Thursday, May 28

Held Accountable

I'm still very giddy and excited that this Sunday, with my Mom's blessing, I'm expecting my Dad to give me my first "proper" grown-up spanking from him!!! I'll have more to say on that prior to the big event. But first, I wanted to introduce you to a new blog friend of mine named mike.

mike is overweight. He is 6'1" and 300lbs. He has a wife and young daughter and something I wrote on a previous post (The COVID 25) about david's recent weight gain struck a chord with mike. I had written about david,
Listen, I love him and find him super sexy regardless of his weight. It's more the lack of self-discipline and self-respect that is a turn off than any visuals because I know he is capable of losing that weight. And most importantly are the health risks! He is my partner for life, and he BETTER stay healthy.
mike felt a big twinge of guilt reading that. He wrote to me asking if I would help him. In his note he said,
Miss Julie, While I’m sure that you’ve been and will be thoroughly inundated with similar emails given your last post, I simply can not keep myself from sending this one.

I’ve viewed your blog from afar for so long and read your tales of domination, nearly always imagining myself in many of the predicaments poor David seems to get himself into. Your last several posts have hit me incredibly hard and felt very personally important.

Weight loss has been a struggle of mine, and on and off the roller coaster of doers and regain have been my story for many years. I’m 36 now, and with a newly adopted daughter in my home, I simply can not continue the same decisions I have been making, for my and her sake. It’s up to me to make sure that I am with her for as long as I can be.

You’ve talked about accepting e-subbies, and I would like to humbly request any assistance you can give with accountability in my situation. I understand that Strict Julie can indeed be very strict, but I feel that I’m ready to take the next step in becoming the new me, and that accountability to a demanding woman such as yourself will help keep me on track.  Employing any means you find appropriate will help me make better choices for myself and those around me.

I know you’re a very busy woman, and I thank you for reading if you’ve gotten this far. I humbly accept any decision you make, and would be more than happy to answer any questions you have or suggestions for alternative solutions as well. Thank you again, Ma’am. 

Michael
I was eager to help mike, and as we got started, mike began blogging about his experiences. This is mike's avatar on his new blog.


I think it says it all. I am melted. There was no way I was not going to help mike!

I wrote mike back with some specific directions and telling him the program was starting the very moment he read my email. No more than 50g of net carbs per day shall pass his mouth! I gave some other specific directions as well and made him study my blog entry Fat Loss and Spanking that details the routine I use for my husband and the rationale behind it.

mike displayed a fantastic attitude. He instantly jumped on the program full force and with both feet, and I am monitoring him daily. We are only a week into it but it has been a very promising start.

mike thought he would start an online diary for him to write about what he was going through and to share with me. I read the first article he posted and found that mike is a very talented communicator. I encouraged him to open up the blog to the public. I have linked it in my blogroll. It is called Held Accountable and is at https://spankinlyfe.blogspot.com.

He posts articles about his situation, our interactions, and his progress. I made mike post nude pictures of himself weighing in, and we see the progress on the scale. I encouraged mike to fantasize on the blog as well. If his wife was like me, how would he want to be treated by her? He came up with a lovely fantasy where she found out about me and then took him in hand herself.

 Taken in Hand

I unfortunately also had to punish mike as well. Not for his diet and weight loss which has been exemplary, but for the numerous typos in his fantasy post that I had to point out as I wanted that article especially clean prior to this post. You can now read about his punishment as well.

First Punishment

Please visit mike's blog and say a word of encouragement. It is now up to all of us to hold mike accountable!

28 comments:

  1. Mistress Julie, I think it's really nice of you to assist Mike with his weight loss. I could work on the same and I sincerely wish him the best. Not only do you have a strict, authoritative, disciplinary side, but a caring side, as well. We love you not just for your fantasy provoking stories, but also for this other aspect of your nature (which I've gathered from other postings). This is another reason why you have such an army of loyal blog boys. lars

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    1. Follow along with mike and do what he does!

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  2. Cool story. Ever considered becoming a financial dominatrix for all your esubbies who are also moneyslaves? That would be soooooo great!!

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  3. Two thoughts about your new subby.

    1. From a purely health perspective, he should lose no more than two pounds per week. Slow and steady weight loss helps ensure the weight stays off. Weight that is lost quickly will come back on just as quickly - and then some! The best part for you, Miss Julie, is that you get to enjoy the time it takes for him to lose the weight.

    2. Speaking of errors, and, oh, subby, is this a big one! How dare he type the word I instead of i in his posts? Although he is new to this lifestyle, this is still pretty much a subby 101 mistake. I am sure you will agree, Miss Julie, that he must be taught a stern lesson to reinforce in his subby mind so that mistake is never made again!

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    1. 1. Totally agreed. Attempting to cut calories to lose too fast will spiral him into a starvation mode which lowers metabolism by shutting down vital systems that keep him healthy and energetic.

      2. I am not big on the 'i' punctuation, although i do pay attention to name caps. I will refer to myself as Julie or julie depending!

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  4. Thank you Ma'am, for the kind words and strict eye! I am unbelievably excited to start this journey, and even a week has shown me its something I know will change who I am completely. IT's and honor to receive your help, and now that of some of your readers. I hope that I can live up to everyone's expectations, but you (and they) have my word that I will do my best!

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    1. Excellent. Every long journey starts by taking one small step, and continues that way!

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    2. Julie - mike's comment above contains several typos. Time for some IcyHot?

      -T.

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    3. As a blogger myself, I am tolerant of a few typos. The one I punished him for had 15 really obvious ones indicating he had not proofread at all. But I'm not that happy with his most recent post in that regard either... I feel he kind of represents me?

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    4. Yes, he DOES represent you, Julie. I just skimmed "A New Reality" and noted several typos, and this grammar problem "I lied down over the pillows..."

      Admittedly, MS Word didn't think "I lied down" was wrong, yet my English teachers in high school and college would have circled that in red ink and deducted some points from the grade.

      Obviously,it's your call - if you're going to be strict about his weight, and you've already punished him for sloppy writing, it's natural you'd be strict about his writing, too.

      -T.

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    5. I'm thinking that there will be plenty of reason to be strict with michael in due course, as I turn the screws on his food choices and his exercise habits. Don;t want to "blow my wad" early.

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  5. Get that slob slimmed down Jules

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    1. I don't like the language, but the intent is to reduce his fat for sure to keep him healthy and living a long life. For me it's not about the looks. Someone as massive as Mike is a bit sexy to me. He could DEMOLISH my pussy!

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  6. The first sentence of the first paragraph of this post is nothing short of bizarre, the word proper just sits there taunting the reader in it's own special irony plunging the reader into the upside down, :-)

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    1. I think that's a writing compliment? Or maybe the opposite? Whichever way, thank you!

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    2. Well,it's neither actually, but you're an optimist! What I meant was that the sentence is illustrative of the conundrums that are coexisting for a short while in this phase your exploration. Sooner or later they will resurface as questions or full on dilemmas. Illustrative in that they show that what is sexy for you is not what is necessarily prurient for someone else in fact the reverse. For example the question of your outfit for Sunday arose and several of us thought that you would choose LG attire to get into character so to speak and to keep it non -sexy due to the presence of a parent. Your reply was , oh no I will dress normally so as not to sexualize it. So your father will see you in grown up underwear which could be sexy for an adult, but if you wore a younger style underwear which an adult wouldn't find sexy it would be sexy according to you.
      The subject of a" proper" grown up spanking from a parent with another parents blessing is surreal on it's face and I mean that clinically by way of example not pejoratively.
      The remaining conundrums seem overshadowed by the question of sex and sexuality as regards the players and the context. You are having prurient experiences with your nuclear family and these are also woven into your fantasy life which in turn is being fueled by Trauma and unresolved childhood events. When it all overlaps together on your keyboard sometimes a piece of the picture is all there to see. rereading your answers to the comments is sometimes as interesting as the posts themselves.

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    3. Well, I won't be wearing sexy panties at all. They will be fuller cut cotton style, but I wear those a lot.

      By "proper" all I mean is "hard". i.e., not a joke spanking, but a proper spanking in the English sense.

      I freely admit all of this is woven into my fatnasy life, for sure, and it's complex. I am hoping that for my Dad he sees it as something I need emotionally (which is true), and is a bit of fun (also true). The "sexy" part will be left unsaid and un-acted upon, by mutual implicit (never ever discussed) consent!

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  7. I long for something like this especially after the other day didn’t go very well

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    1. Oh, I'm so sorry. Tell Mama all about it.

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    2. Yes ma’am. Long email sent

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  8. Seems like you’re going to whip him into shape, literally! Do you control his orgasms or restrict his masturbation for breaking his diet? Seems like that would work!

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  9. My wife has supervised any masturbation I am allowed for several years and it has made our marriage so much better. I am not locked but, may only touch myself with when she commands it. She has me stroke at her knees every morning and every night before bed time. Only occasionally am I allowed to cum, the stroking makes me horny and focused on any tasks she gives me all day long. I believe it would work for a dieting situation, only allowing touching for meeting a goal or supervising a ruined orgasm as a reward.

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  10. Lock that cock! Overweight boys shouldn’t be allowed to touch their penises until they get into shape. And probably spank him hard every day on the bare ass until he does!

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  11. Big boy losing that weight or what? Better get your paddle Julie!

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