and it ain't getting back in. Regards
ReplyDeleteIt's true. You need a certain amount of courage, and much easier for a woman than a guy. Spanking a woman slides nicely into sex role stereotypes.
DeleteQuite amazing how your parent's interested in spanking has perked and your Mom seems to be really into it. Likely she has done some research on the internet and discovered how 'mainstream it is becoming.
ReplyDeletePerhaps your Mom is a secret spanko herself and Dad will get to practice spanking on her bottom before it is your turn!
As the topic seems to intrique her why Don't you suggest to her (or your Dad) that a good bare bottom spanking may be beneficial to her also. The way things are going so far she sounds like she might give it a try.
I'm sure your Dad is looking forward to next week!
As you say, I'm sure I don't need to suggest it!
DeleteSound like new spankings life for you now all matter if your happy about your new spanking life all matter knew this day was coming for you
ReplyDeleteYears in the making!
DeleteIt is going to be a long week waiting for the outcome of this!! i bet you are twitching in anticipation
ReplyDeleteI think about it a lot...
DeleteWow, so fun! I wonder who is looking forward to this the most - though it sire sounds as if all of you are for different reasons!
ReplyDeleteIf your mom wants to be in the room to watch would you like that or would you prefer if she is downstairs listening with David and Sue?
I think I'd want her to watch, to desexualise it more. It might be awkward with just Daddy, you know?
DeleteTrue to some extent although with the way she makes comments it might make it worse. Your dad might just politely ignore it if you end up visibly aroused but I am sure your mother would point it out to him if she notices.
DeleteWhat if your mom wants to spank you too? Would you be ok with taking a spin across her lap after daddy is done spanking your naughty bottom?
Also, I saw another comment about figging, have you thought about asking Sue to prepare your mom for the idea by mentioning it to her this week amd suggesting it be added to your punishment?
One last question: of your mom, dad, amd Sue who would you most want to insert the fig amd who would you least want?
I don't think Mom would, but I would be fine with it. What would I have to say about it?
DeleteAnd no, I don't want to manipulate the situation more than I have already.
Are you ready to get a nude punishment spanking from your dad? You've been posting about it forever. How is reality stacking up against fantasy? Do you think you'll do corner time as well?
ReplyDeleteReality, so far, is better than fantasy. I really doubt it will be nude, but I do fantasize about that, a lot. I might have to do corner time, but it would likely be David putting me there. I will not try to influence that either way.
DeleteWell now,
ReplyDeleteMaybe you should let them know or maybe have Sue "accidentally" let them that David his spankings as well. She could even go as far as to jokingly suggest a Demerit/star chart be put up for the both of you on the fridge and she and the folks can keep track of each of you two's demerits and stars. Imagine though if you made David go to the dinner diapered and he tried to spank you over his padding ;-).
Emily
We're trying to keep David's spankings secret, although now both Sue and Mom know, but they don't know the other knows and are each sworn to secrecy.
DeleteWoooooowwww! Lol and a week to sit and think about it beforehand hmm? I think that mind is going to be racing more and more each day until it arrives!
ReplyDeleteAlready happening!
DeleteWon't next Sunday be fun!?! I wonder if there will be a group discussion before (and maybe even after) you get your whipping from daddy? It will be great to hear all the details, as you are so very good at conveying these events so vividly. My expectation is a long, very specific post that covers the family conversation about it, the actual (bare bottom, or completely nude?) spanking, and how you felt at each stage along the way.
ReplyDeleteBut first, what did you and David talk about on the way home from this total bomb of a conversation?? As always, thanks for sharing and stay safe. TL
I will do my utmost!
DeleteDavid is happy it's progressing the way I wanted. He's excited for me that my Daddy will spank me properly. We did speculate about the details. He thinks Dad should strip me and whip me!
I think you're getting mixed signals being punished for demanding a spanking with more spanking, I think you should be asking David or Sue to experiment with some of the non-spanking discipline you've dished out over the years. I think you should definitely ask for an enema as a courtesy before going to dinner, making sure you're cleaned out and smelling fresh for your Daddy!
ReplyDeleteA phrase that's stuck with me for a few years since your experiment with figging is "I did not want to waste the ginger root (or, I must confess, let it anywhere near my delicate little bumhole for that matter!)" Maybe Sue ought to administer a little piece to your bottom for keeping your family spanking secret from her!
Finally, I think as a proper punishment next Sunday you should purchase some suitable diapers from a brick and mortar store on the way to dinner. Maybe a pacifier too, to help with your blowjob training. You can keep them in your trunk and you don't have to bring them up but you'll know they're there! After your spanking you can head home and David can diaper your sore little bott-bott! With the lockdown in place and you working in home no-one has to know you're being diaper punished for your wanton behaviour!
Oh yes! I will wash extra thoroughly for sure.
DeleteOh my gosh, a figging punishment would be awesome. Sue showing Mom how to prepare the ginger root. Sue pushing it into my bum wearing rubber gloves in front of Mom. Corner time without pants or panties, squirming in pain in front of the men...
Oh boy... I thought you were a tease but your Mom is something else!
ReplyDeleteYes! Making me wait a whole week!
DeleteI have always been told, be careful what you ask for you may just it. That being said it sounds like you may get to enjoy it. Then again what if you cum while being spanked, which i would hope happen if it was me doing the spanking. A nice big wet spot all over my Jean's that Mom and Sister would see.
ReplyDeleteThat is an actual danger. If Dad spanks me frantic, it might happen. I've been fantasizing about it so much... hopefully it won't be noticed in all the sound and fury.
DeleteThere were some significant key words here that show this will be quite an event;
ReplyDeleteUpstairs
Unspecified limits
High pain tolerance
Naked butt
Prime areas
Spread legs
Also a real possibility that each family member will come upstairs to take a turn one after the other. Batting order might be daddy, mum, David and then Sue with her strapon. Good times. Mr D
No strap on, silly!
DeleteAnd I think it's just Daddy spanking.
Hmm. I wonder, do you get wet during spankings? If so, have you ever left any wetness on David's lap. That would certainly be very embarrassing, I imagine, if it were to happen with your Dad.
ReplyDeleteI don't usually leave a wet spot unless I'm grinding in hard in a knee straddle situation. No question that I will be damp for it...
DeleteMum’s totally into it. She’s given daddy a free pass for your spanking! Sue will be after sibling rivalry revenge. This is just like when young Julie threw herself on daddy’s lap in little panties and t shirt.
ReplyDeleteYou are right. Sue says if I'm getting it from dad that I'm getting it from her soon after.
DeleteDo you imagine that the event will free you of the fantasy? sometimes checking them off of the list lets us move onto the next adventure so to speak. I think for sure everyone will stop up to see you in the corner and admire the handiwork after hearing what I am sure will be a long operatic aria through the entire house and imagine the belt collection, the choices. There will surely be a consultation during the week and ya,it's a thing.
ReplyDeleteSo are you finding the emotions, nervous trepidation, impending dread, or more like when you visited the couple and were aroused all week?
No dread. Totally arousing. The thought you raise, being heard throughout the house, that's arousing as well. I'll be sure to make my Dad look good!
DeleteI'm really thinking that the comments before and after from your mom will be especially noteworthy , I'm almost certain there will consultations of what you referred to in the contract as integrity , I think they will find out just how severe is severe and be surprised at the reports! I'm thinking that you are going to be extra particular about your clothing choices? Most likely the most overtly retro things you can find?
DeleteO no, dressing like always.
DeleteNext sunday, before the proper spanking, it would be good (even if it is a bit embarrassing) if you explained aloud and in detail to the little "crowd" what would make you happy: birthday suit? grabbing ankles? legs apart? vagina and butthole on display? big tears?
ReplyDeleteThen... you know... the best moment is when one is climbing the stairs...
No! What will happen will happen.
DeleteWow, a woman of your age being hauled over your daddy's knee for a bare ass spanking. certainly an arousing situation. Looking forward to the next installment.
ReplyDeleteMe too!
DeleteJulie,
ReplyDeleteYou should wear a skirt or dress. Nothing sexy, but something that your Dad can raise before he takes down your panties and gives you a real spanking.
Dress is possible...
DeleteDress is more feminine.
DeleteI'm not sure I want to be more feminine?
DeleteI'd vote for a dress - not because it's feminine, but because Daddy would be 100% in control of everything, versus you having to cooperate with him on getting down jeans or pants
DeleteDress = More Submissive!!
:-)
-T.
That's a good point...
DeleteThanks!! I try, and occasionally succeed.
Delete-T.
A dress or skirt for sure. Maybe something your mother would have wanted you to wear (but probably didn't) when you were a freshman in high school. Cotton panties and high socks too. Do you know if you are going to get it when you first arrive or after dinner. I wonder which would be more embarrassing. Listening to the adults talk during dinner perhaps about why you deserve a spanking or sitting through dinner with four very red checks.
DeleteEven if your dad was not actively participating so much in the conversation I'm sure he was taking plenty of mental notes. And he may have some ideas of his own as well.
ReplyDeletevic
Oh I'm sure! How could he not?
DeleteYou should have an orgasm in the car on the way over. Then you're less likely to be aroused by the spanking.
ReplyDeleteHow am I going to do that??
DeleteVibrators have batteries and skirts don’t have to be pulled down, silly girl...
DeleteIt would sure make for an interesting drive over, maybe having to sit in the driveway for you to finish before going in? Better not take too long or you’ll make you and David late...
I can only get off to my Hitachi. I need a wall outlet!
DeleteIn-car inverter. Takes the car’s 12vdc and steps it up to 110vac. Check the current rating on the inverter and Hitachi so you don’t overload the system
DeleteYou mean I'd be drawing so much power from that inverter that I might blow it up??? possible... hungry, hungry pussy...
DeleteParent's Guide (revisited) by Dr. Trumbull.
ReplyDelete1. Spanking should be used selectively for clear, deliberate misbehavior of grown-up daughters.
2. Spanking has shown to be an effective method of enforcing time-out with the adult daughter who refuses to comply.
3. Only a parent (or someone else who has an intimate relationship of authority with the girl) should administer a spanking.
4. Spanking should always be motivated by love for the purpose of teaching and correcting.
5. Spanking can unfortunately be necessary after 30 years of age.
6. After 30 years of age, one sharp slap to the face of a stubborn grown-up daughter may be sometimes necessary to stop serious misbehavior.
7. Spanking should always be a planned action.
8. The girl should be forewarned of the spanking for designated problem behaviors.
9. Spanking should sometimes (but not too often) be administered in private to avoid too much public embarrassment.
10. One to four hundred spanks should be administered to the bare buttocks. Spanking should be of sufficient magnitude to cause the 30 plus daughter to cry genuinely. After the emotional ventilation, she will often want to crumple to the breast of his parent, and she should be welcomed with open, warm, loving arms."
11. Spanking should leave a cherry red or deep bruised big butt but should never cause physical injury.
12. If properly administered spankings are ineffective, parents should increase the intensity of spankings.
Then other appropriate disciplinary responses should be tried.
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I approve this list!
DeleteBut, but, ... what are the "other disciplinary responses????"
Ah ah! spankings first ! :-()
Delete(o)
big teaser!
DeleteThis is fantastic julie. So proud of you and you’re so awesome. I truly hope this occurs in your childhood bedroom...I’m sure it will given the “taken upstairs”. I also hope there is adequate cornertime. Phone timer picture would be nice.
ReplyDeleteIs this a “just because” spanking? Or like Sunday maintenance? Usually there is always a reason. I know your Mom declared this to be occurring but what’s the reason behind it. You need to have that clear in your head too I think, before this begins.
Talk about wanting pictures !!!!!!! lolololololol ( i know it aint gonna happen ) hehehehe
ReplyDeletePaddle Daddy
Not pictures...plural. Just one...just one of our little girl in the corner after Daddy has “taken her upstairs”. That’s all...it’s not greedy it’s reasonable. The photo buzz killer David isn’t around...or shouldn’t be...stage is set.
DeleteLooking forward to it lil julie
DeleteNo photos at Mom and Dad's period. OMG if I get caught doing that!!!
DeleteYou enjoy getting “caught” doing stuff! Cause you enjoy the consequences. Terrible predicament ;)
DeleteFact check: true
DeleteMarched up to your room by Dad. Bent over the bed bare bottom over the pillows sticking up. Dad holding the belt up high and snapping it soundly leaving a large red stripe. Cool air rushing across your bottom as you realize your bedroom window is open and the entire neighborhood is listening to naughty Julie get the sound bare assed blistering that is long overdue! Knowing when he stands her in the corner afterward the boy across the yard will have a unabstructed view of her well blistered bottom !
ReplyDeletePaddle Daddy
My fantasy punishment!
DeleteIt could be upstairs. Mom (scolding) and Dad (belt - "harder Doug !"). FULLY NAKED. Because they have seen all that before and so they will take the opportunity to have a good look at your recent developments, assessing that this childish treatment will do you a world of good.
ReplyDeleteThat would be so exciting if Mom made me strip for Dad...
DeleteWill you want to have an orgasm before hand to lessen any libido or will you want to avoid any sexual behaviour before hand to heighten the feelings.
ReplyDeleteHave you asked how your Dad wants to do it? After all it is largely about you and fulfilling something you have got hot over ,over the years. Does he want to see you contrite. Does he want to see you exuberant and buzzing.
Surely if you have all talked about how you are spanked and your hubby has demonstrated you must be open with each other. Why not ask your Daddy and lessen some of the tension. Femsup
No, no, and no.
DeleteIt must unfold!