Tuesday, November 15

Spanking Witnessed!

We did it! Hubby david got spanked in front of another woman today and utterly humiliated in the process. It was amazingly intense but worked out perfectly for all concerned! I am still giddy from the experience, and ran up to write about it at my first opportunity and try to remember every single last detail while it is still so fresh in my mind.

As you'll recall, today was david's first real training session with our personal trainer, Rebecca. To briefly recap previous blog entries ("Diet and Exericse" and "The Trainer"), last week Rebecca came by the house and we went over fitness goals and agreed david would maintain a food and exercise diary to present to her. I "joked" that Rebecca would grade him and that I would spank him if he got a poor grade. Later I told Rebecca our little "arrangement" and she agreed to play along so we could have a little extra fun with the training sessions and keep david motivated.

So I got home towards the end of david's session dressed in my business suit. I went downstairs and saw Rebecca putting david through his paces. He had worked up quite a sweat, and complained that his legs were very tired from all the squats Rebecca had him doing (I like a nice tight butt on my man, and had asked Rebecca to focus there. Ha Ha!). Now david is a bit of an athlete, and Rebecca told me she was impressed with his coordination and work effort. He's quite good looking, and is just starting to put on a few extra pounds. Nothing that looks so bad, mind you, but I know the health risks of belly fat for men and wanted to make sure he stays on top of things. I want him around for a good long time, that you very much!

I knew that david had not been eating well all week, and there was absolutely no evidence I could see that he even tried to keep a food diary, but I didn’t mention anything at all to him all week. I then naively asked Rebecca what grade she had given him for his food diary? Rebecca answered that he had not in fact produced one. That was definitely my man cruisin' for a butt bruisin' from me, but he would get quite a bit more than he expected!

I acted very cross with him and started scolding him in front of Rebecca. I asked him, right to his face in front of Rebecca "what did I say would happen if you got a poor grade on your food diary?" david stumbled, and muttered, and blushed but then said, "but I didn't get a grade this week". Wrong thing to say! So I asked Rebecca, "what did I say I would do to him?". Rebecca very cheerfully answered "you said you'd give him a spanking..."

Still "angry" I went on to say that this was even worse than a bad grade! He had not even tried. I pointed out that it was very disrespectful to Rebecca. How I pay her to come help him, and he can’t even keep the one simple commitment he had made that would allow her to do her job. I asked Rebecca if that wasn't so, and she nodded and said "yup".

I asked if they were almost finished, and Rebecca said they were done except she wanted to stretch him. I told her that I would get changed into my gym clothes, as I wanted to do a bit of cardio tonight, and that I would deal with david when I got back down. Then I went up and changed. Later on I learned that the stretching was done in complete and utter embarassed silence on his part, and it turned out to be a very humbling experience for him, but more on that later.

When I came back down I had my hairbrush and a folding chair. When I entered the gym, david's face was priceless to behold. He had these big puppy dog, deer caught in the headlight, kind of eyes. Rebecca just giggled when she saw what I was carrying. "Looks like you're in for it" she said to him, or something along those lines. david's mouth kept moving, but nothing coherent actually came out, the poor dear.

I said that david had disrespected me, and had disrespected Rebecca. Had he done his food diary and just received a bad grade, I told him, I would have spanked him privately and Rebecca would never have known. Since he had chosen to disrespect Rebecca as well as me, he would be spanked in front of her. I quickly asked Rebecca if that was ok (which I knew it was from having cleared it all with her earlier), and she said "I don’t mind. Go for it!" still with a big grin on her face. I stayed "Angry Julie" this whole time.

Rebecca perched up on the weight machine bench. I unfolded the chair opposite her, about ten feet or so away, sat down, pointed to the floor at my right and told david to get over here. I got a few pathetic little "please honey's" out of him, and his face was very red, but I could also see a bulging erection in his gym shorts. As he approached me, he was hunching over to try to hide it, but looking at Rebecca I could see she spotted it, or at least his hunching over, and was smiling.

He started to go over my lap, but I said oh no, get that butt bare. "Please Honey!" he screeched, "Not in front of Rebecca!" Judging by his surprise, I honestly think the poor dear actually thought I would spank him with his pants up in honor of Rebecca's presence. Surprise after surprise for my bad little boy!

I asked him if I ever let him keep his pants up for a spanking? I wanted Rebecca to know that I always bare his bottom for punishment. I had her ok to spank him in front of her, but not specifically with his pants down. I wanted her to know this was business as usual. He looked embarrassed by my reference to routine bare butt spankings from me, and a tad trapped by my question, not knowing how to answer. In fact, I had spanked him over his panties once or twice, but I thought he might not want to mention that just then!

He said nothing, just looked embarrassed and shuffled his feet a bit, so I added that he should bare his butt or so help me I'll strip him buck naked in front of Rebecca and then take the belt to him. Looking horribly embarrassed he eased his shorts and undies down his legs, studiously turning away from Rebecca. When they were down I pulled him by the arm, and he very awkwardly went over my lap. I say awkwardly, because he resisted my pull, trying to keep his back to Rebecca and slide over my lap without exposing himself to her. How precious, I thought.

Obviously he did not want to show his front to Rebecca, but just for a moment I wanted nothing more than to humble him by making him completely expose himself totally against his will. Something like a full-on pants down apology, hands at his sides, directly facing Rebecca. What can I say? I was in the moment, and the sheer power of humiliating him utterly got to me. Fortunately my better judgement got a grip and I thought I'd better play it safe and not shame him so, or risk offending Rebecca with my man's penis. So I just took him over my knee and let him hide himself. At least his pretty butt and legs were nice and bare!

He buried his head in the carpet and would not look up at all as I started smacking his backside. I made eye contact with Rebecca, for the first time with a big smile on my face, and she smiled back and giggled some more. I also saw a little gleam in her eyes as I spanked his bottom. As I spanked, I scolded david and told him what we expected to see for next week. He was very docile, and spontaneously said "Yes Ma'am" to me. How sweet! He had never said that before to me!

Rebecca then said, "spank him on the backs of his legs too". I asked, "why?"  "'cause he hasn’t gotten spanked there yet" was her only answer. Maybe that's her particular kink, who knows?  Aiming to please, I moved the hairbrush to the backs of his legs, smacked there, and got some serious reaction including girlish leg kicking. What was interesting about this was that I got glimpses at his little hole as he was kicking his legs, at least from where I was sitting. I don't know if Rebecca could from her vantage point, but I hope so. I'll tell david so, anyways.

It's also possible that she caught a glimpse of what he was trying so hard to hide earlier flopping across my lap as he got his legs reddened. I can swear he bucked up and twisted a couple of times when I gave him some particular zingers across the tender inside of his near thigh. Can't be sure, but she did have an enigmatic grin going on. And I did bruise him a bit in there. Hey, not my fault if he can't control himself!

As for the brusing, I didn't spank him very long, but the whole thing was so intense that I guess I spanked him harder than I thought, because in addition to a cherry red bum and legs there was definitely bruising where butt meets thigh, down his legs a bit, and on the inside of his near leg. I don’t think he noticed it at all, at least not just then, he was so embarrassed being spanked in front of a hot twenty-something fitness trainer!

I reached down and grabbed his hair and pulled his head up and told him to look at Rebecca. He did, and she smirked and smiled, and her eyes gleamed predatorily. I told him to apologize to Rebecca for not doing his food and exercise diary. He just said "sorry", but I made him repeat it as a whole sentence while smacking his butt and legs some more. I then told him to apologize for disrespecting Rebecca. Finally I told him to apologize to Rebecca for having to watch him be spanked. He said those as full sentences also at my insistence. So intense!

Out of politeness, and the fact that Rebecca had received everything so far so well, I asked her if she would like to spank him also? She smiled and said "I think I'll leave the spanking to you." I was a bit relieved, frankly. She is very hot, and I was feeling a few pangs of jealousy even as I asked, but this reaction was great. I liked that she was volunteering to be "hands off" with my man.  I felt even better about the whole thing after that.

After I was done with david, I told him to get up and pull his pants up. Again david did this very awkwardly, kind of sliding off my lap with his back to Rebecca so as not to expose himself. When he was off my lap, kneeling away from Rebecca, he stood carefully and pulled his pants and undies up very quickly. Not before I spotted his raging hard on, though. After his pants were up, they were positively tented with his excitement.

I pushed him towards the corner and put his nose in it, hiding his big hard on from Rebecca, and told him he could stay there and think about what he had done. So humiliating!
[I saw that recently in the "Time Out" post on the "Ma'am Yes Ma'am" blog and knew I wanted to do that to him in front of Rebecca. In the corner, like a naughty child. Precious.]
Then, while I had not planned this, I thought why not given where we've already been, and pulled his shorts and undies back down to the floor. As I yanked them down, they got caught on his erect penis, so I had to yank a second time and they came free, but not without a little squeak and david doubling over.

I stood back with Rebecca and asked her what she thought of the job I did punishing him? She said it looks like he won't be sitting down so well, and maybe next week she'll get a food diary, please? I told him he could stay in the corner with his pants down until I told him otherwise. So strict. I remember right when I said this that Rebecca let out a timely little laugh at his predicament. Must have been so humbling him hearing that, standing there with his well-spanked bare bum on display. And especially knowing that Rebecca would be back week after week to see him. Not just some stranger he sees just once, like at the panty store.

Leaving david bare butt in the corner, I took Rebecca upstairs with me to pay her and see her out. I told david to say goodbye to Rebecca. He said goodbye to her from the corner. So cute! She gave him a cheery and sincere "see you next week!" as we went upstairs together.

When we got upstairs, Rebecca and I broke out laughing! She said how that was fun. I thanked her profusely for making david's first exercise session so "interesting", and she said "No problem at all. David's a peach. Glad to help. And I think he found it very interesting!", referring to his hard-on. I know that because I asked her what it was like after I scolded him, when I was upstairs getting changed? She said he was too embarrassed to even say a word as she was stretching him, but that might be because she could already see the front of his pants starting to stretch!. I can only imagine, this cute girl stretching david, and him no doubt wondering if he would get a spanking in front of her, and him with his kink starting to get excited and having no way to contain it as she stretched him out. Priceless! I was so relieved it all went off without a hitch with Rebecca, and that she was such an amazing sport.

After Rebecca left I went downstairs to david, wondering how he would react. He came out of the corner, pants at his ankles, with a huge grin on his face and hobbled over and gave me a big kiss and a thank you, and said how that was the most incredible experience in his life! I showed him a big smile, I couldn't pretend to be angry anymore after all that, and told him he was a real sport too, and that it was also fun for me. He said "I'm so horny!" I told him I needed to exercise. What I didn't tell him was that for some reason I didn't want sex just then. I felt I had already climaxed mentally, and anything more would be a let down. But I told him he could go upstairs and masturbate if he wanted to. With a stupid grin on his face, he went upstairs and I imagine he did just that. I got on the elliptical and had an amazing workout, burning off all that energy!

Oh My Goodness. How intense was that?

42 comments:

  1. Hello Miss Julie,

    More to say later but I must tell you right now that you are quite the Lady! I will be following your blog closely.

    I am a happily married guy to a woman who has spanked me when needed for years for bad behavior. I initiated it, and it took quite an effort to make her understand why it was necessary and how to do it effectively. You seem to have taken to the job quite well on your own.

    I guarantee you that if you continue to be like you are toward david, you will have everything you ever wanted and more!

    If you ever want some more insight into how to get inside his head, I would be happy to discuss it with you, as I am very well tuned into his mindset.

    Best regards!
    Ed

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  2. Very very hot!! I cannot imagine this happening without my prior knowledge/consent (Then again I can IMAGINE it!) This is the best description yet of my very favorite fantasy.

    Please continue to keep us updated.

    Ken

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  3. Fantastic post, I'm sure david enjoyed every minute of it, I know I would have.

    I really liked the way you tell a story, I could almost feel every smack with that hairbrush. I also bet Rebecca liked all of it as well.

    My Wife also spanks the back of my legs, from the sit spot down to my knees, and that has me moving all over her lap.

    The only difference I see, is my Wife's girlfriends always take her up on administering part of my spankings from them.

    Again GREAT STORY

    james

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  4. Hi Julie
    This is wonderful material and you have a delightful balance between having fun with it and delivering real effective discipline to your guy. My wife has spanked me in front of one special witness several times, her sister who lives close by and is enthusiastic about seeing me get it and would spank her own husband if he would submit to her. There is no false modesty and I am always stripped and waiting in the corner when her sister arrives. If I have an erection which is usual I am sent to the bathroom to get rid of it and then return. The embarrassment of getting it that way never goes away. Yet it is also the time you know for sure your wife is in charge and if she says I will be spanked, I always am. I love my wife for doing it and for being firm but at the time I’m just a mess until it’s over. My first witnessed spanking was actually from an earlier girlfriend who hauled me into the next room and spanked me hard and long while her girlfriend was listening in the kitchen. Her girlfriend didn’t actually see it but I still remember today more than 15 years ago the embarrassment I felt having to go back into the kitchen and apologize to her after she had heard it.
    Good luck with what looks like a superb blog
    Alan

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  5. Julie,
    Great blog. Did your husband start his food diary? Lower case david nice touch. :) This was a large step for you.

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  6. Wow! I'm overwhelmed by all the kind comments from you guys!

    Ed: I would love to pick your brain, because while I think I know what david wants, I must confess I do not at all understand it! Each time I escalate his humiliation, he gets happier about it. And I know that in the moment, he is genuinely feeling all the emotions that most of us would positively hate, for some reason afterwards he says he loved it, and then wants even more. Please feel free to email (strictjulie at gmail) if you have any insights at all to share with me on how his little brain functions!

    Ken: Yes, I found the fact that he did not know what was coming, how far I actually would take it with Rebecca, was very exciting. It took the whole thing out of role playing and into "real life" for both of us. I felt pretty secure about Rebecca, having talked with her about it, and I felt pretty secure that david would cooperate and get off on it, but still, that element of he did not know how far I had arranged to take it was amazing. And also, I didn't even know myself how far I would take it - I went beyond where I thought I would go on the spur of the moment, based on Rebecca's ongoing positive reaction.

    James: I think with Rebecca, because I am paying her to be david's trainer (and I pay her to be my own), that she might feel a little profesisonal restraint when it comes to a more "hands-on" role. I would love to find a person who would actually spank him (but I could trust not to fuck him!) - that may be
    my sister - I am still deciding on that one - it's a huge step!

    Alan: I love that you get spanked in front of your wife's sister!!! She really strips you bare naked?? OMG! I threatened david with that in front of Rebecca, but held back. It's one thing baring his cute little tushy. It gets personal when it's his front side!

    Suffolk89: I sure hope he did! If he doesn't have it next week, I'm planning on NOT spanking him at all. That will get him moving. If he's a good boy, and does his diary, and gets a grade, I'll figure out some inventive way of punishing him for what I am sure will be a lacklustre diet. Somebody emailed me and suggested "figging". Someone else, a bra for him. I will think of something!

    I started the lower case david thing a few blog entries back after i saw that on another blog. It suits me, somehow. Big-D David is a strong man. He can be that at work. At home he's my little-d david!

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  7. lovely blog , the first i've actually read .. i saw the link on my bottom smarts . im in a flr and keep a blog from the male perspective. www.slipperlover2011.blogspot.com . your husbands a lucky man indeed .I will be following your blog with interest .
    respectfully
    david

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  8. Julie, thanks so much for sharing an amazing, fantasy come true, experience with us all. It was indeed intensely arousing but even a bit scary to imagine myself in your husband's predicament.

    You description was vivid, enthralling actually. It is among the best spanking accounts I have ever heard of.

    Sincerely,

    Jeffotk

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  9. Julie,

    It would be most interesting to hear how david felt about this experience. Could you assign him the task to write in detail about his feelings as he went through this episode?

    And the idea of being spanked in front of a sister-in-law is really exciting and humiliating! Could that be in the offing for david? How about a girl friend you both see socially? Even talking about spanking him with a girl friend (with him present) presents delicious possibilities.

    Keep up the good work,

    Ken

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  10. Hi Julie, My Girlfriend Kate of the past 10 years or so has thrashed my bare bottom on numerous occasions with one of her canes. I am always made to undress completely. I stand naked in front of her as she lectures me, flexing her cane lovingly. It is not unusual for me to have an erection at this time. I used to be really embarrased, she would shrug it off thinking boys will be boys. It never saved me from being caned, and would usually have gone down, by the time she had finished thrashing me.
    About eight years ago, her friend Soph was round, they were having a glass of wine in the kitchen. It became obvious to me, that Soph knew of my punishments, and when Kate then produced her cane, it then became obvious to me that I was going to be punished. Soph inspected the cane (Kate soaks the bottom of the cane in about nine inches of water) and asked why she wets it. Kate smiled as she wiped it "Because it hurts more, and leaves lovely weals on your bottom doesn't it?" I was so embarrased, yet I could feel the start of an erection coming on, why does this happen? who knows.
    Kate told me to go into the lounge and undress and wait for her. I could here them laughing, she finally came in and ordered me to bend naked over the settee and present my bottom nicely. She warned me I was getting 18 of the best and if I failed to stay in posistion she would start again and thrash me in front of Soph. Well she had every intention of making me move, whipping my bottom and the tops of my thighs,twice I put my hands back to protect myself. "You must want another thrashing or you would not have moved would you? Get in the kitchen and pour us some more wine." I pleaded with her to let me dress first "I can't go in there bare" "Oh she's going to see you bare alright, she's going to see me THRASH your BARE BOTTOM and if you don't behave she's going to cane you too" She tossed me a T shirt "Here shy boy put this on" it was one of hers!! leaving me totaly naked and exposed from my tummy button down.
    I poured their wine did the washing up all the time knowing one: I was going to be beaten again and two: Soph was going to see me naked. They continued talking about me as if I was not there, both rubbed the welts on my exposed bottom, THEN it happened, my willy took on a life of it's own, in no time I developed a massive erection, I could not help it, Kate was furious and I mean really angry. "Give me that shirt now look at you boy, you are really going to get it now, get in there and bend over, come on Soph I'll show you what happens to bad boys round here..... Kate gave me another 18 or so before handing the cane to Soph, who had never used one before, all I can say she was a quick learner. So Julie being naked and punished in public is terribly humiliating and embarrasing, getting an erection especially a really hard one is just the end of the world. BUT I could not help it. Soph and others have witnessed my punishments many times over the years, but never quite like that first time. Right I have gone on far too long, bye John xx

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  11. Julie,

    Hi new to your blog as a recommendation from Ken and wow this is just an amazing story and so well told! Great spanking he got and she watched, bet her panties were nice and wet.

    What I loved the most was your honesty about her spanking him and the thought of your being jealous, that is just so hot and says so much about your relationship, awesome.

    Thanks for sharing

    Ron

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  12. david: love your blog! I hope you feel a little extra humiliation knowing your spankings are witnessed by strangers like me. I certainly did laugh when I see you catch it good and hard from your pretty partner!

    jejj: I am very flattered! Thank you for the kind review. I think you need to be in my husband's predicament, since it scares you so! ha ha!

    ken: interesting idea! He does not know about my blog, but I should make him write it out as a punishment essay and then post it here without him knowing! I am working up my nerve with my sister. I am plotting how to just let on a tiny bit and see her reaction, then take it from there.

    john: thank you for the account of your own public punishments. Those turn me on a lot! Please feel free to post nice long comments.. I definitely enjoy reading them and I am sure others do as well!

    ron: I think Rebecca's panties must have been a little damp, the way she was watching so intently!

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  13. Omg!! I can't imagine what that would be like to be david!... Love his awkwardness over the situation, while Rebecca had a good time!
    David standing in the corner while you walked her out, laughing, really is a great visual... thanks!

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  14. It was an amazing visual! His bum and legs were VERY red and just a little bruised. I got really carried away! Oopsy.

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  15. You should have had her inspect his bottom. She could have said "you missed a spot here" and you could have given her the brush and said "well finish him off for me". I'm sure being put over her knee, in front of you, would have taken it to an even higher level. Maybe next time?!
    Excellent blog.

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  16. Andy, I am still hopeful I can get Rebecca spanking him while I watch. That would be fun and different!

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  17. What a great blog! I'm a big fan of F/M spanking stories and that one was really hot. And I think that getting Rebecca to spank him while you watch is a worthy goal indeed!

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  18. Thank you, Otto. Very kind of you! I will work on her.

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  19. What a great story.. You are very lucky that the trainer was agreeable....Personally, even though you had a mental orgasm, a physical one afterwards would have been even more sensational, as you could have relived in your mind the event while making love, and I believe that would have pushed you to one of the best ever orgasm categories....
    Happy Spankings
    red

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  20. I love your blog, my wife has threatened many times to spank me in front of witnesses. She spanked me once at her sister's house but it was in a semi private room. My sister in law seemed embarrassed by having heard it and I thought it would be left there, after the thanksgiving holiday my mother in law was over and mentioned that my sister in law had heard me getting spanked. I was so embarrassed by her comment I didn't know what to say. My mother in law then said she was sorry she missed being there but that she was sure I would be getting more spankings and that she would spank me if I was a "bad boy" I said nothing.

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  21. Red: I was lucky! Didn't feel like cumming just then. Not sure why? Normally I don't pass up a chance!

    Anony: That's a hot happening! How humiliating for you. I bet you are counting the days until she takes you over her knee!

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  22. Ms.Julie, I can relate to your account of telling your sister. I am newly married my wife and I dated for 2 years before getting married. She has been spanking me for over a year. A few weeks ago she asked me to order a razor strap which I did. Last weekend we had her sister over for dinner and without any prior notice she asked me if I wanted her to get the strap when I told her I wasn't going with them shopping, her sister said nothing, but she persisted asking me if I wanted a spanking with her sister there! I tried to change the subject by saying I would go but it didn't work. We had never discussed telling anyone the she spanks me, my wife left the room and returned carrying the strap, I was so unprepared I said no lets go ! My wife told me that she was just showing her sister that she wasn't kidding and then she told her sister about our arrangement. My sister in law is 10 years younger than me and thinks of me I thought as the older guy. As my wife explained her ritual and how effective the spankings are I saw my sister in law smile. My wife then said well now Dianne knows and if I step out of line I could expect to be punished with her as a witness. I don't want that to happen as I think it's way to humiliating.

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    1. After several months of conversation about my wife's decision to spank me with others present if she feels it's warranted this weekend things escalated. My sister in law was over and my wife told her I had been continually misbehaving and had had a temper tantrum. Dianne said sounds like some one wants a spanking. I said I really don't like this conversation and my wife said I had been asking for a paddling for weeks and that Dianne knew all about our arrangement . My wife told me to go get ready for bed. I went to our room and put on my pjs apprehensively. I still thought I could talk my way out of getting paddled while Dianne watched. About a half hour later they came in together and I was terribly humiliated. My wife went for the paddle and told Dianne to have a seat. I knew the routine but hated a witness. My wife scolded me as I stood at her side with her seated on the bed. Then she lowered my pjs and stood up and yanked on my ear. Now you are going to be sorry. She delivered several dozen ferocious whacks. She let me up and told me to apologize to Dianne I did and then she pulled me back down and gave me more. They then left as she ordered me into the corner. I was embarrassing but exciting and I know Dianne loved itx

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  23. Anon: Poor you! I think that because it's in the family it's no big deal. A sister is a very convenient extra pair of hands and eyes to have around. A strapping in front of Dianne would surely teach you your place in no uncertain terms! But I bet for all you dread it, there is a part of you that craves the humiliation of being humbled like that in front of your wife's kid sister.

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  24. L's first wife (who died prematurely) was a close friend of mine, and had often mentioned how she kept him in line. I assume she also told some of her other friends... In any case, on two memorable occasions, I was invited to witness her in action -wielding the hairbrush in the first case, and a short but sturdy leather strap in the second case (both times, needless to say, 'on the bare'!)- and I noticed how readily L. submitted to this humiliating treatment.
    Some two years later, when he and I started 'dating' after N. had died, I promptly sensed that L. missed the discipline to which he had been accustomed -and I soon decided to give him what he wanted!
    His reaction was unmistakeable -and over the past twelve years, he has been re-acquainted with (or introduced to) a range of correctional instruments that I gradually acquired!
    He has also been (sparingly) subjected -as he had been in the past- to the humiliation of being spanked or whipped under the eyes of a few of my friends -as well as of my sister!- and of being (this was a new twist for him!) whipped in the open air, with a freshly-cut switch as we went out for hikes in various outdoors locations!
    The net outcome is that I now have a thoroughly 'trained' husband who not only accepts the strict discipline to which he is subjected, but also the fact that he may be chastised in the presence of other women! Needless to say, he has also been trained to perform a large number of domestic chores to my satisfaction (under pains of enduring some vigorous whipping (with the martinet or with a maple switch) if he fails to meet my standards!
    And, while I don't know whether his first wife used to do it, I make a point of packing the martinet -and a sturdy hairbrush- when we travel, so that I can (if need be) give him a proper thrashing in whatever hotel or B&B we happen to be staying,,,

    J(2)

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    1. I guess I am fortunate that N. had showed you how she dealt with my (frequent) misbehavior, so that, when we began dating, you immediately (or instinctively?) knew how I needed to be 'handled'!

      You, my darling, have proved to be as stern as disciplinarian as N. ever was -possibly, even more so!- and I thank you for it!

      L.

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    2. What a wonderful and heart-warming story! Thank you for sharing that.

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    3. 'Heart-warming' -and also 'bottom-warming'! L. knows that he needs to be disciplined -and that I spank or whip him because I love him (as was the case with N., his late wife, who made that point years ago when I first watched her applying the hairbrush to L's backside -and discovered how he thanked her on his knees, and kissed her hand afterwards).
      For all the discipline he gets (and probably because of it!), L. is as good a husband as any woman might wish, and I love him dearly -yet, all the while chastising him as often as needed (occasionally including -like his first wife- under the eyes of a few other women, as an additional reminder of my authority... which he never questions!)

      J(2)

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    4. We are kindred spirits, you and I.

      One of the reasons I LOVE involving other women is actually as you state, it is a very potent reminder to him of my authority over him, which we both love!

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  25. Absolutely! -even though I am probably old enough to be your mother :-)

    One thing that you and I seem to have discovered (based on one of your other postings) is that our 'authority' may involve having d. or L. being given 'corner time' (with bottom fully exposed) after a sound paddling or whipping when you know one of your friends is expected to visit!

    This requires some exquisite timing (as I learned from L's late wife), but it makes a powerful point -and creates a perfect prelude to a later 'direct' demonstration!

    Two of my friends have thus witnessed L. serving 'corner time' before watching him getting his butt paddled and/or whipped!

    J(2)

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    1. Not to mention your sister, of course!

      L.

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    2. Well, my sister certainly showed you how she could wield that rattan cane -as well as some serious switches when we went trekking in the nearby woods while we were staying with her in Burgundy - but you knew what to expect, didn't you?

      J(2)

      PS. Now that we are back home - and that the martinet and all my other 'tools' are again in full swing ;-) - I will determine whether (and when) to have my two closest friends... and possibly a third one!... watch you getting the (bare-assed) treatment you will undoubtedly deserve!

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    3. Oh goody! Male abuse! Love it!

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    4. Over the past eight months, L. has only been spanked five times under the eyes of one of my friends - and only one of them (Melanie) was invited to 'give me a hand'... One of them dropped by while he was serving 'corner time' after had been seriously paddled and flogged with the martinet.

      B.(my sister), of course, not only watched him getting his bottom blistered, but also shared the task of warming his derrière.

      What I am looking for, I guess, is some other of my (female) friends who might be attuned to the way I keep my hubby in line...

      J(2)

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  26. Lucky guy... I would love to have my woman take charge and dish out punishment when she feels it necessary. I'm too embarrassed to go to a pro domme, so reading blogs such as yours is my portal into the lifestyle. Thanks for posting, Julie!

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    1. Oh don't be silly. You sneak out and go get your butt paddled properly by a woman who knows what she's doing. Be sure to communicate what you want, and DON'T let your wife know! And this is NOT permission to go get laid by a prostitute, mister!

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  27. My wife gave me my first spanking, I was naked and it was on our wedding night in the hotel we were staying in. My wife showered first, then it was my turn, when I was showering she called the front desk and asked that more towels be brought to our room. She grabbed me by my handle coming out of the bathroom and guided me over to the bed. I was getting all kinds of excited when she sat down on the side of the bed and pulled me over her knees and started spanking me. A few minutes later there was a knock at the door, housekeeping. My brand new wife said : come in. In walked a women in her 50's or 60's and stopped in her tracks when she saw what was happening in front of her. Oh, sorry for disturbing you she said, don't be silly my wife said. I tried getting up but my wife held me down and asked me where I thought I was going? She then asked the woman if she could put the towels in the bathroom as my spanking continued. The woman passed within 10 feet of me and lingered coming back out of the bathroom as she witnessed my spanking. When she did leave my wife put me on my back on the bed and had me pay homage the her derriere with kisses and licking, then mounted me in a 69 position until we both lost control. markiee

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    1. How lovely! It only bears out my contention that there is hardly a woman in the world who is not happy to lend a hand to a wife or girlfriend who is in the process of humbling her man.

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    2. You may be right! L. has been spanked or whipped under the eyes of (and by!) my sister and of three of my friends - and I suspect that most of those women (in hotel rooms) who overheard the way I paddled or whipped him in that (relative!) privacy may have fancied dealing the same way with their own husbands or boyfriends!

      J(2)

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  28. I loved reading that and I long for a similar spanking myself, preferably with someone to spectate to add to my humiliation. Thanks for that.

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    1. Yes indeed. david tells me that the "female energy" goes up exponentially the more women present to see a man's spanking and humiliation.

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    2. In my own experience, I have found that I usually refrain from delivering my most severe spankings (or whippings) when one of my friends is present to witness 'the session' - but the thrill of doing it while they are watching is priceless!

      The exception to that rule is when my sister and I get down to business - and, together, 'compete' to see who will be the hardest disciplinarian!

      J(2)

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