Saturday, November 26

Strapped!

As I mentioned in previous posts, david's trainer, Rebecca, is grading him weekly on his food and exercise diary. The first week, he did not do one at all, and so he got hairbrush-spanked by me, and then sent pants-down into the corner in her presence (unbelievable but true! Check out my Spanking Witnessed! post to see how it all went down).

Last Monday he did a diary, but received an 'F' from Rebecca for his efforts. She requested that he get me to initial the grade. She later admitted to me in our training session that it was a spur of the moment decision that she thought would add an extra embarrassing touch for him. So I waited until today to initial his failing grade for him, after receiving discipline from me of course.

I was originally going to use a slipper on him, based on SLIPPERLOVER’s videos. But one of my pen-pals advised me that American boys are unlikely to be intimidated by a slipper. And besides, I looked and looked and could not find a decent slipper anywhere! A naughty pen-pal advised me a "strap" would be more feared by a boy brought up in the American culture. That seemed right to me, so I set out to acquire a good strap to punish david with.

Based on some Web research, I identified a store downtown that seemed to have a selection. Only trouble was that it is a 'Sex Shop' and I've never actually been in one before. Well, I screwed up my courage and went right in after work, and was I ever nervous. I was expecting creepy guys salivating at me, or something. Could not have been more wrong. About 10 seconds in I am greeted by a young perky lady asking if there is anything she can help me with? Again, screwing up some courage, I kind of blurt out "spanking implements?" As I said it, I had this vision of her face going all disgusted looking, calling me a pervert, and throwing me out with all the staff laughing at me.

What actually happened was she said "Sure!" (super perky) and took me right to a huge selection where she handed me off to another girl. This one was a tiny thing, with a bunch of body art and piercings, and was very serious about helping me. As we looked at implements, she gave me detailed commentary on how each one feels (she had been on the receiving end of all of them from her boyfriend, poor dear!). We picked out the perfect "strap". It's leather, about 18 inches long and 2 inches wide. It's doubled over so there are two thicknesses of quarter inch leather laminated together. Half way down, it's slit down the middle, and the two laminated parts are free. I tried smacking it down on my palm, and it was pretty fierce! It was quite expensive, as it is made from genuine leather, but I love my boy, and nothing but the best should touch his bum-skin. The salesgirl assured me that that one "really hurts," and her eyes glazed over a bit, so I figure it must be the right one. I asked her how to care for it, and that seemed like a new question for her, but she ventured just like anything else leather I might have. Good enough.

When I got home with my purchase, david was not yet home, so I went up to our bedroom to practice with it. I put a little butt-sized pillow on top of a bedroom pillow, and practiced smacking it. I understand from my blog-reading research that the end of the strap does the most damage (which makes sense, as it's whipping fastest) so I tried to get the end onto the "bum cheeks". I was feeling pretty silly, but after five minutes of practice I felt like a real pro. I play tennis, and used my pen-pal's advice of "following through" like for a tennis shot, and that seemed to make quite an impact.

I had been thinking through his punishment ever since I got the strap. I must confess, because I know I'm going to blog about it afterwards, it tends to make the thing a lot more theatrical! Also, the nice thing about being in control is that for the most part, whatever you dream up actually happens, because you are calling the shots. Everything went pretty much according to plan, I am very pleased to say. Here is what happened.

This morning, I got him up out of bed around 10 am. I told him to get showered and shaved. I wanted him pretty for his punishment. He knew what it was for. He had been waiting for the other shoe to drop all week. I got a nice meek "yes dear" out of him. I told him that I would lie out on the bed what I wanted him to wear. He was to dress in that, and nothing else, and come down to the kitchen as soon as he was ready.

I had laid out for him only a pair of his old, white underpants. They were "briefs", quite old, and had lost a lot of their elastic. They did not look at all sexy. I did not want him walking down all sexy. I wanted him humbled, and hoped this would do the trick. Make him feel like a little boy about to get spanked. In the kitchen I set out a high stool in front of the counter. On the counter I put the strap, a red rag, and a little bottle of leather conditioner. I wanted him to get to know my new strap intimately before he felt it on his bum.

He came down, looking quite sheepish in his baggy white undies. I "ear-marched" him over to the counter, showed him my new strap and told him he would be punished with it. Remarkably, he said exactly what the little shop girl had said: "that looks like it will really hurt." I told him that was the whole idea. I then ordered him to sit up at the counter and apply the leather conditioner 2 or 3 times to the strap end, keeping the handle end as it was (I did not want it slipping), and to call me over when he thought he was done.

After about ten minutes, he called me. I went over to inspect. He had done a very adequate job. The business end glistened nicely, and the handle was not at all slippery. "Please, not too hard, ok?" he asked. I gave him a withering look and said "please don’t get any F's on your food diary, ok?". Then I told him to go back upstairs to the bedroom, lie face down on the left side of the bed with a pillow under his hips, take his underpants down to his ankles, lay the strap across his backside, and wait for me. He scampered back upstairs, strap in hand, to do as he was told. I gave him exactly fifteen minutes to stew, and then crept upstairs and walked in on him.

He had been a good boy, and was positioned exactly as I had told him to be. I took the strap from off his butt, gave him a lecture about his food habits and the consequences of getting a poor grade from Rebecca, and then declared "Seventy-Five". I chose 75 strokes because SLIPPERLOVER's latest video THE PADDLE HURTS had his partner Kim give him 75 (I counted) hard paddle strokes, so I figured I would not be too far off with that number. david only groaned a bit when I sentenced him. Neither of us knew how bad 75 was. We were both going to find out!

I wound up and smacked down across his ass, following through hard, aiming the end of the strap to just past the middle of his far cheek. It made a sound like a gunshot, and my aim was perfect. I knew that because that strap positively seared him. I mean, like when you put a steak on a very hot grill, and almost right away the grill leaves those lines on the steak? Like that. That strap seared his ass with a perfectly rectangular red mark right across both cheeks, ending exactly where I aimed. david yelled out and clutched at his seat, and some assembly of words to the general effect of "Oww! No! Too hard! Please!"

This was the moment of truth. It was too hard. Way too hard for a role playing game. This was real punishment, I was sure of it and so was he. I told him that I didn’t think he was taking his diet and exercise seriously. If he was getting B's or C's, we'd be playing at spankings. With an F, after not doing it at all the previous week, he's getting a real punishment. Either he accepts it, or we can stop playing at spankings all together, I'll tell Rebecca we don’t need her anymore, and he and I can go back to the way we were (giant bluff! I need it as much as he does now). Take it like a good boy, I encouraged him. "ok" he said, and put his hands back in front of him, off his well-seared ass!

This new attitude, of moving towards actually punishing him for real, I developed after reading all the way through Recidavist's blog. That's the way his wife spanks him. So thank you, K. This is a step I need to be taking as well if david and I are going to continue down this path. I can still spank for play also, but now I have decided he is getting punished when he needs it as well.

I decided I better lighten up a bit, though. The next few I did not use as much arm and follow-through, but still got my point across, and still reddened his ass. I also started strapping the backs of his legs, and strapped all the way from his upper ass down to above his knees. I also starting increasing the intensity again.

I had done about twenty strokes, when I noticed he was cringing away from me. His ass was clenched tight, and he was pushing himself into the pillow. I didn't like that, so I told him to beg for the strap. He said aloud "please strap me" and I said not with your mouth. I want you silent. He started asking a question and I shushed him. We stood there in silence for a few moments, and then I saw what I wanted. His ass unclenched and he stuck it up. I waited another moment, and he stuck it up even higher, arching his back. "Good" I said, and smacked the strap down hard across his nicely presented butt.

Right after the stroke fell, he again clenched up and buried his midsection in the pillow. I waited patiently again, and was rewarded with another very submissive ass raising. I rewarded him with a hard stroke where ass meets thigh that really had him yelping, but a few seconds later, he raised up again. Every time he raised and arched, I got a great view of his puckered little butt hole, which I thought excellently added to his submission.

His far cheek was getting quite messed up by now. Where the end of the strap was hitting, it was definitely starting to purple-up. I thought I would smack his near cheek a bit, and aimed the tip for just on the inside of his nicely-presented ass crack. Wow did that one get a reaction. Lots of vocalizations and for the first time his hand back there clutching again. I guess he's pretty tender in there!

I also made special sure to mark up his legs. That wasn't hard, though, as his legs marked and bruised easier than his ass did. His next training session with Rebecca was only two days away, and I was hoping the strap marks on his legs would still be there for that occasion. I was going to be sure to order him to wear his shorter shorts. Rebecca needs to know the consequences of giving him an F, and having to exercise for her showing off his well-strapped legs will keep him humble and respectful of her, even though she is only in her early twenties. I wonder if she'll demand to see the condition of his ass? I wouldn't begrudge her the right.

I had been counting to myself the whole time and when I reached 70 I told him the last 5 were going to be the hardest yet. I went back to my full swing across both ass cheeks, and boy did he ever feel those! Didn’t get quite the same reaction as the first strap stroke did, but I did see him clutching the bed covers, knuckles white, and cute little tears in his eyes. His undies that were around his ankles were long gone by now as well. Kicked off sometime during the last 75 strappings.

After the 75 were done, he was a mess. I helped him to stand, and he stood up very slowly and gingerly. The backs of his legs especially seemed to give some trouble. Then, to my utter surprise, he got down on his knees in front of me, hugged me, and told me, all sniffly, how sorry he was. Wow! Hubbies say the darndest things! I stroked his head and told him I loved him, and that he should make sure I don’t have to do that to him again.

He said he would try a lot harder, but most of the week was already done, and he hasn't been doing what Rebecca asked him to, diet or exercise, but he would start right away. He asked if he could get a pass just this once, on this Monday's grade? That annoyed me, frankly. I told him that if he can get Rebecca to take pity on him, and not give him another F, that would be one thing, but if he shows up with another F for me to initial, it would be another strapping for him. I always thought that with discipline, the best way is to be 100% firm on the boundaries.

Another thing I noticed was that his penis was completely limp. This is not usual for my man after a spanking. I think I had strapped the sexiness out of him this time. The entire spanking had taken about 30 minutes to administer, and that was the longest I have ever had him suffering under my hand.

I then told him he had 10 minutes of nude corner time in the living room, and then his disciplining would be over with. I told him legs together, arms at his sides, nose touching the corner (this is possible, I knew: I tested it earlier, feeling very silly!). If he moved a muscle, I would put him over my knee and give him a spanking, and he would then start corner time all over again from the beginning.

He looked a tad reluctant, but I told him my sister Susan was going to come by in about 15 minutes and that if he was still in his corner when she arrived, he would not be allowed to leave it, and she would get quite an eyeful of a very well-strapped bottom. And if he wiggles in his corner when she's here, he will also get that spanking in front of her, and being completely nude, I would make sure she would get to see everything there was to see of him.

Now this was a total fabrication. Susan was not coming by at all, but this was part of my "punishment theatrics". After all was said and done, I told him that Susan sent me a text when he was in the corner, and was not coming after all.

Not knowing any of this, however, he did dash into the corner to get it over with before she showed up. Ha Ha! He held his pose like a statue. I guess he didn't want to find out if I was bluffing or not, even though I know he is turned on by the idea of it. I suppose he was also wondering what would happen if she showed up 5 minutes early!

For 10 minutes I sat there in the living room, sipping a coffee, and admiring my handiwork. As I watched, his ass and legs changed before my very eyes. They stayed fire-engine red, but the bruising, which more or less coincided with where the tip of the strap had cut into him repeatedly, was changing colour as I watched. In case you are wondering, I did not feel at all guilty. He's fine. Just knocked around a bit, but much more motivated.

After his 10 minutes were up, I told him to go bring me his diary so I could initial last week's grade. He asked if he could dress first, still worried about Susan's "imminent" arrival. I denied permission for that, so he hobbled away, all nude, to his desk to get it and present it to me.

I took my time initialing it, as he knelt before me, all naked, and worried-looking, and also marked "75 w/ strap" for posterity, then allowed him to dress, his disciplining complete.

48 comments:

  1. Wow, david certainly opened up himself to a wonderful woman and the way he reacted was perfect.If he gets a F next week I suggest you give him one or two in crack just to get his attention.

    Easytopick

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  2. Julie, You sure do know how to dish out punishment. The hug afterwards was a nice touch by david. I will say this you are one strict lady.

    Paul

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  3. Mistress Julie He should present himself to his exercise coach Rebecca in one of your thongs so she can admire your wonderful handiwork

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  4. hello Julie ,And good morning . Ive just got up and had to log on to see if you'd posted about Davids strapping , and i wasn't dissapointed . Wow you really let him have it , and so beautifully recounted its almost like being there . He's very lucky to have you taking care of his needs . I wish kim adopted some of your ingenuity . The threat of stopping the spankings altogether if he doesn't take the discipline you give him is genius . Thank you for another very enjoyable post . Hopefully speak again soon and thank you for the links to my blog and your comments on there .Enjoy your day .
    david

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  5. Enjoyed this post a lot, I can relate to what you did to david, and I kind of feel bad for him. I hate when my Wife is standing there with a strap in Her hands. Mainly because I know I've done something really wrong, and I'm going to pay the price.

    Your explanation of what took place was riveting, and had me squirming a little in my chair. david has no idea how lucky he is to have a Wife that loves him so much.

    jmaes

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  6. What a fine description of a punishment session. I look forward to seeing just how well David has learned his lesson. My Sara didnt see results with me until she began to use the force you used on David.
    Congratulations !

    hank

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  7. Easy: I don't think I should use that strap there! Too fierce. I would love to get something a little lighter, though, and have him 'spread himself open' for that. Ha Ha!

    Paul: funny, I don't see myself as overly strict. I needed to punish him for the F, so I did.

    Panty: I think my thong might present some 'coverage issues' up front!

    David: that's a nice compliment: I am 'ingenious'. Goody! Thank you, and for your and Kim's continuous inspiration for me.

    James: I enjoy hearing you get the strap too!

    Hank: do tell. How hard did it have to get before you were well and truly motivated to avoid the punishments?

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  8. Bravo Julie. That was an exceptionally skilled session, one I bet he won’t forget for a while. Your instinct to make him ask for the strap by raising his bum upward was inspired. My wife has learned to do that and it inevitably makes me feel submissive and obedient no matter what my mood is. I have never had 75 with a serious strap but that many with the bath brush gets my attention for a long time. There are three turning points in a disciplinary relationship and you passed right through one today punishing him for real. You will probably still use erotic spanking but as time goes by your spanking will be more disciplinary in nature. The second turning point (some have called it a defining moment) is when he submits to you when he isn’t in the mood or feels he doesn’t deserve punishment. That’s a big turning point in the relationship. A guy understands he is not playing an erotic game any longer and it doesn’t matter if he wants spanked or not because he is going to get it if his wife decides. The final one is punishing him in front of a witness. You have already done that in front of his trainer but for me it was getting spanked in front of her sister that cemented my wife’s authority. After that I knew others in the family would know I was a spanked husband and I couldn’t deny any more that my wife had the authority to spank me if she thought I needed it and that just cemented her control. I’m not complaining at all. But once you pass those points there is no return.
    Alan

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  9. Ms. Julie-
    I loved your description of the visit to the 'Sex Shop'. I am old enough to remember when they were very sleazy and not a very female friendly place. Your comments demonstrate just how much things have changed for the better and you are a fine example of the young generation of women who have taken charge of their relationships. And as a result enjoying the benefits, along with their husbands.

    And I don't think I can add anything further to your description of david's strapping except to say 'wow'. It almost made me feel like it was me getting strapped. I am still trying to figure out if I'm going to share this post with my Lady (Cora). She has several straps hanging on her 'Rack' and might get inspired.

    Ken

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  10. Alan: I found moving to a disciplinary spanking to be very natural for me. If he wants me to spank him, he gets his wish! That thing with Rebecca just sort of worked out - all the stars alligned. What really makes me think twice is introducing my sister. Once she knows, then next thing is my little sister will know, and then my mom, and then how will david be treated, and behave, at the next family dinner? That will be a huge milestone than I am not sure I am ready for yet.

    Ken: Yes, I seem to have had the same sense of the sex shop as you, but it must have changed sometime. Very female friendly. There were young couples in there having fun.
    Please do show the post to Cora. It would make my day knowing you got the strap because of me. Tell her to swing through the target!

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  11. Ms. Julie,

    Thank you for posting such a wonderful description of a true punishment strapping. I agree with all of the earlier posted kudos.

    David is a very lucky man.

    Michael_Michael

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  12. Hello Julie , Kim has asked me to write to you , I told her you'd given your david 75 strokes of the strap because she paddled me 75 times in that last video i posted , Which she appeared amused by i also passed on your regards and relayed the comments you had made . I also mentioned your disciplinary techniques she seemed very impressed with your attention to detail and since you suggested slippering my legs , they have been quite a target for her slippers and cane ... thank you ... not !! . Well to get back to the reason she asked me to write to you , Yesterday i raised my voice to her and made some derogatory remarks , And she feels my overall lack of respect lately needs addressing . And has asked me to ask you how you would punish such acts , since you have a natural flair for inflicting painfull punishments . She went on to say whatever you decide she will cary out tomorrow ( tues ) and will have me video it for your entertainment . Well i've asked you .. but if you couldn't possibly suggest a punishment i completely understand .. and quite frankly i dont blame you , if i were in your position i'd tell her to " go to hell lady ..." well here's hoping anyway so with morbid anticipation i await your reply .
    respectfully
    david

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  13. Julie
    Your hesitation at telling your sister suggests a real concern you should resolve before confiding in her. If it means revealing your still new lifestyle to your whole family, you should hesitate. In my wife’s case it is just one (older) sister who is kinky herself and would love to spank her own husband. As far as we know no one else in either family except my brother in law knows and I don’t mind him knowing because sooner or later he will find himself under his wife’s control. But I would not have wanted my wife to confide in her sister if it made me the object of family gossip at the next family get together. Having a witness is a powerful way to assert your authority but your success with the trainer suggest you have good instincts and could easily pick a close girlfriend to confide in. There are few women who resist watching another women spank her guy.

    Alan.

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  14. Julie,
    I logged in as Anon and requested 'real but non-revealing photo'

    I think your 'audience' would appreciate a shot of your hand holding 'strap #1' (sounds like #2 and #3 are coming soon :) )

    Cell phone cam shot would work...I'd suggest 3 shots modeling the implement showing the hand that exerts your will on your man.

    Good Luck,

    Art.

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  15. You should be proud of your husband. 3 dozen strokes is usually considered adequate, so 75 had to be a real ordeal for him. Good job, Ma'am. May I suggest that you switch-off sides from where you swing the strap. Such as, 10 from the left, then 10 from the right, etc. That way each cheek will get even treatment.

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  16. david,

    Since you raised your voice to Kim, you have to learn to not do that. Perhaps having the ability to speak loudly taken away from you will make an impression? So I would like to see Kim say something along the lines of “raise your voice to me, will you?”, stuff a pair of her knickers into your mouth, and then put you across her knee, bare naked. I would like to see you dangling across her lap (not your usual comfortable chest on bed position) with those knickers firmly in place in your naughty loud mouth. Then a nice short-handled wooden implement, such as the wooden spoon, all over your backside and the backs of your legs. And by all over, I mean ALL OVER. I would like Kim to pay particular attention to smacking the insides of your legs, right up to you waist (yes on the tender insides of your bottom cleft – she need not spread you if modesty denies – but aiming the smacks in there will surely teach you a lesson). Towards the end, she should get a sterner paddle and give you the final set with you mumbling out as best you can after each stroke “I must never raise my voice to Kim” with those knickers still stuffed in. After that, I would like to see it end by you being conducted into the corner (yes, knickers STILL in place). I want that nose touching the corner, feet together, hands at your sides, for as long as she deems suitable.

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  17. My wife occasionally used my own leather belt to strap me (but she had plenty of other instruments!) until this past Summer when we stayed in one of those 'Agroturismo' farms in Southern Italy -and when the older (widowed) homesteader showed us the thick bridle she claimed to have applied many times on her late husband's backside! J. (my wife) offered to buy it from her - and then proceeded to wield it on my bare butt under the old lady's approving eyes! Now that we are back home, that leather bridle has been used several times -- and with good effect, believe me!

    L.

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  18. Hi L,

    That's hot, imagining this old lady, who obviously got a huge kick out of disciplining her man, be allowed to watch your wife giving you harsh discipline on the bare. I only hope some thoughtful young thing does that for me when I'm old like that!

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  19. My current concern is that J. may be planning to use that Italian bridle under the eyes of her sister -or of one of her girlfriends! I know she told her sister about what happened this Summer in Italy, and she has the leather bridle hanging on the wall in the kitchen -where it cannot fail to be noticed by her girlfriends (who may, for all I know, have been told about its 'history')... The holiday season may well involve some serious strapping, I fear!

    L.

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  20. As it turns out, that leather bridle was used only on Epiphany (Dia de los Reyes) as a culmination of the 'Twelve Days of Christmas' --with none of J's girlfriends in attendance (but several of them have seen it, and know how J. uses it)

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  21. L. got another serving of the Italian bridle over the weekend and (as he mentions in an above comment) he knows that I have told my sister about the way I acquired it.
    Good! It means that he will be prepared when I use it (as I fully plan to do!) when my sister comes to visit next week!
    J. (2)

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  22. B. (my sister) got to wield the Italian bridle on two occasions during the week she stayed with us -and I must say she was up to the task (as she was when I invited her to use the martinet and one of my maple switches on L's bare derrière!) He actually thanked her afterwards! I rather look forward to the Summer, when the three of us will be spending some time together in B's little cottage in Burgundy!
    J.(2)

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    1. Now that B. has had a hand at it (rather than watching you spank me), I am rather apprehensive about what may happen this coming Summer! I also remember that her 'little cottage in Burgundy' is close to a large wooded area -and we both know what I am likely to get in such surroundings...

      L.

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    2. Yes indeed -and, this time, someone will be around to witness your being flogged on the bare in an open-air location (and also, almost certainly, being asked to give me a hand!)
      Most of the 'action', however, will probably take place indoors (most likely in her kitchen or in the attic)...
      Something to look forward to, eh?
      J(2)

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    3. In a manner of speaking...

      I don't know what your sister may keep in her attic -but, last time we stayed with her in Burgundy, I remember seeing some sturdy wooden spoons and spatulas in the kitchen...
      What else do you think she may have in store? Or will I just have to wait and find out?

      Of course, I assume that you will be packing the martinet in your suitcase --as you always do when we are traveling...

      L.

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    4. Good guess! But, meanwhile, get ready for your first outdoors flogging this Sunday!

      Forget about Easter eggs - you will be getting 'whipped eggs' on your burning backside!

      J(2)

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    5. I certainly did! Great opening of the open-air whipping season (which, like baseball, will run through October -but, hopefully, with fewer 'performances'...)

      L.

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  23. I really hate to be a nag, but for all of you, please be careful when using a tawse on the backs of the legs. The bottom is okay, and the fleshy part of the thigh just below the bottom, but don't go down near the knees. You can do real damage there, including causing potentially fatal blood clots and ligament damage. A tawse of the type you describe is not like a simple strap. I love a good spanking as much as anyone, but we really need to be safe here.

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    1. thank you for posting. That's a good reminder for me and everybody

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    2. J(2) please take note while using the 'Italian bridle' -even if (so far) you have used it only on my (bare) backside...

      L.

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    3. Your derrière is my only target, my dear (even if some erratic lashes of the martinet occasionally land on your upper thighs) -but I have noticed that, over the years, the skin on your backside has become tougher, or more 'leathery', which means that I now have to paddle/whip/cane/strap you more vigorously than I used to in order to achieve the "desired result" -which, as always, is to have you cry, beg for mercy, then have you thank me on your knees and kiss my hand before being (optionally) assigned some 'corner time'...

      Discipline (as well you know) is what it's all about -and you will be getting a dose of it later on this Easter day as we go for a hike in the woods (first -but not last!- such outing this year...}

      J (2)

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    4. You seem to have a knack for locating suitably secluded spots (and suitably sturdy switches) when we go hiking in the woods -and today was no exception!
      Intermittent sunshine and a relatively chilly temperature... but you saw to it that my exposed backside was swiftly brought to the burning point!
      The red (now purple) stripes you left on my poor 'derrière' -in addition to the usual indoors doses of the martinet I get over the weekend- will (I hope) keep me on my best behavior until... (your call!)

      Thank you, J!

      L.

      PS: Yes, this was the first session of the 'season' -but I prefer not to think about what other open air 'performances' you have in store for me, whether here or overseas...

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    5. No complaints, I hope, about the way B. and I 'performed' in Burgundy - nor about the way I flogged your naughty derrière during the rest of our summer trip?

      Now that we are back home (as you have undoubtedly noticed!) standard disciplinary procedures are back -if you will pardon the expression- "in full swing" (and I commend you for bringing me a nice new supply of maple switches for me to use as needed!

      J(2)

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    6. How could I forget that week in Burgundy -and all the memorable floggings you delivered during the rest of our vacation?

      I just got a taste (yesterday) of what you call 'standard disciplinary procedures' -and I can still feel it! As ordered, I will bring you a new set of maple switches this coming Saturday (and I know that, as usual, you will be monitoring the way I perform my weekend chores -wielding the martinet, a maple switch, or (God forbid!) your rattan cane of your riding crop...

      L.

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    7. Well, it has been a long while since I haven't used the strap on your backside, hasn't it? Last time I remember was during the "Twelve Days of Christmas" series - remember?

      Time to have you get a taste of my 'Italian bridle' don't you think?... Watch out - and try to behave!

      J(2)

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    8. Well, i DID get a taste of it in late June, shortly before we left for Europe - and another one this past Tuesday! Thank goodness you didn't pack it in your suitcase -just the martinet and a hairbrush...

      Now that we are back home - and even though open-air sessions in the woods will still be on the program for a while- I hope you will appreciate that I just brought you a dozen maple switches for indoors use as you see fit...

      L.

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    9. What I "appreciate" is the fact that you delivered them on schedule -and they are suitably whippy (as you undoubtedly discovered on Thursday!)... But, as you rightly noted, open-air sessions are on my agenda through the next couple of months (during which, of course, my in-house instruments will not remain idle...)

      J(2)

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    10. Given the balmy weather, those open-air sessions went on through early November, but (fortunately), it was too cold when her sister came to visit for Thanksgiving (and over the next ten days) - but my derrière was nevertheless well taken care of (indoors) by the two of them!

      L.

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    11. And now for the Twelve Days of Christmas - with a firm hand spanking to inaugurate the series!

      J(2)

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  24. Hello Julie , funny to see that your journey in that FLR lifestyle started the opposite of ours , dan and I . We started off as for punishments only but since I now enjoy it way beyond anyway I was expecting it , it seems that dan will get a little more than what he was asking for , poor thing ! You're really inspiring and fun to read ! Keep on the good work ;)

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    1. Hi Lilly!

      Thank you. I will enjoy exchanging emails with you.

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  25. Miss Julie,

    I am finding your blog an inspiration. I am just in the process of convincing my somewhat reluctant wife that an FLR relationship like you and david have is worth investigating. I have to confess that the erotic side of spanking is probably what put this in my mind, but as I came from an upbringing where a red ass was the consequence of choice for many of my childhood and adolescent shenanigans I do remember just how painful they can be. And also what a deterrence to misbehavior they also offer. In my outside world I would be considered a successful man, I am finding I am more and more taking advantage of my wife's easy going personality and have come to realize that when I look at the root causes of most, if not all of our disagreements, I find the behaviour of a spoiled little boy feeding those flames. This entry hit a cord with me, although a little eroticism is great, I believe I need a good old fashioned thrashing to set me back on track. And staying on track is the next challenge, I know as a youngster I didn't just get one spanking and learn all the lessons, it seemed that even if my mind didn't need to be reminded, my backside did!

    But as I said my wife is a little reluctant and she is still being convinced that this is a solution. As I present this to her I will be directing her to your and the "wifesincharge" blogs as some folks I have followed that this lifestyle seems to be working for.

    Thankyou for your entry and guidance on this journey.

    Jake

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  26. Very nice to meet you jake. Thank you for all the nice comments also. Have your wife email me. I can give her some tips on how hard you boys actually need it before it can be considered punishment grade.

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  27. As I said my wife is somewhat reluctant about this step and although I am thinking this is the way to go it is not the way she is leading me. I was truly looking forward to this journey!

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    1. Well, I hope you get what you deserve, jake.

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  28. Miss Julie: Thank-you for the offer, I think, and I will certainly relay it to my wife if she makes a positive decision. She is still somewhat reluctant and I think that she shouldn't be pushed into a decision as important as this one. I for one certainly don't want her to feel like she is in a place where she doesn't want to be. That will not be comfortable for her and probably not for me either. So only time will tell.

    Dan: I read your note of caution and I sure that if we make this lifestyle a part of our lives I will harken back to it on many occasions. This decision is hers to make I have made that clear and her wish will be my command.

    jake

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    1. No pressure, jake. Show her my blog and tell her I am friendly and respond to email.

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