A little update on david. Just yesterday david's new personal trainer, Rebecca, told him to eat better and keep a food diary. From what I can see, I don't think that's happening yet. My boy is cruisin' for a bruisin' when he presents me with his first F! I'm not saying anything. Let himself dig himself in a bit deeper. Ha Ha!
I just got done "making love" to him. I put that in quotes, because I started out by spanking him. No reason at all. Just to get me in the mood. Then I put him on the bed on his back, put a little pillow under his ass, and had him hold his legs up high. Then I lubed his asshole.
Then I kept him in that pose, legs high, spanked red ass showing, his little lubed-up bottom hole all ready for me, while I took my time putting on my strap-on.
Then I knelt up next to his ass, and stuck my dildo into his tight little hole. He moaned like a little slut as I pushed it in, and I told him so. I was gentle with him at first, but after I got all the way in and he wasn't complaining that much anymore, I started banging him HARD. Well, as hard as I could kneeling up like that. I could see david staring up at my bare tits as I fucked him like a girl. His expression was priceless as he submitted to his ass fucking.
This was the first time I fucked his ass since I started spanking him, and I love the difference it makes. Before I was trying to be "nice" to him, and "gentle". Now that I know he wants me to be more dominant with him, I'm having a lot more fun letting go and just giving it to him. I could tell the point at which he really wanted me to stop, but I went on banging him way past that point.
I'm a very bad girl!
Oh my God, this is intense.
ReplyDeleteI have never experienced the combination of spanking and strap-on, but whenever I've read about, my stomach does serious flip-flops.
I love that you prepared him first, and then made him lay there with his legs up in the air and his bottom hole shiny and ready for you while you srapped it on!
David must be thinking "What kind of creature have I unleashed?!?!"
Ms. Julie,
ReplyDeleteI thought you'd enjoy this article from the Elise Sutton website on this subject. Please let me know your thoughts on it.
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One of the biggest advancements in the female domination lifestyle has been the invention of the strap-on dildo. This activity has done more to liberate women than the whip or paddle ever did. Why? Because of the social and psychological implications of strap-on play. Now the woman is the one wielding the former symbol of male superiority. Now the woman is the one who is the giver while the male becomes the receiver.
Strap-on play is sex of the psyches. Why do women love it so? That is a great and an important question. The rubber phallus strapped around the waist of a woman is an inanimate object. Thus, unless the woman purchases the type of harness that can stimulate her at the same time, she is feeling no physical pleasure during strap-on play. Yet, many women love doing it because of the mental stimulation and the mental pleasure that it provides for them. There is an incredible power exchange that takes place during this activity and the mental stimulation usually exceeds any rush that physical pleasure can provide. It makes for great sexual foreplay for the woman.
Women find this activity liberating for the social statement that it makes. Strap-on play strips the man of his masculinity and macho ways and usually causes the man to surrender his strength and his will over to his female aggressor. A woman can sense her man giving up resistance and she senses him melting into submission. This is an incredible power rush to the woman. Also, the effects of this activity usually last for some time. The man who submits to this activity has a hard time being macho around his dominant wife. He is usually meek and submissive to her outside of the bedroom after this activity.
Strap-on play is a power exchange and it has nothing to do with homosexuality or women wanting to be men. Quite the contrary, this activity is about the empowering of women as they unleash another level of their previously dormant power. A man being taken by another man is all about sex as it is primarily an activity for the sexual stimulation on the man who is the giver. Strap-on play between a woman and a man is about psychological sex as it is the mental stimulation that causes both parties to issue a power exchange.
The submissive man is feeling a combination of sexual stimulation, discomfort, and humiliation during strap-on play. He now knows that what he use to place so much worth on (namely his penis) is no longer a tool to conquer women but now the tables have been turned and the female has stripped this symbol of masculinity from him and is now using it against him. The woman is telling the man that she is not impressed with the male penis and that she can buy one that is bigger to pleasure herself and she can even use it as a tool to enslave the male gender. Strap-on play is not so much about sex as it is about mental domination and a power exchange. What was once a symbol of man's conquest of the female is now being used by the female to prove to the male her superiority.
I agree with Ms. Sutton completely, with the one caveat that when I push in very deep I can feel the dildo push back on my pussy and it does feel nice.
ReplyDeleteI can attest that my man was extra submissive after that hard session with my strap-on. I would have thought he might have been at least a bit angry, because after the midway mark I think the discomfort and humiliation far surpassed any sexual stimulation.
Turns out not. He was very meek afterwards, and scampered off red-faced to the bathroom to clean his ass hole very nicely indeed. He did not even compain when I passed him the somewhat messy dildo to clean up as well. In fact, he blushed even more and hung his head when he saw that he had messed it.
It sounds as though you are embarking on a newness in your marriage that will definitely spark things up. Nothing turns me on more than to have a sub of my choosing with his ass in the air waiting to accept my big red strap on. Having a man stick their manhood inside me does not do it for this dominant woman. I am pleased that you have discovered this about yourself Julie. You sound like my kind of woman. I especially enjoyed the part where you say that you were fucking him longer than HE wanted. Good girl! That is the way to own him properly. The second point I would like to comment on is how he responded afterwards. Not complaining and cleaning himself up. Very good! I would suggest giving him a little "caning" first so that you may enjoy those beautiful little red stripes on his heated bottom while you are using your strap on.
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You sound like a woman with some experience, Mistress Kari! I have not tried the dreaded "cane" on his backside, though I have read about it on some of the other blogs. Some have pictures and oh my, the cane does seem to mark them up good. Not sure if my boy is quite ready for that yet!
ReplyDeleteJulie, Julie,
ReplyDeleteThere is no such thing as not ready for the cane my dear! Its all in technique. First you must warm him up (Which you seem to be doing very well at. Spanking first is a great start) Then you can start up-ing the sting with different implimens. Maybe a ping pong paddle, then a hair brush, then the cane. Feel free to use what ever else you find around the house in between. The point is you must work him up to the point that he can handle almost everything that you have to give him. Then when he is at work the next day he will be squirming in his chair. He will be thankful that he has such a strong, powerful and beautiful woman as you are for a wife. :)
Mistress Kari
Hi Margaret!
ReplyDeleteI never measured side by side. I will have to, and send him to the sex shop if by some chance he measures up. Or better yet, take him and tell the shopgirl exactly what we're after and why!
Mistress Julie May I respectfully suggest that most subs/slaves are required to have a regular enema to correct the problem of making a mess while using a strapon and dildos.
ReplyDeleteMistress often requires me to hold the enema in for quite some time until she feels like letting me release.
In addition to the comparison of cock size, Ms. Julie, I would use the fact that your cock stays hard while his loses its hardness after awhile. This is a humbling concept to the submissive man!!
ReplyDeleteJust found your blog and love it. I have been spanked by a woman and have also now been taken from behind so to speak. My GF has spanked me now numerous times and almost always makes me kneel an lick afterward. She recently spanked me and then kept me across her lap only to insert a small dildoe. She then told me to wait there on the bed butt up while she went to the bathroom. When she returned she was wearing men's boxers, a strap on underneath with a dildoe sticking out and a tanktop. She looked very in charge and was. She told me ass up and she proceeded to fuck me good.
ReplyDeleteIt is now pretty apparent that she is the one in charge of the relationship. She spanks me often. If i am disrespectful or if she thinks I need it or just cause she says she likes to.
I guess I got what I wished for
Panty: I've never had or given an enema. david is pretty clean back there, but not perfectly. Maybe I'll try one myself first, then see if I should mkae him have one?
ReplyDeleteDan: I love it. I will point that out to him next I fuck him.
Hi Anony: Welcome to my blog. I am glad you found me as it sounds like this is right up your (back) alley. Ha Ha! I like that she dresses in men's underwear for your fucking. I haven;t done any ass play with david across my lap, but you've given me a good idea, especially in front of my sister.
Funny how those red cheeks can turn us on ! Strap on are a great invention :D
ReplyDeleteMy wife keeps me in chastity, she enjoys hearing the lock and charms jingling against the cage as she uses the strap-on. She also likes to milk me with the strap-on, so she places a Barbie place mat under me. If I do leak, I have to lick it up off the pink mat afterwards.
ReplyDeletePoor baby! You take it.
Deletei would love it
ReplyDeleteAwww
DeleteSince I posted that, she has taken a lover and I've been cuckold. She met her at work and now her and my wife both enjoy me. My orgasms have become more rare and are usually ruined. I do love serving my mistresses, but I feel that if I'm a good sissy and do everything they want, I should be released from chastity occasionally for a full normal orgasm. At least they have gotten better at milking me so I get a release from that. Don't you reward David for good behavior?
ReplyDelete*Sigh*
ReplyDeleteHa ha!
DeleteMy wife and I both enjoy strap-on play but the best sessions are when she is more interested than me. It’s one thing to be fucked because you want it, it’s another to be fucked when she wants it especially when you are in chastity. But my wife used a strap Long before I was locked in chastity and some of the most intense orgasms I’ve had came with her using a strap on while she was manually stimulating my cock. Strap on is the most important part of a d/s or FLR situation.
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