Wednesday, May 12

Consent Ring Gets Nod in Ontario

by Mary Barklay
May 10, 2021

Yesterday in passing bill C-97, the Ontario government gave the nod of approval to the previously legally precarious movement know as "Consent Ring".

The movement was founded over a decade ago, but its growth has dramatically accelerated over the past two years. Explains one of its founders, Christy-Anne Somers, "Consent Ring is a practice amongst consenting adults who wish to be held accountable for their behaviour by a significant other. The Ring Bearer wears a signet ring with their primary Ring Giver's initial engraved on it on their right middle finger. The ring indicates that they are in a consensual domestic discipline arrangement with their Ring Giver."

"Domestic discipline" is a controversial practice where adults consent to undergo corporal punishment, including spankings, when their disciplinarian decides it is called for. Critics say it is a thin veneer to allow participants to play out their sexual fantasies in the open. Adherents do not reject the appeal to fetishistic sexuality, but say that its most important elements are accountability and guilt expiation.

"Before I did Consent Ring, I was a real wild child," says Richmond Hill native, Catherine Mulligan. "Drinking, missing work, generally just screwing up my life. I asked my boyfriend to be my Ring Giver, and ever since, boy have I cleaned up my act! There's nothing like your boyfriend's belt to your bare backside to motivate you. I think it was something that was missing from my childhood."

It is not only women who "Bear the Ring". Jake and Cathy, a married couple from Brampton, each Bear the Ring on their right hands. "We hold each other accountable," says Cathy. "Of course, he mostly only uses his hand on my butt, but when it's my turn, I get out the wooden paddle, and let me tell you, he howls just as much as I ever do."

In some situations, the lines between consent and coercion blurr. Bill Filmore of Etobicoke says, "I was lazy and unmotivated, but my gal said either I put on the Ring or she's dumping me. So I put on the ring. Sure I get a lot of ribbing from the guys, but hey, I'm the one holding down the full-time job with a wonderful and sexy woman in my bed every night."

Elise McCullock of Toronto was coerced in a different manner, but seems happy enough about it now. "He said if I don't put the Ring on my right finger he's not putting the ring on my left finger. Now I've got two rings and I haven't regretted it in the least, despite the occasional sore backside." By way of explanation Elise adds, "I'm a terrible over-spender. What can I say? I love shopping. And I pay with more than just his credit cards."

While these examples of coercion seem mild enough, the lines are even more blurred where younger adults and parents are concerned.

Dianne Fitzroy of Scarborough is an eighteen-year-old woman living at home and attending first year University where she hopes to do well enough to get into a Registered Nursing program. "The law says I'm age of majority and my parents aren't responsible for me anymore, but if I want to become a nurse I'm pretty much dependent on them to help me for housing, food, tuition, incidentals, and even spending-money. So I have no alternative but to live with my parents and accept their help. In exchange, they told me I had to wear the Ring."

Dianne's parents, Cynthia and Bob, make no bones about it. "Dianne has a choice," her Mom Cynthia says, "she can either get out there and make her own way, or we can help her out. But if we're helping her out, then it better be nose to the grindstone on her schoolwork, and her father and I make sure of it."

Dianne laughs and says, "Mom has all my logins to school and social media. She keeps a pretty tight lid on all the things. She knows more about when my homework is due and my tests are scheduled than I do."

"We're not asking overmuch," Dianne's father, Bob says. "We expect her to apply herself and work a solid 9-5 day, half-hour for lunch and two fifteen minute breaks, 5 days a week, on her schoolwork, not to go out on a school night, and be in at a reasonable time on the weekends."

Her Mom adds, "And if she doesn't, she knows she can expect a good spanking from her father or me."

"It's so embarrassing," Dianne says. "All my friends see the Ring and know I get spanked at home by my Mom and Dad. But I guess it does get me a little extra interest from the boys," the petite freshman says, perking up at the last.

In some cases, parents even get involved with their fully adult children. 39-year-old Julie Delmar and husband David are a married couple where Julie has decided to Bear the Ring. The couple was interviewed in their Toronto home, Julie dressed in a schoolgirl outfit. "After I've been naughty" Julie says, "David makes me wear this schoolgirl getup for a set period of time. Everybody who knows me knows I got spanked, it's embarrassing." Julie says her primary disciplinarian is her husband, however she has also authorized her father and her mother to discipline her. She says her father has taken the strap and a paddle to her backside, and her mother has put her across the knee and used the wooden spoon on her.

"The embarrassment is a really effective part of the punishment," says daughter and wife Julie. "My spankings are always skirt up, panties down, and sometimes they even make me strip completely." And the fact that her spankings are sometimes "family affairs" makes it that much worse, she adds.

"Julie craves this kind of discipline," her husband David says. "She's really a very disciplined person, successful career, kind, sensitive. But when she makes a mistake, as all of us do from time to time, it really messes with her head. She feels almost pathologically guilty about it. The discipline is a way for her to work that out of her system. That kind of loving discipline is something she feels she missed out on as a teen from her family, so she's making up for lost time now."

When asked for a recent example of a mistake and the disciplinary consequences, the couple pointed to an incident less than a week ago where Julie was distracted by her device while driving and caused a minor accident. "Nobody was hurt, fortunately," says husband David, "but someone easily could have been."

"I got a long hard spanking across his knee for that one," says Julie, "It was just with his hand, but it was on my bare bottom and it went on and on. Then he made me strip, bent me over the arm of that sofa there, and leathered my behind twenty times with his belt. I was sore all next day. After that, I had to stand there naked with my nose pressed into the corner and my spanked butt sticking out for a full 30 minutes. That was the worst part."

"Not quite the worst part," her husband David reminds her.

"Oh yeah..." Julie says. Whenever Julie is given a spanking, she must relay that information to her parents, usually at Sunday dinner, to determine if any additional follow-up discipline is warranted. On this occasion her older sister Sue and her younger brother Brian and his wife Chloe were also in attendance. "The rule is, I have to tell them what I did and how I was punished before dinner, no matter who is there to hear it. This time was particularly bad because while Sue certainly knows,  Brian and Chloe were new to this, and they were already wondering about my outfit. It was so embarrassing dressed in my schoolgirl outfit saying how I was punished while my little brother and his even younger wife were there."

"What was even more unfortunate," says David, "Was that Julie's Dad lost his brother to a drunk driver, and he considers a distracted driver to be pretty much the equivalent. So he was hopping mad when he heard. He told her to strip down to her bra and panties and stand in the corner of the dining room all through dinner."

"Only I wasn't wearing a bra," adds Julie. "I need to wear a specific bra under my schoolgirl blouse, but couldn't find it so didn't bother wearing one. I didn't know Daddy would make me take off my blouse, he never does that. I tried telling him, but that seemed to make him even madder. So my bare breasts and pantied ass were pretty much hanging right out there all through family dinner. At least my tits were mostly pointed at the corner, though I saw my little brother sneaking peaks at my ass and side-boob as he ate."

"You can't blame him," her husband adds with a chuckle, "she has a pretty spectacular ass and side-boob if I do say so myself. It was pretty funny that she had no bra. I was thinking of giving her a spanking for that, but in the end I thought the embarrassment of having to go bare breasted like that in front of her little brother for the first time was sufficient punishment. Natural consequences it's called."

"After dinner," Julie explains, "Daddy got out his big old fashioned razor strop and really leathered my backside. I had to pull down my own panties to my knees and bend over the back of Daddy's couch. During my strapping, I kicked so much that my panties flew clear across the room."

"She put on quite the show," husband David confirms. "Her daddy really sizzled her backside with that strap. I don't think he was too happy that she forgot her bra and the whole family had to see her boobs frantically whipping around during her strapping. She was already crying like a baby before her Dad was a quarter done with her. I'd never heard her wail like that before. Afterwards she had to face everyone, hands on her head, heaving titties and squirming little vag on show, and apologize for her driving and not wearing her bra. Then back into the living room corner to cry it out until we left. And boy her butt was crimson red after her Dad's strap. He really made an example of her in front of everybody. There was no way she could bear putting her panties back on, and she had to lie face down in the back seat on the way home and even sleep on her tummy without covers that night. Thank God she has a stand-up desk at work, because sitting next day was out of the question. You can still see the colouring today. Do you want a photo for your article?"

Julie blushes but complies with her husband's wishes, raising her schoolgirl skirt, lowering her daring red panties, and bending over to "show us the damage" inflicted by her father, still clearly visible even several days later.

Clearly, "Bearing the Ring" is not for everyone, but for Julie the benefits are worth the tears.

The new Ontario laws spell out in detail what is considered "reasonable" and "unreasonable" in the disciplining of Ring Bearers, thereby laying out the boundaries of what practitioners call "consensual non-consent". Most controversially, the law makes certain activities formerly subject to public indecency provisions allowed.

Bruce Jenkins of Missisauga took the Ring almost two years ago. Driving on the highway, Bruce flew into road rage when a fellow motorist cut him off. According to wife Marissa, Bruce became incensed, cursed, and began driving dangerously with her and their two daughters in the car. Marissa berated Bruce and made him pull over at the first opportunity which happened to be the parking lot of a popular highway eatery. She took him out of the car, bent him over the hood, took down his pants and underpants, and walloped his behind with a large paddle she carried in the trunk of their car until the grown man was crying like an infant. "It needed to be done," says wife Marissa, who does not bear the ring herself. According to Marissa there were well over a dozen witnesses to Bruce Jenkins' bare bottom paddling, something that prior to this new law being passed would have been problematic.

"He couldn't stay down for his strokes," Marissa says. "After every third stroke or so he jumped up and grabbed his butt cheeks in both hands. Well of course his paddling attracted attention and you can just imagine the show he put on for his audience, his little wiener bouncing in the air like that. Didn't do him a bit of good. The rule is that if he stands up after a stroke it gets repeated and one extra added. Poor Brucey was dancing his jig for near a half hour in front of all those folks before I got done with him.  Before this new law passed, it would have been indecent exposure. Afterwards, it was just a damned good lesson for him. Everyone seemed to enjoy watching him catch it, once I explained what he had done with us in the car. Low tolerance for road ragers, I guess."

Amongst Bruce's audience was his and Marissa's two teenage daughters, Adriana and Belle, who were travelling with them in the back seat. "Daddy sure caught it that time," says daughter Adriana Jenkins. "Mom blistered his butt," adds sister Belle. "It's good for the girls to see that," opines mother Marissa. "They need to know how it's done. When they're legal age, I plan on having Bruce add them as auxiliary Ring Givers so they can get a little practice in before ringing their own men."

"We can't wait!" says sisters Adriana and Belle both. "My birthday is in a week," says daughter Adriana. "This is the first he's hearing of it, but I'm having a bunch of girlfriends over for a birthday party and it's going to be Daddy who gets 18 paddle whacks and one to grow on this year. And I plan for him being buck naked in the corner for the whole party, and then across my knee for his paddy whacks. Sort of a great coming of age milestone, you know?" Father Bruce sputters and blushes at the news, but all it takes is a stern look from wife Marissa to settle him down. "And I guess I don't have anything to say about it?" Bruce asks petulantly. "No sweetheart," says wife Marissa simply as the girls laugh at their father's obvious embarrassment and discomfort. "And you better not get hard in front of my girlfriends, daddy," adds daughter Adriana, "or I'll make you rub one out in front of them and then give you the strap until you can't sit down for a week."

Father Bruce, who appears to have a bit of a temper, uses some choice language towards his daughter when she said that, and this reporter was able to witness firsthand husband Bruce fully stripped, his mouth washed out with soap at the downstairs guest bathroom sink, and then made to bend over clutching his ankles for one of his wife's famous "butt blisterings" with her big wooden paddle. The entire time husband Bruce was required to hold the bar of soap in his mouth, crying out and drooling big soapy suds on the floor in front of him as his daughters and this reporter watched a stern application of Consent Ring discipline in action. Between every stroke he was made to attempt an apology towards his eldest daughter, but the words could barely be made out between the tears, the soap gag, and the sudsy mouth. When the bar of soap was finally removed after his paddling, it had deep teeth marks and was practically cut in two. He was not allowed to rinse his mouth until after he had fetched the mop and bucket and cleaned up the floor in front of him, still completely nude, to his wife's and daughters' satisfaction.

"Disrespect for women is something we simply do not tolerate in this household," wife Marissa says. "Now go upstairs to our bedroom and prepare yourself for a long hard pegging," Marissa tells her husband. "You better be cleaned out, ass up, and lubed up, by the time I get up there," she shouts after her scurrying husband. "Sometimes the only way he learns is with a ten inch long, two inch thick cock fucking his backside fast and hard for ten or twenty minutes. It's the best thing I've found for teaching him a measure of respect for women, essentially making him into one for a time." The daughters giggle and report how their Dad moans and squeals during these "respect for women" sessions with their Mother.

When asked for comment regarding the new law, Consent Ring founder Somers says, "It's good that the guidelines have been made clear, and that they've fallen pretty much in line with our recommendations. The public indecency exemptions are particularly useful so that discipline can be administered on the spot."

Irene Majors of Hamilton and her husband Mark Majors are only too aware of the new law. "She lost her temper at the airport gate arguing with the attendant. It wasn't the attendant' fault, and the poor girl was practically in tears from Irene's outburst. I saw the attendant had a Consent Ring like my wife, and that made up my mind. I made her apologize to the attendant and then by God I took my bratty wife right across my knee right there in the waiting area."

"He took my pants right off and pulled my panties down for my spanking," says Irene, blushing profusely. "There were at least fifty people waiting for that flight, I've never been so embarrassed in my entire life. Plus he wouldn't give me my pants back afterward. I had to board the plane and spend the entire flight in my panties."

"Mind you," adds Mark with a wink, "the attendant did upgrade us to first class."

"Embarrassment is a very important addition to a punishment," says Adele Williams of Brampton, Ring Giver to husband Sam. "I insist he be bare-ass naked for all his spankings, I don't care if we're alone, have company, out visiting, or even in public. If he misbehaves, he knows what to expect."

"Having to strip before a spanking in public is the worst," says Ring Bearer husband Sam, "especially because of my... reactions..."

"He gets hard just before a spanking. Very hard," explains wife Adele. "It quivers and practically points straight up, and the tip becomes engorged and purpled, especially when attractive young women are present. I bend him over and use my little purse paddle on him. Usually his erection subsides a few minutes into his spanking. I remember once, though, at the mall, he needed a spanking and there happened to be a group of teenage girls there. Well they laughed and pointed at his flaming erection, and that didn't help his situation at all, and then they laughed even louder when he started leaking pre-cum. Some of those girls were a bit mischievous and flashed poor helpless Sam. After that he lost it completely and actually ejaculated during his paddling in front of them. Apparently from no more than a button or two and the smallest glimpse of a teen's lacy bra. Even I was embarrassed by that! I made him get on his hands and knees, lick it all up, and hold it in his mouth. The girls loved seeing that, but I don't think Sam enjoyed the rest of his spanking having to hold a mouthful of cum after his orgasm. After his spanking I made him get on his knees and open his mouth to show the girls he had retained it. I asked the girls to vote if he would be allowed to spit into a tissue, or swallow it all down. It was unanimous. He swallowed it all down like a naughty little slut as the girls laughed their heads off and teased him mercilessly."

As Sam's case illustrates, sometimes sexual arousal goes hand in hand with Consent Ring. While more obvious in men, women are not exempt from sexual arousal.

"Amanda gets very heated up during her spankings," says Fred Fellows of Brockton, Amanda's husband. "Her vagina visibly moistens and her labia and clitoris engorges. If I make her straddle my knee, she behaves like a kitten on a scratching post and orgasms, every time."

"I can't help it," wife Amanda adds, blushing deeply. "It's still a punishment, for sure, what with his hard hand, and being like that during my spankings is super embarrassing in front of witnesses."

"She sometimes gets spankings in front of our families, and yeah, she gets pretty embarrassed, especially in front of her brothers. If she's been very naughty I'll strip her bare and spank her with her legs spread, or on her back with her legs in the air so everyone can see her vagina reacting like that. Afterwards, during cornertime, I'll sometimes stick a ginger root up her bum. Her bare little ass sure wiggles and wriggles while that ginger root burns her bumhole, but her vagina just gets wetter and wetter."

"It's so embarrassing," Amanda says, "Mom has taken to making me stand on a puppy pad in the corner when the ginger is in."

"And a good thing too," Fred adds, "because that puppy pad gets soaked by the time I let her Mom pull the ginger root out and clean her up in the kitchen. Remember that time you begged your Mom to wash out your bumhole with the dish soap after a gingering, and then you orgasmed while your Mom was doing it?"

"Yeah, and Mom did not appreciate it," Amanda answered. "She took me across her knee and spanked me with her wooden spoon until I was in tears."

Practitioners of Consent Ring take sexual arousal in stride. According to founder Somers, "yes, absolutely many Ring Bearers and Ring Givers experience sexual arousal during discipline. We treat the person holistically and accept it for what it is. Some do, some don't."

For Ring Giver Irene Matthews, sexual arousal is an integral part of disciplining her husband Tim of five years. "I get very aroused when I have to punish him. Afterwards I always make him go down there, if you know what I mean," she says, referring to oral sex.

Ring Bearer Chrissy Johnson has her own perspective. "Part of our agreement is that after a punishment I need to make myself totally sexually available to my boyfriend, no matter what he wants. Even bum sex," she adds conspiratorially. "I mean, it's only fair. I asked him to do this, and of course he gets sexually excited when spanking my bare ass with my pussy waving around in his face. So I always make a point of it, even if sometimes it is a little rough!"

Serious discipline for psychological benefit, fetishistic play, or both? You be the judge.

(Comments are open.)


92 comments:

  1. Julie Delper in a schoolgirl outfit when spanked, That was not revealed in your last posts....

    A well written believable piece that could take easily fool the gullible!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. What do you mean "fool"? I clipped it from yesterday's newspaper.

      Delete
    2. Why didn't you put in a link if the article is from a genuine respected news outlet?????????

      BTW Google has nothing despite a few search different criteria in use. Time to confess or show links etc.

      Delete
    3. Indeed, the article was there yesterday but it was withdrawn today ... For what reason?

      Delete
    4. No, I just checked, click the link, it's still there. Maybe country restrictions?
      https://www.theglobeandmail.com/life/article-consent-ring-gets-nod-in-ontario/

      Delete
    5. Loved it,but when did Dad get the razor strap? You certainly earned it before now.

      Delete
  2. This was a very enjoyable read!
    Not sure why, but I always like reading these sort of accounts that are presented as factual or research.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Well, it's accurate as far as I know. Mary interviewed me for her article and got my bits pretty accurate. No "fake news" here.

      Delete
  3. Many men, like me, want to get a good spanking but then go back to being a MAN. Once we go over the knee in front of friends, family or neighbors, that changes forever. It is both humiliating and liberating. We are what we are and it is not a secret.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. You should see the men who wear that ring up here in Toronto blush like crazy when someone points it out.

      Delete
    2. My frst spanking in front of a neighbor couple was deeply humiliating. When I stood up redfaced and with my panties at my ankles, the first face a saw was my neighbor Peter. Thankfully, I was allowed to go up to my room after a few minutes. But the next morning we had them over for brunch. I had to listen as my wife explained that I was a spanked husband by choice, that the panties were her idea and that I would be all too happy to go next store and help with the housework. Since then, our little circle includes the neighbors, my mother-in-law (who is the primary spanker), my younger sister and her husband.

      Delete
    3. That's great! Are you spanked by the men as well, or just the women, and if yes, is there any difference?

      Delete
    4. No, no, no - only the women spank me. My mother-in-law is the disciplinarian in the family. She is the strong parent that I never had and I spend a lot of time with her. I had to be spanked quite a lot at first but I have learned my place. My wife ususualluy only spanks as foreplay. If she is really unhappy with me, she tells mom. Peter and Ellen are around quite a lot. He loves to watch and Ellen certainly takes advantage of help around the house. My sister apparently is pleased with my new status (I apprently dissed her when we were young) but her husband is uncomfortable with the whole thing. BTW, witnessed spankings and spankings other than roleplay, all started during the lockdown. My wife has not decided how public this will become as we gradually reopen. Tommy

      Delete
    5. Well I think you would benefit from a strong male hand as well. Will humble you even more and then your wife can have a bit of fun with him while you're in the corner.

      Delete
    6. My wife Erica is not interested in men so that part won't happen. She and Peter have regularly talked about swapping spouses but I think (hope) that it is just teasing. Ellen is dead against it as is Mom. I need them to take care of me. Ellen would have some say in this but I would not. Erica has named her strapon Peter and brags about how I take care of Peter.

      Delete
    7. Sounds like she is gearing up to punish you with a real male if you are not toeing the line, not just her strap-on. You had best behave unless you want to feel a man's belt to your backside and then have to pleasure him after.

      Delete
    8. It is not really the spanking I am afraid of. it is the intimacy of being over a man's knee with my panties down. And I know I can take him in my mouth. But what will he think of me after he has finished in my mouth. My only hope is that Ellen will say no and that her no will carry weight.

      Delete
    9. First of all, you SHOULD be afraid of a serious belting from a real man. I've experienced both. You have no idea.

      I think it's unlikely that he will let you off as easy as that. You will START with your mouth, and when you get him properly hard he WILL make you bend over and receive anal intercourse. What will he think of you after he has spermed into your bumhole is the right question. And what will you think of yourself as you stand with your nose in the corner, your penis and testicles pulled bck between your legs, and feel his sperm dribbling out and down onto your balls and penis? You will feel HUMBLED, you will feel FEMINIZED, and you will feel PUNISHED, and why would Ellen object to any of that?

      Delete
    10. You are so darn sexy, Julie Delmar! David won the billion dollar Powerball in wives. BTW, please forgive me if I speak out of line, but I prefer Dominant Julie to sub julie. Love you!

      Delete
    11. Dominating Julie is a giant part of me, so that's good!

      Delete
  4. What in the actual....is this post?

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Clipped it from the national newspaper yesterday. The reporter interviewed David and I. Cool, eh?

      Delete
    2. This isn’t an Ontario Law.

      Delete
  5. Pas besoin d'anneau ça n'existe pas en France, mes deux filles adultes (très consentantes) sont fessées régulièrement, bien sur déculottée ou nues devant la famille, ou autre, dans toutes les positions exposantes, elles adorent cette honte, surtout lorsque leurs neveux et nièces jeunes assistent à leur fessées, ce, qui les rends comme de petites filles....
    la douleur et le plaisir mélangées, se voient avec leurs vulves ouvertes pleine de mouille, pourtant ce n'est pas d’aujourd’hui qu'elles sont fessées, mais elles ont toujours ce plaisir comme si c’était leur première fois..
    oui ces fessées sont toujours pleines de surprises, pour elles, comme pour moi, puisque il y a quelque années pour mon anniversaire ma fille aînée m'a fessée...
    Si vous le voulez je vous raconterai comment cela s'est passé...

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I hope they pass the same laws in France we have down here or you might get into trouble spanking your daughters in public. I think if you visited Ontario, and they have the ring, it would be fine outdoors. I understand tourism is picking up strongly as a result, even just to see it in action, much less try it out.

      Delete
    2. C'est vrai que nous pouvons pas faire les fessées extérieur comme dans votre pays , néanmoins, nous pratiquons dans des endroits isolés, mais de nombreuses fois surpris par des gens qui n'ont jamais criés au scandale, je crois même après la surprise, ils sont tout contents d'avoir pu voir la fessée ...
      Aussi, il y a des endroits de rencontre à l’extérieur répertorié sur le net, et connus pour des RDV de couples, qui aiment s'exhiber, et bien sur, nous, nous faisons alors la fessée devant eux....
      Il est vrai que pour aller pour une fessée dans votre pays cela ferait bien de la route, mais je crois que nous serions heureux de pourvoir le faire sans contrainte juridique...

      Mes filles seraient toute heureuses de mettre cet anneau et pourquoi pas moi ...

      Delete
  6. I have to applaud Ms Barklay's intrepid reporting - I think this is the first time we've heard your brother's name! You had better be extra careful now that it's legal for your husband to spank you naked in public, and to orgasm no less!

    The insight into Cynthia and Dianne (Ms Barklay seems to confuse them at one point!) reminded me of the show Workin' Moms. It concerns the trials, tribulations, and sexual misadventures of a successful, often inappropriate Torontonian in her late thirties and her friends... Not sure if that's the sort of thing your fans would enjoy, especially the full nudity! Anyways, one of the moms has a teenage daughter that gets out of hand, so she puts her in "activity jail," basically filling her schedule so she's too busy for mischief, and humiliates her on her Instagram whenever she steps out of line.

    I've also read about ginger root extract making women extremely horny when applied directly to the genitals; I wonder if Mr Fellows or his mother-in-law have been careless when figging her?

    Enjoy your time in the spotlight! I hope your red burning bottom gets syndicated!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yeah, neat that the reporter interviewed us. I wasn't so sure about the photo, but David insisted. He says so many people have already seen my bare butt, what's a few million more? Got some wolf-whistles at work yesterday from some colleagues when one of them used that pic of me as his Zoom background for a video conference I was on. So embarrassing!

      I let Mary know about that typo and she corrected it online, and I reflected that here, put it was too late for the print edition. Hope her editor bears the ring!

      I was thinking the same about the ginger. Odd that she moistens so much that she drips given the pain she must be under. Her husband seems to think embarrassment is good for her, so I wouldn't put it past him.

      That Workin' Moms show sounds great! Cant believe I missed it. Are there clips on YouTube?

      Delete
    2. They just finished the fifth season, the first four seasons are on Netflix outside of Canada, I don't know whether CBC has their own streaming service or whatever. It can be cheesy, and I'm probably not the target demographic, but I like it a lot. It's the sort of snow where most of the characters are just fun to hang out with. The main character Kate is what the kids would call a "girl boss" but also a "hot mess!" Her friendship with Ann is the heart of the show. I've seem criticism that it doesn't really depict how hard life is for real working moms, as the characters are all basically wealthy, but the show doesn't claim to do that, the kids all attend a top kindergarten that's a fast track to the best school, even the title hints not to take it too seriously!

      Good to know that employers can bear the ring of their subordinates! I bet Mr Stevens wishes he was still at the top of your office food chain!

      I think David was rude not to offer Ms Barkley a demonstration, or to let her take a few swats to your bare bum! True gonzo journalism!

      Delete
    3. Cool cool cool! Might I also recommend my favourite Canadian reality show, Pingu? A great depiction of everyday life in Canada once you've left the city.

      Delete
    4. I'll put it on the list!

      Delete
    5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qbQXBaV4RA4

      Delete
    6. There's no... talking...

      Delete
    7. I thought they were talking Canadian? Noot noot!

      Delete
  7. I guess you always have plausible deniability, since you post this as fact. This helps he understand your defenses of Trump. I guess you are a true performance artist.

    ReplyDelete
  8. This is coming out of the closet, and wonder if males would accept that. Females I would think would have no problem. It reminds the first time after a spanking that we went out to eat, I could not help squirming, my wife said part of the punishment, the looks from other women, and the waitress knew that I was spanked made it worse. To wear a ring, well times are changing. I showed this to my wife, she has no problem with this. She would like to know how many women are in charge, and how many men will admit to this. I told her, I will do as she wants, she said you better, or else. So just wanted to chime in. Jack

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I understand it's about half and half.

      Delete
  9. Julie,
    I like the idea for my husband. He already wears a metal chastity cage, panties, nylons and has a shiny shaved head to remind him of his place. The shaved head was a surprise to him. The ring idea is precious. Oh he’s never been happier in his life, and the same applies to me-the boss. He may have to wear that ring too!

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes! With the ring you'll be able to strip him and spank him freely anywhere in Ontario.

      Delete
  10. "As human beings, we work desperately to protect our egos and will re-write actual events in our minds to come out on top".
    In the previous post, the rewriting of a reality that allows you to save your ego was mentioned, even if it means cheating a little (it's not me, it's him)
    In this one, I got caught.
    We do want the story to be true and we are ready to believe what can be believed.
    After all, Canadians, seen from here, can come across as quite rough people.
    The word "spanking" might ring a bell...
    Then gradually, the doubt creeps in.
    The arrival of the Delmar couple for example: how to continue to believe in it? Well, by convincing himself that it is not impossible that the interview took place despite everything, under this false name.
    On the other hand, if the story differs from a story previously read (the meal with the parents) this new version (Julie undressed) indicates that this article is fiction.
    Curiously, a new fact (Julie has a little brother, Brian, and not a little sister) may lead one to think that this element is true, without necessarily leading to authenticating the story.
    When fiction is no longer in doubt, it remains for the imagination to do its work (Ah a whole society taken by perversion!)

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. No no. The article is 100% true as far as I know!

      Delete
    2. The scene with the wife ear marched in panties to her plane after a public spanking in the waiting area and imagining you lying on your stomach in the car back seat on the way home plead for authenticity of the article but why did you invent this little brother leering at your side-boob ?

      Delete
    3. That wasn't an invention. That actually happened. I lied on my earlier blog post to hide my brother's involvement. Honest.

      Delete
  11. Surely there was a companion ad for the Consent Ring, also known as the "One Ring to Rule Them All" somewhere on the same page with a call to action where folks could place their order. I ask because this news story reads like an advertorial. All positive, no downsides. Perhaps you could include that in your next post for those who don't have access to Canada's national newspapers. Was that paper called "The Mop and Pail" by any chance? I used to enjoy a former columnist of that paper, Richard Needham, who would bang on about bosses who spanked their secretaries with rulers, and such like. That was likely before your time, young lady. - Frank

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Well you know "news" nowadays, all opinion.

      Delete
    2. Well most "news", even here in the West, is propaganda, but with local stories like the one you reprinted here, journalists are allowed some latitude to be original and interesting -- we all need a bit of fun now and then to leaven the "wonderbread" of corporate news. - Frank

      Delete
  12. WC here

    Fantastic writing!

    ReplyDelete
  13. You have a sick and depraved mind. But, it was funny.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Hey, I just told my story to the reporter.

      Delete
  14. Julie, what about for those who are currently single and/or do not have parental supervision who need some more focused discipline in their lives? I would have to imagine there would be private firms out there willing to organise caregiver/disciplinarian relationships in which a Consent Ring would be exchanged, no?

    -Kasey

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Absolutely. I can imagine a burgeoning business there!

      Delete
  15. Your investigative journalist alter ego might like to pull on the thread in this story to learn more about a 28 year old Florida woman who pretended to be a student in high school, ostensibly to promote her instagram account. Gee, I wonder what happened to her when her husband found out... https://boingboing.net/2021/05/12/miami-woman-28-trespassed-at-high-school-and-pretended-to-be-student-all-for-the-gram.html?utm_source=rss&utm_medium=rss&utm_campaign=miami-woman-28-trespassed-at-high-school-and-pretended-to-be-student-all-for-the-gram - Frank

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. A good spanking for her! Posted on the gram...

      Delete
    2. Schools in the American south are infamous among spankos for still using the paddle on students. While they don't usually use on other people, maybe they could make an exception in the case of wannabe students like her. Then they could send a note home for her to get signed by her husband. That'd give her something to post on the gram. - Frank

      Delete
  16. I believe this article to be totally factual- except for the claim that showing your reddened ass was David's idea.
    vic

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Oh darned, ok, you caught me. We fooled the reporter. I begged David to "make me" do that when we heard she was interviewing us.

      Delete
  17. It was the condition for her to move in with us when her husband died in a traffic accident : my stepmother has to wear a ring with my female boss's initial.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. So your stepmom is living with you and your wife, but her disciplinarian is your boss? Did I get that right? Do you tattle on her to get her spanked (I would!). Do you get to watch her spankings?

      Delete
    2. No, it's my mother-in-law.
      She was self-important and could be arrogant.
      It was my boss who came up with the idea of this little agreement for the ring. Her husband has been wearing one for several years.
      My boss is a proponent of traditional spanking, panties down.
      She offered me to hire my mother-in-law for some extras and special evenings (we are working in the catering business)
      She is very demanding when it comes to the quality of service. My mother-in-law's butt experienced it.
      We frequently invite her and her husband to come and eat at the house. My mother-in-law does the service. The slightest fault is punished. Severely. Tights and panties down. She likes some tears. For dessert, she sometimes tells her to unlock her husband, suck him and swallow the load, before putting his cage back.

      Delete
    3. You could use this type of "confessions" for your book (ask your readers)

      Delete
  18. Maybe if you find a new kinky personal trainer, david can get a consent ring from you and them

    Emily

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Yes indeed. Then she can take him to the park to put him through his paces.

      Delete
  19. A definite fun idea. I would agree to wearing the ring, just to be able to find likeminded spankos. Thus, one could clandestinely arrange to be at a coffee shop at a certain time, and then the woman could decide if she wanted to chat with the man wearing the ring. Although a fantasy, would you wear something indicating that you area a spanked person? Loved the photo of your spanked bottom.
    bottoms up
    Red

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. I definitely would. Imagine all the amazing conversations you would get into.

      I think the signet ring with a blank face means they are looking for a mate willing to take them in hand. Either that or it may mean "open season" on their ass?

      Sometimes I see women walking around with a necklace that has a key on it. Just jewelry, but I always wonder! I asked a female colleague in HR once and she said her husband gave it to her - it was the key to his heart. I wonder if it was the key to anything else of his but did not dare ask (it was an HR person, after all!)

      Delete
    2. The idea of a blank on the ring is even more charming. You might wear two, one with the D (or actually David's real initial, and a blank one, and I would do the same (2 rings). Would be fun to meet for coffee, and see who ended up bare bottom over who's knees.
      Seeing a key would signify to me more than just the key to a person's heart, but even expressing that knowledge would out you as someone beyond the normal, publicly.
      bottoms up
      Red

      Delete
    3. It would be a close thing, I am sure, like an egg balanced on its end, which way will it fall? Probably your natural maleness and my natural femaleness would tip the balance and I'd be the one bare bum over your knee first...

      Delete
    4. I almost was shocked that you would acquiesce to the male dominance over a female, until I saw the word FIRST.... Actually, you are doubling down on ladies first, because at some point in your spanking I would be expected to ease off and stop, so that my spanking would be no worse. However, that would not apply during my spanking, as fear of retribution would be long since passed. A very nice fantasy, that maybe one day could be reality. I have never been spanked to tears, and actually, as dumb as this sounds, desire it
      bottoms up
      Red

      Delete
    5. You are onto me re. the order of events!

      Being spanked to tears is a process, and it is only peripherally connected to the severity of the spanking itself. It's the emotional catharsis and age regression that brings the tears for me. It's when I am actually feeling bad/guilty about something, or when the roleplay is sufficiently realistic that I can convince myself of it in my mind. I need my spanker to either naturally be (ideal) or act completely in character and scold as he/she spanks. In my case I need a father or mother figure spanking me, as that allows me to regress where tears become possible. I need to start out stoic and resentful but then as the spanking goes on to begin gradually exaggerating movement and vocalisations, including especially apologies and promises to be a good girl. At some point I will refer to my spanker as Daddy or Mommy. When those things are in place, and the spanking is hard enough and disciplinary in nature, I will cry, ending with a lot of "please! I'm sorry!" vocalisations which will amplify the effect, working myself up into a sort of frenzy, like people can work themselves up into a panic attack sort of thing. Then the tears will be big beautiful, wet sobs of anguish that I find, after a bit of corner time to bring me down, to be extremely cathartic.

      Delete
    6. Oh, and I should add that I find my husband to be a very persuasive Daddy figure when he turns it on. His genuine disapproval is every bit as bad as a parent's is to a child, for me, and I am glad to be spanked to tears to expiate it. I will refer to my husband as Daddy deeper into my spankings, and he understands that I am acknowledging him as my Daddy figure and accepts me as his little girl in the moment.

      Delete
    7. And, fuck, I am a freak!

      Delete
    8. This comment has been removed by the author.

      Delete
  20. The consent ring could be an alternative to expulsion for miscreantsat college. Rather than being expelled it could become a form of probation. Parents, paying the tuition could give students the choice to stay in school and wear the ring. Ring wearers would have to accept punishment if there grades fall or they get in trouble.

    ReplyDelete
    Replies
    1. Absolutely. Similar to Dianne Fitzroy of Scarborough but less proactive!

      Delete
    2. Perfect for a Catholic girl's college. Perhaps an errant boy could be enrolled there as well

      Delete
    3. Yes, but he would have to "wear the skirt".

      Delete
    4. O yeah, and a skirt means shved legs and panties. After twoyears partying away at college, he is back living at home and back as a freshman. He hopes that he does not run into his old friends when they come home for the holidays. They all know what the ring means.

      Delete
    5. Of course! And he mustn't imagine that there is not a rule that all the girls are required to wear a bra to hide their nipples.

      Delete
    6. There are choices though. Should he take regular gym with the other girls or should he be allowed to take swim class? Should he take a rigorous college course or should he enroll in a secretarial program?

      Delete
    7. He can take swim class, he just needs to wear the same swimsuit as the girls, and tuck in and tape back any unsightly bulges.

      Delete
    8. Please, please, please, consider some variant of this for your book. The twent year old boy did not just fail as a student, he committed a crime. His parents negotiated a plea deal for him. five years probation rather than two years in jail. He has to enroll as a freshmen at St. Dom's an all girls school. If he cannot succeed as a student in their four year program, he can transfer to their two year secretarial program. So it is either four years in school an one in the workplace or two years in school and three years as a secretary.

      Please. I know your imagination is more creative than mine but I would lve some variant of this.

      Delete
    9. I'm sure I can find someone like that to interview ;-)

      Delete